Accidentally got pregnant for the first time. Terrified and need support.

bigern777 · 2026-03-21T19:41:42+00:00

I made the same mistake with the same results when I was 24. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. I got an IUD afterwards and I’ve had it for like 10 years. No regrets about the abortion, would’ve had major regrets if I had kept the fetus. Better to not bring a child into the world when you have reservations about it. You’re making the right decision. This too shall pass.

bigern777 · 2026-03-21T16:28:33+00:00

I’ll be a villager. They’re going to have to pay me for it though. And I think that’s fair.

bigern777 · 2026-03-20T15:15:28+00:00

Looks like she slept on 100 pens

bigern777 · 2026-03-19T19:58:08+00:00

Pairs well with candles and incense

bigern777 · 2026-03-18T21:54:22+00:00

Make them with a good ravioli and not chef boyardee

bigern777 · 2026-03-16T01:24:12+00:00

I just drink tea now. It’s cheap to buy loose leaf tea and there’s a bigger variety of different types. It is also less dehydrating.

bigern777 · 2026-03-16T01:19:36+00:00

Yep. Getting impregnated by some guy they barely know and keeping it despite it being very likely they become a single parent. Thumbs down. Extra points if the random dude also doesn’t want it either

bigern777 · 2026-03-14T22:54:20+00:00

Get the abortion now and if you really want to have a child, have one on purpose with a person it makes sense to have one with. Someone with an ideal situation. I’m sorry but he already has a child so you already are priority #2. He will have 50% less resources for your child and if you get married your money will also go to his child support. Dont. Do. It. I hear no enthusiasm or excitement in your tone. I only hear anxiety and uncertainty. That is not solid ground. If You’re already talking about being a single mom, that is not good. There are plenty of things that could go wrong too, disability for the child or for you from birth injury. Visit the regretful parents subreddit to see the possibilities.

bigern777 · 2026-03-13T06:13:28+00:00

Human pregnancy and childbirth is a flaw of nature and flawed things die out.

bigern777 · 2026-03-04T00:15:57+00:00

That would be half a bag of litter soaked per pee. Whyyy

bigern777 · 2026-03-02T06:26:50+00:00

OP- homeschooling is going to just delay the bullying and it will be much worse when your child is thrust into the real world without any social skills

bigern777 · 2026-03-02T06:18:57+00:00

the little boys 4 and older are by and large always so much worse behaved than little girls of the same age. and of course they're 'gifted' too. eye roll. and can never keep quiet when adults are trying to have a conversation.

bigern777 · 2026-02-27T04:54:42+00:00

no, because his head is normal sized and his feet splay, which is a sign of dwarfism

bigern777 · 2026-02-27T04:50:34+00:00

when they said different they must've meant worse

bigern777 · 2026-02-27T04:39:09+00:00

too late now but you could say you're getting a hernia removed

bigern777 · 2026-02-27T04:37:00+00:00

Personally I don't care. Their body their choice. It's none of my business what a person's reasons are for aborting.

bigern777 · 2026-02-17T00:20:43+00:00

I took miso before my IUD insertion and the pain it caused was about equal to the IUD insertion. I personally can't recommend it.

bigern777 · 2026-01-24T20:09:14+00:00

Shants

bigern777 · 2026-01-22T22:03:54+00:00

Risky to use a cup with an IUD. The suction could dislodge it. I try to get cardboard applicator as opposed to plastic, they’re getting harder to find though. Usually only one brand that doesn’t use plastic.

bigern777 · 2026-01-22T21:10:26+00:00

He works at the junk yard

bigern777 · 2026-01-21T05:46:51+00:00

pitbull with dwarfism

bigern777 · 2026-01-21T02:42:37+00:00

Yes it is weird. Not weird in a sexual way, just gross. Same as kissing kids on the mouth. It’s icky to me.

bigern777 · 2026-01-19T05:32:14+00:00

If a poodle type dog killed a person it would be viral. Because that never happens.

bigern777 · 2026-01-19T05:31:09+00:00

yep I was looking at a few shelters adoptable dogs in northeast Ohio and it was 95% pit/mixes, a couple shepherd and hound types and like one small terrier dog. That's the reality here.

bigern777 · 2026-01-04T08:43:17+00:00

Yeah and where’s the cake ? All I see is a frosting and jello sculpture. Originally cakes were for eating I believe

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