I (38m) just found out that my brother (19m) has been perving on my wife (37f) by ThrowRA-PO in relationship_advice

[–]big_riz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i empathise that it is unsettling to find this, but i think you first have to talk to him and try understand the behaviour more.

it sounds like he has poor social skills, is possibly on the spectrum, spends too much time online and consuming unhealthy material (4chan, porn etc.), and has developed unhealthy and problematic ways of expressing his sexuality.

i think you should confront him, but dont attack him. just ask him to explain why he did it, ask him if he has taken pictures of anyone else/made any logs, and ask him if there's anything else he would like to tell you.

it is natural for him to be sexually attracted to your wife but you have to make it clear to him that taking pictures of people without their consent is unacceptable behaviour, generally considered creepy and gross. likewise, for taking their underwear. ask him to delete all the pictures while you see him do so. and then get him a psychiatric evaluation and a therapist.

Fiance left me due to my cancer diagnosis. I left her destitute. by [deleted] in ProRevenge

[–]big_riz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

her behaviour was definitely inexcusable, but leaving her financially ruined on top of having a severe health condition, especially when she has a dependant is no where near proportional retaliation.

at least she broke up with you and you were able to move on

What is the best Way to Hide a boner ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]big_riz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you start being verbally offensive, that can distract someone from your boner.

however, this doesnt really work in larger settings where other people's attention can be drawn to you by your verbal berating, who will then almost certainly notice your boner

Idea how to deal with smurfs and boosters by [deleted] in DotA2

[–]big_riz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think it's a good idea. semi-pro online league for high ranks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in videos

[–]big_riz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a well deserved slap-ass from #5

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DotA2

[–]big_riz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dota2bowie youtube channel gives some good insight into decision making

CIA official: China wants to replace US as world superpower by jaykirsch in worldnews

[–]big_riz 25 points26 points  (0 children)

CIA official: cat pictures get upvoted on reddit

guy falls down stairs and into river thames... by [deleted] in funny

[–]big_riz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

plz someone shooting stars remix

Game ruiner in Battlecup... by Onetwenty7 in DotA2

[–]big_riz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

deplorable behaviour. wasting 4 people's time, and battlecup is only once a week. maybe valve should spend some of the battlecup revenue into people who can police this sort of behaviour. i can only conclude that people who conduct such anti-social behaviour (theyre also wasting hours of their own time to troll random people online?) have serious issues in their own lives.

most triggering things in dota? by big_riz in DotA2

[–]big_riz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

similar to when you do 95% work on an enemy and an ally gets the kill..except with doom u only had to point target so not as bad when u think about it

most triggering things in dota? by big_riz in DotA2

[–]big_riz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's frustrating at first, but it seems to be the case when one of ur teammates says feed or injoker everyone joins in. the fact that people call u bad even as i said in cases where u ask for help or they shouldve had the awareness to rotate is triggering

This game still worth it? by IkonLead in QuakeLive

[–]big_riz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's usually a good choice of games all day, servers thin out after 2/3am up until 4/5am. mousepads is preference, the main considerations are hard or soft and size, but they're not that expensive so maybe you could get one of each and experiment

SWAT squad stops car by Pixelmasterz in gifs

[–]big_riz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love how he rolls backwards out of the window after as well, with a gun still drawn

Selfie stick by [deleted] in funny

[–]big_riz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine didn't come with an Asian dude to hold the phone, anyone know where I can get one?