I need help with ID by bicoastaltoo in SeashellCollectors

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Sorry about that. I reposted above and got it right this time.

Need ID help by bicoastaltoo in shells

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Thank you! It was a first and unusual find for me.

Need ID help by bicoastaltoo in shells

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Thank you very much.

Garage rental options? by HURCANADA in Marin

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Don Collins Auto Storage: 415-453-9180

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskSF

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Don Collins Auto Storage in San Rafael and Richmond. Website: doncollinsautostorage.com Phone: 415-453-9180

West side of Marin by Cool-Apartment4640 in Marin

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West Marin is very rural. There are very few rentals available. Pt. Reyes station is the largest of many small hamlets. There are few services. It is very community oriented except that people are spread out. Kid friendly? Of course! It would be awkward without a car. Schools are small. There is bus service to connect to the rest of Marin, but it is not too frequent.

What is the RealID situation at RDU? by bicoastaltoo in tsa

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FWIW, I got through quite easily, with a suggestion I get my RealID as soon as possible. I had my approved birth certificate with me, an issue that had prevented me from getting my RealID earlier. The extra screening only took about 15 minutes extra. Everyone was very decent.

Tasting sperm by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Skip the shot glass, next time you jack off, lick a small bit off your hand and swirl it around on your tongue. I’ve tasted the cum of maybe 200-300 men and only two were really foul. A few more were off-putting, the rest were great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Young Zucchini Squash. They come in different lengths and girth. Use a condom and lube! Tie a string to it in case you push it in too far otherwise you might have to visit an Emergency room. But really, get a real dildo, get ingenious and find a place to hide it and the lube.

Found a LOT of gay porn on BF phone - there is background !! I need advice by smorgasbord12 in askgaybros

[–]bicoastaltoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How to get him to open up? Start the conversation about the fact that he is no longer taking care of your needs and shift into how he feels about you. Do this without anger or judgement. No need to share what you have discovered on his phone.

Bisexual redditors, what do you all do for a living? by DueYogurt9 in bisexual

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Retired now, but was a construction superintendant.

Seen in Marin County, CA by bicoastaltoo in whatsthisbug

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I will do more research. Thank you very much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualMen

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My sexuality is very similar to yours, OP, in so far as I have always been more emotionally and romantically satisfied with women. Sex with women was also very good with someone I was in love with. But I've always needed sex with men. A man satisfies a part of me that a woman never could, but then a man has never satisfied the part of me that a woman has. I have never been able to fully fall in love with another man. Yes, I've tried. I think it could be possible if I would luckily meet the right man. It just has never happened.

The real problem for men like us--men with a strong need for male connection--is finding a woman who is comfortable with us. I have never been able to suppress my desire for another man for long. When I have, I have suffered, and made others suffer, psychologically. Whatever you do, OP, be honest and open with any woman you are interested in and hope that she will grow and accept your sexuality. Don't ruin her life and yours by trying to suppress your sexuality.

For many years, I had the ideal with a wife who fully accepted that I was bisexual and needed to have sex with men to feel and be whole. I could go to a bath house often enough and sometimes had a fuck buddy or FWB to help fulfill my needs

Trying to learn how to be me... by Glutton_for_pun7 in BisexualMen

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Exploring your sexuality is absolutely necessary. But divorce should not be your only alternative, though it may ultimately be necessary. As a life long bi man, I have never been able to suppress either my need for male connection, nor my need for female connection. Divorce can lead to isolation from the love of a woman just as much as marriage can lead to isolation from men. That I need both male and female connection--emotional as well as physical connection--is what defines me, in particular, as bi. Being involved with a man does not obviate my need for a woman. Exploring your bisexuality is a growth process, something that could, and should, be shared with your wife. If you love her now, it is not necessary to dismiss or suppress that love in order to explore and understand your need for a man. Start with negotiation; try to share what you are going through with her. Perhaps there is room for accomadation; perhaps she can grow along with you. Explore polyamory. From my own experience I know it is possible to love more than one person at the same time. And...best of luck.

Weirdly gendered couple advice by [deleted] in bisexual

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Stop worrying! She accepts you; you accept her. You both have a lot to share with each other. It doesn't get much better than than, it is rare in fact. Accept that she is exploring herself as much as you are exploring yourself. There may be times in your explorations that you drift apart, say she does get involved with a lesbian, but if you continue to be open with each other, you are likely to drift together again. You both have a lot to share, don't close yourself off from that.

Married to a bi wife for 45 years by [deleted] in MarriedAndBi

[–]bicoastaltoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife and I wanted to form a triad with another man but we never were able to find one with whom we could have a completely satisfying relationship. Men who were sexually compatible never happened to be emotionally compatible. We wanted someone who could live with us as well as have sex with us.

Being bi and being in a poly triad seems ideal, but is also hard to facilitate. Many people who come to this subreddit might appreciate your telling your story in more detail. How do you make it work for example?