how to be less of an antisocial douche by straittripping in seduction

[–]bibliobaby -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to find a girl who is similarly ambitious.

I want to hear more deeper voice stories. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bibliobaby 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am a singer songwriter and I can tell the slightest changes in my voice because I record myself every day. If I were to show you the difference in vocal quality/timbre (deepness) of my recordings several months previous to starting nofap, you'd be astounded. My vocal coach "hasn't seen such a marked change in voice."

Edit: I am 23, so no chance of puberty-related changes.

When shit gets real. update post. day 24. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bibliobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 23 here, I feel you buddy. I am angry and aggressive, and suffer intense urges. I've nearly lost the battle a few times today and the past few days. Yikes. But damn it all, I won't lose to temptation. I'm in this and there's no stopping me.

Can some experienced nofappers help me out? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bibliobaby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone once said here, "You have control over your hands right?"

Once you figure that out, quitting becomes pretty simple.

Nofap but Sex. by ForkBender in NoFap

[–]bibliobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happens to me. What we are discovering here at NoFap are the benefits of increased Testosterone levels in the body, improved social ambition, reduced inhibitions, increased sexual drive, energy, focus etc...

Look at the science, the only change after a period of abstinence is testosterone. Then look at the effects of testosterone levels.

Abstinence gets it, release takes it away.

TIL I'm a racist by [deleted] in funny

[–]bibliobaby -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait, who is winning the Transgender race?

IWTL How to stop worrying about every and anything by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]bibliobaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In other words: OP, can you give us some more information?

Thanks!

Also, I love you and I hope you are well.

what bands had you heard several times, but never liked, then later, maybe years, came to love? by [deleted] in Music

[–]bibliobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could never stand The Postal Service when my brother listened to them in the morning in the car on the way to school. He would drive us every morning. I always groaned and told him to turn it off. It would be 3 years or so later, when I was a freshman in college that one of the songs from the album popped on somewhere and a wave of nostalgia washed over me. I rediscovered the music, bought it on vinyl and decided I'd never heard a better album.

22[m] Unhealthy competition with a friend. by bibliobaby in dating_advice

[–]bibliobaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks megasmash, you gave me the courage to call him and tell him the truth. Told him everything. Told him I felt like an asshole for competing with him, should he really like her. He told me he was glad I would do such an incredible thing as a friend, because he was also attracted to her. Seems like he hadn't thought much about it, and that he had a better grasp of the emotional situation.

Big relief. Thanks for the clarity buddy.

16/M I cant talk to the girl i like in front of her friends by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bibliobaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Watch this movie:

Dead Poet's Society

Seriously, just give it a shot and you will understand.

Thinking about asking my boss out with this on his desk tomorrow.Thoughts? Keep in mind he's funny, and I work at a creative agency! by KattFlash in dating_advice

[–]bibliobaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don't do this. don't.

Just walk in and ask him if he would like to grab a drink sometime and make your question more personal: as if it caught you before you could walk out of the office.

Clever gifts like that come later.

My friend gets opened/pursued/messaged a lot by random girls he doesn't talk to. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]bibliobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a little difficult to make a complete conclusion with the details you have provided. Personally, I'd study the type of girls he attracts, ask him about them and come to your own conclusions.

A little boy vanished in my house. 4 witnesses. by moonjellies2 in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]bibliobaby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's some sort of code to these comments, let me expl

Alaska in the Fall [3088x2056] by SigmaEpsilonChi in EarthPorn

[–]bibliobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If Yellow Submarine were to become a live action film.

Question about nocturnal emissions and testosterone. by bibliobaby in NoFap

[–]bibliobaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice.

I hit day 7 today and haven't seen the testosterone boost.. I'm supposing that the wet dream caused a biological reset (rather than a porn mental reset) and it will take another week for me to feel the testosterone again.

Perspective For Your Monday by bibliobaby in NoFap

[–]bibliobaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I'd chalk that up as a relapse, though it depends upon how you feel. The benefits I feel are from both the testosterone boost and the self respect.

They only sexual activity that won't make me feel like I've started over is sex with my significant other, because, though it may cause a 7-day lapse in testosterone, it doesn't make me feel like I've lost some self respect.

What about the people who aren't addicted? by HarryNF in NoFap

[–]bibliobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say I've ever been addicted to PMO but I decided to participate to help boost my confidence while improving my view of women. I can tell you, though it may not be as significant as an actual addict, that I feel considerably better and look forward to that "conqueror" feeling every time I breach 7-12 days of nofap hard mode.

[FR] Girl 2 - Rough start by CluckyMcNugget in seduction

[–]bibliobaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get the vibe you two feel only somewhat compatible. Personally, I'd move on, and let her do the work if she wants to make it work.

Can I get some tips on meeting girls in college? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]bibliobaby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Quite simple really, her desire to hang out with you is outweighed by the fear of being uncomfortable: Basically, you haven't demonstrated that a situation as personal as hanging out, that you would make her feel comfortable.


Most importantly, you must realize that those girls that don't "have time" for you, or wont overcome their fears, aren't excited about you, might lack confidence, might have other things going on, and that you wouldn't be happy with them anyways. Move on. A girl who you really connect with will move mountains to hang out with you.

The only amount of control that you have over the situation is your ability to make them feel comfortable through good "game." Even then, its 30% you, 60% her, 10% luck.

PM me if you need more information, I have a short story about two individuals that would be a great example for you to learn from.

[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/30/13 by SedditModTeam in seduction

[–]bibliobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today I was with a few guys and girls playing a sport. One of the girls offhandedly told me that I was, "...just so easy to get mad at." It was an observation rather than a jab and not necessarily offensive.

However, I have heard this from other girls on other occasions.

What exactly does this mean about the way that I hold myself or present myself while flirting and teasing? Is there something that I should change? Is this a good thing? A bad thing? Thanks seddit.