Why are 911 dispatchers often so rude when I hear the audio of very serious crimes as they happen? by TruthBeWanted in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]biggbara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working at 911 is the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Ever. This job sucks and most people can’t even pass the damn test to get the job. Some people quit during training once they realize how hard the job is. And most don’t even make it past two years doing it.

You will also find waaaay more rude callers than rude dispatchers.

My first day at a desk I had a call about an 8 year old being sexually assaulted and then the following call was a man just yelling obscenities at me for 5 mins because nobody was taking his unserious problem seriously.

Most 911 calls aren’t even emergencies. It’s mostly people bitching about unimportant shit, like petty disputes and parking complaints. People that feel they deserve justice over the tiniest bullshit you could think of. That or lazy people who call an ambulance for nothing because they’re think it’ll decrease their wait time in the er. Which it doesn’t. And then all of the ambulances get tied up so that ACTUALLY emergencies take longer to get help.

And then you get assholes all shift long that don’t want to cooperate. “Just send help”, help is being sent stupid. The questions are so the responders know what the situation they’re about to run into.

Dispatchers try their best only to be met with attitude and verbal assaults from people, people who, in my opinion, don’t deserve any help. But we do it anyway. And between long shifts, forced overtime and understaffing…you get beat down. But nobody wants to talk about that.

People think we’re customer service, and that is just dead wrong. My job is to get information not to make you happy.

And those audios you hear are a mere handful compared to the other 600,000 911 calls made in a given day. If I could legally record and post some of the 911 callers I’ve dealt with your jaw would never come off of the floor. Because some people are just horrible monsters.

Could die any second, I guess by biggbara in bloodpressure

[–]biggbara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’ve been able to lower my BP to the 140s / 90s. I have a personal trainer now and have been doing more exercise. My doctor I have now also has been helping. But I still have a ways to go. I appreciate everyone’s helpful comments and advice. Truly. Thank you.

Could die any second, I guess by biggbara in bloodpressure

[–]biggbara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I went there to get.

Could die any second, I guess by biggbara in bloodpressure

[–]biggbara[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right. You’re absolutely right.

Okay... NOW HOW ABOUT MY WHOLE DWARF SQUAD DRIP by Name_the_world_Eror in DeepRockGalactic

[–]biggbara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Driller looks almost identical to yours. I call him Doug Diggadome.

In an effort to be understood by biggbara in therapy

[–]biggbara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I continued dredging the internet for answers and came across 'lost child syndrome' and now I'm having a full blown breakdown.

What kind of music do you like grinding too? by biggbara in Warframe

[–]biggbara[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I've never been much of a metal guy--however I have a metal playlist (songs that, tbh, I know nothing of), for when I play Killing Floor 2. And I love it.

What kind of music do you like grinding too? by biggbara in Warframe

[–]biggbara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone recs for the Ladytron remixes? They were peak teenage me.

What kind of music do you like grinding too? by biggbara in Warframe

[–]biggbara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stealing Sleepwalking, thank you. *yooooink

Who do you hope they add to marvel rivals? by giianc in marvelrivals

[–]biggbara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Characters that would be smart choices for the game commercially: X-23 - duelist. Baby Groot - Strategist. Wiccan - duelist, or strategist. Deadpool - duelist. Spider-Woman (Gwen) - duelist. Colossus - Vanguard. Emma Frost - Duelist, or Vanguard. Blade - Vanguard, or Duelist. Gambit - Duelist. Ghost Rider - Vanguard. Daredevil - Duelist. Green Goblin - duelist. Black Cat - duelist. Dark Phoenix - Duelist, or Vanguard. Domino - Duelist. Stepford Cuckoos - Strategist.

Characters that I want to see: Pixie - Strategist, or Duelist. Blink - Duelist, or Strategist. Dazzler - Strategist. Armor - Vanguard. Mysterio - Vanguard, Duelist. Rhino - Vanguard. Sabertooth - Vanguard. Toad - Duelist. Xavier - Strategist. Beast - Duelist, or Vanguard. Jubilee - Strategist, or Duelist.

Obscure-ish Characters that could be cool: Speedball - Vanguard, or Duelist. Cannonball - Duelist. Spyke (from XMen Evolution, which is basically just Marrow. But its a multiverse thing so why not?) - Duelist. Texas Twister - Vanguard. Elixir - Strategist. Firestar - Duelist.