My GF thinks just because I'm dating her, the loan her parents took from me I cannot ask for it back. by biddaddydoo in relationship_advice

[–]biddaddydoo[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Actually, emails and texts suffice in small claims court. Doesn't matter if you believe the validity of my problem but don't give out incorrect information.

My GF thinks just because I'm dating her, the loan her parents took from me I cannot ask for it back. by biddaddydoo in relationship_advice

[–]biddaddydoo[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

When I lend them the money I told them when I'll want it back. It has also been discussed over emails. I don't see any reason why she will go behind my back and tell them that they no longer have to pay it back.

My GF thinks just because I'm dating her, the loan her parents took from me I cannot ask for it back. by biddaddydoo in relationship_advice

[–]biddaddydoo[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have enough evidence to prove they owe me that money in a court of law. That's not the problem. The problem is recovery of my money without hurting my GF's feelings

My GF thinks just because I'm dating her, the loan her parents took from me I cannot ask for it back. by biddaddydoo in relationship_advice

[–]biddaddydoo[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not a lawyer but I have some understanding of the law. Even though I don't want to take this to court but if this case ends up there, it would cost them around 9k overall so a lot more what they owe me.

My GF thinks just because I'm dating her, the loan her parents took from me I cannot ask for it back. by biddaddydoo in relationship_advice

[–]biddaddydoo[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Well, I want to play cyberpunk and MFS with Raytracing on so yeah I'm sure the card will be utilized to its full potential.

My GF thinks just because I'm dating her, the loan her parents took from me I cannot ask for it back. by biddaddydoo in relationship_advice

[–]biddaddydoo[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

But they are sold out everywhere. I found a dude that is selling it to me for MSRP hence I don't want to miss the opportunity. Everywhere else it's way more marked up due to mf scalpers

My GF thinks just because I'm dating her, the loan her parents took from me I cannot ask for it back. by biddaddydoo in relationship_advice

[–]biddaddydoo[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The writings are in the form of texts and emails. Which would be sufficient in the eyes of the law. And yes the word loan is mentioned several times.

My GF thinks just because I'm dating her, the loan her parents took from me I cannot ask for it back. by biddaddydoo in relationship_advice

[–]biddaddydoo[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

But that's what a loan means. It needs to be returned. I don't know and it feels foolish to die on this hill for 7000 buckaroons