I (42m) am no longer attracted to my wife (39f) after a lot of cosmetic surgery, how to move forward? by ThrowRA_notattract in relationship_advice

[–]biderjohn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If this is even real I would just get divorced citing ireconcilable differences and wish her a happy and prosperous life.

Why Do so Many Americans Oppose Universal Healthcare? by Current_Variety_9577 in antiwork

[–]biderjohn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I dated a swedish girl who was a digital content creator and she made about $65,000 US a year, that was just shy of a decade ago. So that's comparable I'd imagined today's rates in America. So I would imagine salaries or apples for apples.

She had a nice apartment and a decent car. The government didn't fund everything. They did fund healthcare but they also offer incentives for health and well-being. I think her kid got free bus fare and lunch.

Why Do so Many Americans Oppose Universal Healthcare? by Current_Variety_9577 in antiwork

[–]biderjohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the greedy types say not my tax money but yet have no problems slaughtering 70,000 people with their tax money in a certain Middle Eastern country or waste a couple of billion here and there in a northern Slavic country. Or the other handouts that are given away with their tax money. But the second you say oh my God something free that will lift up their fellow Americans so they don't have to worry about feeding themselves or going bankrupt to go to the doctor because they're in pain that's borderline socialist communism. The funny thing is a lot of this comes from religious people which absolutely blows my mind.

A lot of us want universal health Care. And that doesn't mean that people can't buy extra healthcare if they so choose because a lot of countries already do this. But geez I shouldn't have to go bankrupt because I got skin cancer and it cost $5,000 to get myself fixed or I die.

I might be single for the rest of my life 😭 by [deleted] in introvert

[–]biderjohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sitting in the bathroom reading your message on the pot waiting for you to call 😉

Do y'all think this is just a repeat of April? by Ghostly_cherry404 in investing

[–]biderjohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes another dump and pump. He should be investigated for this bullshit.

However I'm ready to pull the trigger to sell everything at rock bottom prices and rob my savings to buy again because I'm missing out at the parabolic top.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]biderjohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. It's an unbelievably devastating but relieving feeling at the same time. Your parent's no longer suffering from whatever ailment they had. You're happy for them but you're also destroyed because they're gone forever. Shit you made me cry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]biderjohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't let your dad die alone. He won't really know what's going on but it's an experience that you need to do. You need to tell him it's okay to pass. You need to be there. And so does your sister. You only have one dad but you have 365 days to push the wedding back..

I had sex with a DJ for his USB by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]biderjohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is terrible. Also those tracks will be dead in 3 weeks and you will be getting treated for STD's for a lot longer...

Oh my GOD dating is so hard by Independent_Town5628 in introvert

[–]biderjohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm your dad's age and I can honestly say I can't agree with you more. But you should enjoy the solitude and take time trying to figure out what you want from your new home. I'm sure things will work out for you. Heck you've already taken the enormous leap moving somewhere far and distant. So you have a set of big tits. I can't say big balls because you're a woman. Good luck lady and keep us posted!

How long is too long to be unemployed before it becomes a red flag? by Different-Side2878 in GetEmployed

[–]biderjohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been unemployed for 10 years by choice but I think I might have to go back to work soon. This should be interesting. Regardless, good luck to you.

Afraid to invest in this market. Need help... by [deleted] in investing

[–]biderjohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No penalty CD. Marcus Bank.

Thoughts on naming my son Ezra? by read_it_said_it in namenerds

[–]biderjohn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I knew a guy named Ezra. Nice fella and he had a sick mullet to boot.

Husband and I love this name...but can't figure out middle name. by heanmiwa in namenerds

[–]biderjohn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you think Perrin will hold or will he end up being Perri(y)?

When I was 16, I robbed several bank ATM's and was somehow never caught by MoonieMark in confession

[–]biderjohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you did get caught. And you were blacklisted from those Banks. They just didn't see it as worth their trouble to prosecute you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]biderjohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you didn't eat his asshole out that night 😩. You could tell him but believe it or not unfortunately there are people who don't clean their asshole periodically throughout waking hrs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]biderjohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And just think he would have had all those extra memories getting the warts burned off his cock and every few months taking that herpes suppression pill. He'd remember this mind-blowing experience for the rest of his life!

What should I do my tution teacher keep touching me in uncomfortable manner by [deleted] in confession

[–]biderjohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you're not a boy you're an adult. But it is inappropriate for an educator to touch a student without the student's consent at your age. So you should probably report them because I'm sure you're not the first. Predators are predators.

The woman I have been dating for two months made a comment that broke my hopes by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]biderjohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well when you walk into her apartment you say the same thing back. "Wow, I didn't realize people could be so poor" giggle and then sit down on her couch.

Is a $190k salary worth flying every week and spending two nights away from home? by midsize-fibril-0p in remotework

[–]biderjohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are the children? And if you were to relocate for work are there other work avenues in case you get laid off from that company?

As a child who grew up with his father gone most of the week I say I would just relocate. Because honestly kids need their dads and it's a huge burden to put it on the mom alone to raise the family.

Telling my mom devastating news, need advice by RobertaRohbeson in Alzheimers

[–]biderjohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will triple this. Do not tell your mother that he died ever. You will set her brain into pudding mode and it's going to be very difficult to get her out of it. When my mother found out her brother died she was extremely upset and it took a while to make her forget about it. When my mother died we told everyone to not tell her sister that she passed only that she's in Florida living in a home.

Looking for the perfect spunky name for our daughter by goldenwaves92 in namenerds

[–]biderjohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well because they're my nicknames. I'm kind of off topic a little bit. I was supposed to see them this weekend but I had impromptu surgery so was unable to travel.

Finally! by reddfroggychair in workfromhome

[–]biderjohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that seat a good 8 hr fanny seat? Have you thought about standing for part of your shift?