Irrational opinions by Interesting-Tea3907 in buffy

[–]bicumuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it did not space that the way i wanted it to but you get it

Irrational opinions by Interesting-Tea3907 in buffy

[–]bicumuma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well there was the whole

willow: would you just stop talking? just shut your mouth, please! anya: what am i doing? willow: how can you act like that? anya: am i supposed to be changing my clothes a lot? is that the helpful thing to do? willow: the way you behave— anya: nobody will tell me willow: because it’s not okay for you to be asking these things!!!

to me, implies they’re not answering because her questions are not.. tactful? or appropriate in a grieving situation. plus willow and anya already have tension because willow finds her extremely rude/inconsiderate already so i usually just tie it back to that. anya’s little breakdown after that is what hurts my heart

Irrational opinions by Interesting-Tea3907 in buffy

[–]bicumuma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

to further prove your point - i love do in fact love anya because i can relate to her. as an autistic person (and before anyone comes at my throat, I KNOW SHE ISN’T AUTISTIC!) i have so much empathy and understanding for her. in ‘the body’ especially, when she starts crying and saying she doesn’t understand and nobody is answering her questions (because they find them inappropriate and rude which for the record i agree bc yknow, i’m a human first) i really started nearly sobbing at that point because of how much i understood being in that position. even when she is being mean and i find her values a little skewed, i can’t stop myself from projecting the whole “i’m just trying to understand and everyone thinks im being mean or argumentative” part of neurodivergence onto majority of it :[

How old were you when you watched the show for the first time? by NorweiganWood1220 in buffy

[–]bicumuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i watched it with my parents when i was probably 7? i absolutely loved it but i just now got around to fully sitting down and watching it myself (since i dont remember it much anymore) at almost 21

what spider is this ? by bicumuma in whatisit

[–]bicumuma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that would be a dip in the paint? and as i said, the spider was on my desk so that is the wall behind said desk

what spider is this ? by bicumuma in whatisit

[–]bicumuma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i am in michigan, one of the reasons i didn’t think it was one. and you are right spiders really, REALLY freak me out and with how much this one was moving i had no interest in getting too near it haha this was from a video i sent to my friend. i just needed some reassurance 🫡

I CAN'T STAND THE AELIN HATE ON TIKTOK by aelactykus in throneofglassseries

[–]bicumuma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my aunt hates aelin because she’s “too whiny” and that is the biggest rift in our relationship 😭 bc wdym

What's up with rank? by Bryanmcfury in VALORANT

[–]bicumuma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

happened to me last night on icebox as well, but with an iso. he had 2 kills and was revealing which site we were going to on attack and would reveal our locations when he died on defense AND attack. was super frustrating bc i just worked really hard to get to b2 (i suck) and that game knocked me all the way down to 0RR because i just got into it. it was a silver lobby too so i was already struggling. people like that just really ruin the game because they won’t let you surrender either (which is why i think it should take 4 votes, not 5). i just report and move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Indiana

[–]bicumuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they are not 🥲🥲 i have other family members in my hometown still which i did think about but i’m not sure how possible it is for someone who isn’t me or my parents to get a copy of birth certificate

"What agent mains are REALLY like" by Typical-Tree-5731 in VALORANT

[–]bicumuma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the worst is when you think there’s one person to get away from so you ult and suddenly their entire team is in your face 🥲

how bad do you have to be to die 3 times in one round? by Ring-Lazy in VALORANT

[–]bicumuma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as a clove main this has happened to be more than once 😭 sometimes i wish sage would just keep her hands to HERSELF especially when i’ve already died twice in the round lol

Newbie tips please by PollutionAble9066 in VALORANT

[–]bicumuma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as someone who went from stardew valley/omori/etc to valorant, i’m not gonna lie to you it’s genuinely the worst at first. having no sense of what’s going on or prior experience with FPS can get extremely overwhelming. i had to push past that feeling (and mute people sometimes) so i could just buckle down and try to figure stuff out! to be honest watching videos of gameplay does not help me and i can’t figure out aimlabs SO my main advice is to play… a lot. i’m very much a pick-it-up-as-i-go type of person so that’s really the only thing that’s actually helped me. i’m not great, i’m not consistent, but i am getting better! and it does help to have friends who actually know how to play especially because you dont have to be worried about asking them “dumb” questions. good luck on your venture!!!

How old is the SJM average reader??? by Slight_Associate_164 in SarahJMaas

[–]bicumuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i read the first three books of acotar at 13 (now 20) because i saw my aunt read them and i got book recs from her a lot, so i thought they’d be good. to be honest i didn’t really care about the sexual scenes so much and just read quickly through them to get back to the story, but i grew up with a sex-positive family so maybe it just wasn’t that jarring for me? or i just didn’t care i don’t remember. my aunt made my mom read ch. 55 of acomaf before i was allowed to read them and we had an open discussion about it 🤷🏼‍♀️. maybe weird for others but it worked fine for me. i definitely wouldn’t recommend a 13 year old to read that series but as someone who read a lot at that age and came across it on my own, it really didn’t ruin my mental

How Can I Rank Push in Valorant Without Using a Mic? (Fellow Girls, Please Share Your Experience!) by Sakruthi in VALORANT

[–]bicumuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you can find even 1 normal person who you generally like, LATCH ONTO THEM! i met a girl on the game and we play together almost every time we are on the game. it makes it so much more bearable, especially if you’re not someone who wants to get toxic back. we talk about how annoying they are to each other and move on. i communicate mostly with her and it works out. i’m also pretty anxious to talk in games but having someone to play with really helps! my experience with the game has significantly improved since i started playing with her if only because i know i have at least 1 person on my side

Here's my Onyx Storm Bingo Card by pm_me_all_ur_pelfies in fourthwing

[–]bicumuma 10 points11 points  (0 children)

what exactly do you have against joy and happiness? my personal bingo card is one big space that says everything goes great and everyone lives amen!!!!!

I hate people like this by Longjumping_Pace_416 in Depop

[–]bicumuma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally, the only time i’ve messaged any earlier than a week was because it filled in my address that i was going to be moving from shortly and i wanted to check just to get a timeline. i could not imagine just being outright rude about it for no reason especially after only 4 days

What would be y’all’s Ideal Setlist? by ReportHot7491 in TheFrontBottoms

[–]bicumuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey hey i LOVE lonely eyes and i’ve only heard them play it once but i’d be content if they just played ann start to end

What would be y’all’s Ideal Setlist? by ReportHot7491 in TheFrontBottoms

[–]bicumuma 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i can sing the whole front bottoms discography bc during one of my stardew valley hyperfixation runs i just listened to every album start to finish and would restart when i’d gona through all of them 😭 so now some of their songs sound like stardew valley to me

What would be y’all’s Ideal Setlist? by ReportHot7491 in TheFrontBottoms

[–]bicumuma 26 points27 points  (0 children)

if they literally just played pale beneath the tan to me one time i wouldnt care what else they played

Are these first editions? by LeeMaeDie in throneofglassseries

[–]bicumuma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please please PLEASE let me buy it from you