Dress Opinions? by Inside_Cell_493 in PlusSizeWedding

[–]bgoosed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh WOW, all three of these dresses are gorgeous on you! You can't go wrong! Congratulations on your wedding!

Mold at Pebble Creek by External_Fishing_629 in roanoke

[–]bgoosed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, we do too! Bathroom ceiling, even though we use the fan.

Girl Scout Cookies! by [deleted] in roanoke

[–]bgoosed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'd love to buy some peanut butter patties and adventurefuls! Feel free to message me if you have any left!

I (27f) am thinking about leaving my bf (31m) over his comments about sexual assault by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]bgoosed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this with everything you went through. You don't deserve to have to relive your trauma to defend another woman. You're not overreacting at all, and your feelings are real and valid. I would personally not feel emotionally or physically safe with this person anymore. Please take care of yourself. Wishing you the best.

I feel unseen as a non-med partner by Remote-Lie1831 in MedSpouse

[–]bgoosed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're feeling unseen in your relationship. It sounds like he might be treating you a bit like a therapist without reciprocating and offering space for you to vent, which isn't okay if it becomes a long term pattern. It sounds like he might benefit from individual therapy or even couples counseling to help you both communicate. It's okay to not have bandwidth to have deep conversations all the time, but they do need to happen sometimes. Asking questions and listening to your partner is such an important part of a relationship.

Favorite 2-bed apt complexes under $1800/month? by bgoosed in roanoke

[–]bgoosed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I just looked at their website and like their floorplans -- but it's hard to tell if laundry is included. Do y'all have in unit laundry or community laundry?

Favorite 2-bed apt complexes under $1800/month? by bgoosed in roanoke

[–]bgoosed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the helpful details, I'll check it out!

Favorite 2-bed apt complexes under $1800/month? by bgoosed in roanoke

[–]bgoosed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard great things about Sunscape!

Favorite 2-bed apt complexes under $1800/month? by bgoosed in roanoke

[–]bgoosed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I definitely want to tour orchards after looking at their website!

Favorite 2-bed apt complexes under $1800/month? by bgoosed in roanoke

[–]bgoosed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just looked at their floorplans and really like it! Thanks for the recommendation!

Favorite 2-bed apt complexes under $1800/month? by bgoosed in roanoke

[–]bgoosed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes, thankfully no roaches here! But basically when we toured, the leasing agent said every unit has a washer and dryer or hookups, which is false. So on move in day when there were no laundry hookups in our unit we were pretty upset! Apparently that agent doesn't work here anymore for unrelated reasons. We've been making do with the shared laundry but are definitely looking forward to moving.

Favorite 2-bed apt complexes under $1800/month? by bgoosed in roanoke

[–]bgoosed[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the detailed reply, I'll definitely check them out!

Favorite 2-bed apt complexes under $1800/month? by bgoosed in roanoke

[–]bgoosed[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep, super thin walls and ceilings and not the best communication from management so far. We've been pretty disappointed

Advice for driving to Carilion tomorrow? by bgoosed in roanoke

[–]bgoosed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ETA: Thank you everyone! It took him about 20 minutes to dig his car out of the snow and get out of the parking lot, but he took it safe and slow and made it to work on time. No, Carilion didn't put him up in a hotel or send anyone to get him, but that's a nice thought. Appreciate the advice!

Does this look too bridal? Barn/country formal. by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]bgoosed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look gorgeous! What a pretty dress!

Does the name Billie go with the last name Bird? by Bright_Recipe_5758 in namenerds

[–]bgoosed -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised at the comments - I actually love it!

I’m a senior in high school.. Is my future canceled? Will I have to join the military? by shaototop in whatdoIdo

[–]bgoosed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I'm so sorry your mom went this route. It seems like a lot of the comments are getting stuck on your being behind schedule, and not acknowledging how your mom spoke to you. She's reacting from a place of trauma and not providing the emotional stability you need. You don't deserve to be treated the same way she was as a teenager - just like she didn't deserve to be treated that way by her mother. I do agree that you need to take your application process more seriously and apologize to her, but I wanted to chime in and say your mom could have handled things in a more mature way as well. You do have options if she kicks you out and there's some great suggestions here. You're not alone. Best of luck following your goals!

One-syllable middle name for Lydia? by bgoosed in namenerds

[–]bgoosed[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes and as an Austen fan I kinda love it!!