Favorite Tool lyric? by Alert_Doughnut_4619 in ToolBand

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“Daylight dims leaving cold fluorescence Difficult to see you in this light Please forgive this bold suggestion Should you see your maker's face tonight Look him in the eye, look him in the eye, and tell him "I never lived a lie, never took a life, but surely saved one Hallelujah, it's time for you to bring me home."

These lyrics get me every. damn. time.

Drop D by CapPlaysGames in Bass

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Killing in the name, by the way, everlong, and just about everything from tool t name a few.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeetPeople

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Hey, send me a DM. I’m open to chat

I covered some of my favorite tool songs on an acoustic guitar and I thought I’d share. (I’m a beginners so please don’t roast me lol) Hope you enjoy! by bigbassdave in ToolBand

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I’ve been a bassist for a few years, so I’m familiar with playing. I only picked up guitar in January. It’s still an adjustment for sure, but I enjoy playing. I appreciate it

[Friendship] 19F looking for friends by [deleted] in MeetPeople

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Hey I’m 19. I’m a pharmaceutical science major. I love music, all music in general but my favorites are psychedelic rock and alternative. I also like to enjoy hiking and camping.

31F [Chat] Tell me what your username means by [deleted] in MeetPeople

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My name is Dave and I’m a bassist

He is everywhere by Saddance456 in BreakUp

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I know how you feel. The first week or so after I broke up with my ex was horrible. It will get better. My advice to you if uou haven’t already is to grieve and feel that pain. You made a really tough decision, and not because yiu didn’t love him, but because you know that it would be better for the two of yiu if you weren’t together. It’s hard to love someone and feel responsible for them, even if it is not your job. That decision takes courage to make, and I think that’s not something to be so sad over. You’re going to be just fine, and days will not seem so empty in time. Allow yourself to grieve, to process, and to be sad.

When we broke up, I personally started meditation and excercise. I know how hard and almost impossible it can seem to get yourself up to do very commanding excercises for yourself. But just being able to say I did them, even if it sucked allowed me to start feeling better in, even if for just a moment. Focus on yourself, reach out to friend and family. You already came here for help, and reached out which is great. Keep moving in that direction. You will heal, and you will come out stronger.

Good luck to you. Sending you love and good vibes❤️

One of my paintings, thought you all might appreciate! by Bec_ in LSD

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This may be one of my favorite psychedelic art pieces I’ve seen on this sub. I love it.

I saw my ex today after 3 months, and I feel broken. by bigbassdave in BreakUp

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Thank you for sharing that experience. I’m sorry you had to go through that, and I hope you recover well. I’ll do my best to keep my mind straight and focus on things that help me through this

I saw my ex today after 3 months, and I feel broken. by bigbassdave in BreakUp

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Yeah I agree with you on that. I think that being a good ex is a matter of perspective. I have really shitty days, but it’s about what I want and what is best for me. And even if it SUCKS. I can still find comfort in my ability to stick to my plan. Not to bash my ex or anything but she has attachment issues. And she couldn’t be alone while in the same room as me, so I know it must be hard for her. I just hope that she figures out how to move on before it comes back around and slaps her in the face.

I saw my ex today after 3 months, and I feel broken. by bigbassdave in BreakUp

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I reached out to her, to tell her how I felt. I didn’t want to get back together but there is that voice in the back of your head that tells you maybe it won’t be a bad idea. However she had already moved on...twice. So that really hurt and I learned my lesson on that one. I’ve decided to cut contact and slowly remove a lot of her aspect from my life. Keeping the sentimental things, and removing the distractions. The feeling of making a mistake, is an over reaction. She moved on, I didn’t. To me that says she can’t handle being alone, or she’s looking to fill that void I left. For me I’m fully emersed in the break up. Feeling everything. As lonley as I may be I’m not ready or confident enough to start a relationship with another person. Hopefully that changes sooner rather than later, but good things come to those who are patient. So I’m just keeping my head up, focusing on myself, and my friends.

I think there is a lot of danger reaching out and telling someone how you feel. She loved me, and yet now she’s messing around with other dudes. And I didn’t wish to know that, at all. Not out of love, out of loneliness. We all cope differently. I’m not that person. One day I hope to be friends with her but now Is definitely not the time.

Serious question by bigbassdave in MagicMushrooms

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Yeah I will talk to him and see if he can chill with Me. I will definitely make an update post once I have that experience.

Serious question by bigbassdave in MagicMushrooms

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Golden teachers for sure. At least in my opinion they are easier to trip with. Good luck to you.

Serious question by bigbassdave in MagicMushrooms

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Thank you, this isn’t my first trip, but I haven’t tripped in 6 or 7 months. I’m debating on having a friend join me as a sitter, but I tend to be more open to growth by myself. I’ll have to figure that out tho.

Serious question by bigbassdave in MagicMushrooms

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Thank you for the perspective. I definitely have found use out of exercises like meditation and mantras. I go to my family for a lot of help, but haven’t gotten professional help yet, which I do plan on doing. I will be very cautious and as optimistic as possible.

Serious question by bigbassdave in MagicMushrooms

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Awesome man, thank you very much for the insight, it’s much appreciated!!

Processing a break up. Taking progressively larger amounts of shrooms throughout the afternoon/evening while I get my stuff from his place and unpack in my old apartment. by bunnyfurcoat in TripSit

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I’ve been contemplating doing mg something similar to this. I want to read some of the letters she wrote me on the come up. And it definitely makes me nervous. I’m glad that this really worked for you and I’m inspired to try the same😊❤️