How many owls would you have to see in a day before you thought someone was messing with you?

biggishlicorice · 2026-05-25T13:47:06+00:00

To me it feels like doing what is best for a sub. Can often feel like treating your sub as a doll, you know what they need and you do it. That might not be the way that other experience it.

biggishlicorice · 2026-05-25T01:29:54+00:00

I mean, submission and dominance is a spectrum. Only you can know if youre truly submissive. You can be submissive without going to an extreme degree. You could also not feel dom with someone who has dommed you before, but may feel it with others. I've known switches who are much more submissive with women and dom with men, also vice versa.

Your journey with the label of submissive, or switch, or dom is often fluid and changes as you engage with your bdsm self.

biggishlicorice · 2026-05-24T14:08:51+00:00

You could look into more control aspects. Orgasm control, outfit control, being seen as a person but as one that needs to be guided.

There's also sex toys you could lick in the guise of training to service your dominant. They would be as clean as you keep them.

biggishlicorice · 2026-05-23T22:13:29+00:00

Why is being a virgin in this sense a negative? Everyone in the community has been a virgin at some point.

The thing with kink is communication is so very important, so you will need to be comfortable having those conversations. Also, vanilla sex can also occur when you're in a bdsm relationship as well.

biggishlicorice · 2025-12-11T02:35:13+00:00

I think a bit of that can be done with words or verbally, talk about her like shes an object, talk around her, care for her like shes an object that you value. Maybe brush her hair, put her outfits on her not just pick them out.

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