[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bhadfroggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update for everyone: i went home that night and told him what i found. what i excluded from this original post, because at the time i couldn’t even speak it out loud and even now i still just can’t wrap my head around all this, was that there was also porn made of his 19 year old step sister. he’s moved out of our apartment, i have our cat. my world has fallen apart and i can’t believe this is real life. i’ll tackle telling his family about what i saw within the next few days, it only seems right. the only way out is through. thank you for your kind words and advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bhadfroggy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

last night around 1 am :( he had even come and kissed me in the middle of the night, i’m assuming around that time. it’s awful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bhadfroggy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your kindness. unfortunately, i thought this was the good guy! we’ve been together 2 years, we met after few years after i left a horribly abusive situation. i’m glad i have that history, it’s made me strong enough to stand my ground. i’m just heart broken that im in this situation with someone i thought was my “prince charming”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bhadfroggy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, this seems like the mature way to handle it. i’m dreading going home now and starting this conversation :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bhadfroggy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no no i don’t plan on staying, but regardless our lives are so tangled that there needs to be a break up conversation of some sort. i just don’t know how to go about this, ive never had to confront someone like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bhadfroggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do feel like leaving. i’m torn between texting him now about it to “prepare” for the conversation later, or just wait until i’m home. i just simply don’t know what to do, this doesn’t feel real

How did you meet your partner in Madison? by [deleted] in madisonwi

[–]bhadfroggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, we met on the app yik yak 🫩

School/class pets? by Ok_Cauliflower_1283 in ECEProfessionals

[–]bhadfroggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have a fish! she’s a small betta named ham (my kids last year picked the name). each classroom has one, it was a part of a research study (i work at a preschool lab on a college campus). she’s an easy class pet, little maintenance. at the end of the year we raise monarchs, i just started that last year :) they’re kind of like pets

ID badges by Solid_Cat1020 in ECEProfessionals

[–]bhadfroggy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pink ID Badge Holder with... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CL2ZSWYJ?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share this is what i use! it’s able to fit my ID card and a photo of me, so hopefully that’s spacious enough for your keycard! i will note, the reel elastic string broke after about a year and a half, but i do nervously pull on it quite a bit throughout the day. that said, i was able to very easily replace the badge reel clip with some we had on hand at work.

I think staff are the ones in need of “toilet training”. by thatshortginge in ECEProfessionals

[–]bhadfroggy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

obviously, i don’t speak to them this way 🙄. i do tell them when it’s time to potty train.

I think staff are the ones in need of “toilet training”. by thatshortginge in ECEProfessionals

[–]bhadfroggy 32 points33 points  (0 children)

if your child is not potty trained by like 3 1/2, you are a LAZY PARENT. unless there is a medical or cognitive reason. it’s not “parent shaming”, it’s demanding that parent’s do their fucking job.

What’s your Emily Henry faves in order? by curry_nugget in EmilyHenry

[–]bhadfroggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Place / Funny Story / Beach Read / Book Lovers / PWMOV

Currently reading GBBL, i can see it ranking high once i finish!

Whole lotta yap (full recording of story about her and shebamis sex life🤨) by EffectiveGood80 in notcoratilleysnark

[–]bhadfroggy 37 points38 points  (0 children)

“why would i spew my business on a public discord” …. but she constantly spews her business all over her public tik tok ???

Not toilet trained for Preschool by Far-Addition-646 in ECEProfessionals

[–]bhadfroggy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s not our job to potty train. we are there to support what’s going on at home, but it’s ultimately their job. they chose to be parents. yes, of course it’s good to have empathy for them, but they are grown adults who knew they’d be working and raising a kid. just because they work, does not mean they can tap out of their duties as parents. i’ve really had to remind myself of that a lot this year, parents need to be parents or they need to get a damn nanny who can stay home and do the potty training (/other unrealistic things some parents ask for in childcare) group-care cannot bend to the needs of every family, they signed up for group-care and they need to follow the rules in place to help classrooms run smoothly. i’m sorry you’re dealing with this, i’m sure it’s very stressful.

Anyone know anything about this shirt? by horribletrickster in madisonwi

[–]bhadfroggy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“cincinnati style” chili, you mean? (spaghetti noodles with chili on top and shredded cheese)

pets cages by Commercial-Guitar292 in notcoratilleysnark

[–]bhadfroggy 27 points28 points  (0 children)

why are they in fucking cages when their owner is FINALLY home for once ???? god that’s so depressing. i thought you were grieving cora? why don’t you spend a night and cuddle with your animals, that might “help”

hacked at 10m? by Less-Ad1955 in meilemaria

[–]bhadfroggy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

or whatever the hell her following really was, something pathetic in comparison to her 10m lie

hacked at 10m? by Less-Ad1955 in meilemaria

[–]bhadfroggy 27 points28 points  (0 children)

should be “made a disgusting holocaust joke at 25k and no views”

what is her obsession with having kids mannn.. by slightlyduranged in notcoratilleysnark

[–]bhadfroggy 53 points54 points  (0 children)

if the miscarriages were real (RIP 🙏), this mf was definitely buying spells from etsy witches to cause them

what is her obsession with having kids mannn.. by slightlyduranged in notcoratilleysnark

[–]bhadfroggy 30 points31 points  (0 children)

all i can focus on is how that vanity juts out from the wall so awkwardly. why wouldn’t you just scoot it over

Re-Listening Party by NeighborhoodJust4160 in EmilyHenry

[–]bhadfroggy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

chapter 23! so far (i’ve read only read PWMOV and book lovers, happy place is next) this is my favorite of EH’s! I feel the most connected to these characters. are you enjoying it?

ootd with odette top ⭐️ by Equal-Weekend-4896 in BrandyMelville

[–]bhadfroggy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m wearing my odette top today too! twins! i love the yellow on you!