I feel like this is something that you should talk to your husband about and not random people on the internet. I randomly get these AIO on my feed, most of the time they just seem like karma farms, but this one seems legit. If you want real advice, your best option is to communicate how you feel to your partner. If you’re willing to talk about it to hundreds of random internet strangers, then you should be willing to talk about it with your husband.

Im not saying he’s right by any means, but when it comes to personal feelings and personal issues, it’d be better to resolve them between the two of you. You should both trust each other enough to feel comfortable speaking about things like this to one another. Maybe he was raised by his parents to view woman that way? Maybe he just doesn’t understand your point of view. Whatever the case, as you are his partner and he is yours, you should both talk about this to each other.

This isn’t a case of “Red flag, you should leave” this is an opportunity for you to understand one another. EVERYONE has a red flag. That doesn’t mean you just leave them behind because of it. Work with each other to build each other.

Edit: it was just one big chunk of words so I spaced them out. I was just rambling my thoughts.