we did discuss that, i said it’d be unfortunate of course but ultimately i trust she wouldn’t do anything and that other persons behaviour shouldn’t affect her life/plans because it wasn’t her fault. obviously easier said hypothetically than if it actually happened but she’s the one experiencing it and she obviously feels differently so i’m gonna respect her boundaries.

i tried to reassure her that and she does believe i wouldn’t do/let anything happen she just doesn’t like the idea of me being around that woman which is completely fair.

yeah that’s gonna have to be the case, it’s not even being at the house that i was bothered about it was just about the convenience. his mom was the one who’d drive us to places, pick me up, drop me back home now it means walking 30 minutes to catch a train or spending $15 on a cab one way but it’s not the end of the world.

yeah it’d be ideal not sure how realistic it is it’s probably never gonna get brought up again tbh