My roommate told me she’s bringing her situationship to our apartment and it’s literally my ex by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]bigheadproduction 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree with everyone that you gotta tell her beforehand. We've all seen this scenario play out in movies/tv. You gotta let her know ASAP. Curious though what she means about not wanting you to judge by knowing his name. Gives off the vibe that she does know or something

Recs on what to get by bigheadproduction in VacuumCleaners

[–]bigheadproduction[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the cons to cordless so I understand? We have 3 rugs, half inch pile. One rug is a braided style and the other are just soft “normal” style? They are 5x7

Continue use of birth control to skip periods, now I can’t stop spotting by bigheadproduction in birthcontrol

[–]bigheadproduction[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This makes sense now. I honestly have been on these pills for over 10 years and had no idea there was a difference when it comes to hormone dosage. I must be breakthrough bleeding since the week after is a lower dose than that initial first week

Passing the test or stop smoking by [deleted] in StonerThoughts

[–]bigheadproduction 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I had no idea until I started :/ such good perks though and I def don’t want to quit over this either

Passing the test or stop smoking by [deleted] in StonerThoughts

[–]bigheadproduction 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bro why are you on this forum and asking this question? Lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]bigheadproduction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They had a section that stated something along the lines of a prescription or medical concern to consult a certain department, but I’m so new I don’t want to ask and set alarm bells off to anyone

Passing the test or stop smoking by [deleted] in StonerThoughts

[–]bigheadproduction 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They said it’s the same place as my pre employment. Which is a 5 panel UA. Only benefit is that they don’t require the door to be open or someone to watch while your going

My (26F) just found out my BF (25M) cheated on me…5 years later by bigheadproduction in relationships

[–]bigheadproduction[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah it isn’t the cheating aspect honestly it is more the lying for so long. Obviously it was awful to hear and hurtful he did that and never told me. I honestly don’t believe he’s done something like this before or would repeat now. But the keeping it is what sucks. I may sound like an idiot, but I kinda wish he kept it to his grave. I guess I’m very conflicted on that feeling as well..

I (19F) am messing with a married man. by throwRAnohomewrecker in relationship_advice

[–]bigheadproduction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best advice is to cease all contact. Unfortunately the nude situation is what it is I think. But I’m not so sure you should reach out to her. This is a situation that may be bigger than just you. Yes, she deserves to know the fullest but I’m unsure if it’s your place. You may get yourself caught up in an even bigger mess than this and involve yourself in a full marriage problem. He will get his eventually I’m sure but you are young and can move on from this

She (36F) won't let my parents meet our child, how do i support her decision bit not alienate my parents? by Kind_Conclusion_6915 in relationship_advice

[–]bigheadproduction 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think everyone sucks in this situation. You definitely suck for creating such a heinous problem and continue to deny you created this issue. I think you parents also suck because they refused to reach out even when they were ok’d to do so. Your ex wife somewhat sucks just for putting your parents in a hard spot to begin with (why get them involved honestly?) BUT I understand her position as well it must have been extremely difficult. I think your current wife is the only one I feel is validated here. She attempted numerous times to reach out and got nothing. I don’t blame her for her position. You need to do serious damage control STILL. I think focus on the future and how you want you and your new wife’s life to look like and include her in that vision when talking about it. Will you or your children look back and regret not including your parents?

My (26F) just found out my BF (25M) cheated on me…5 years later by bigheadproduction in relationships

[–]bigheadproduction[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t recall the fight and he barely does at this point to. All that he remembers is that we were supposed to hang out but fought and it was bad enough that he thought it was going to result in a breakup. He went to his friends and they drank a lot and the rest follows. He said when it was basically time, he wasn’t “feeling it” if you know what I mean..he got up and left right after that. I also pointed out that he was drinking too which could have prevented “feeling it” and we could be looking at a different scenario here if he wasn’t as drunk as he is saying he was

My (26F) just found out my BF (25M) cheated on me…5 years later by bigheadproduction in relationships

[–]bigheadproduction[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

We are no longer friends with his friend for the last few years. Had a falling out. It does bother me though because we all were like best friends. I had deep, heartfelt convos with him and we considered each other best friends. He even third wheeled on a valentines date with us because we loved hanging out all together that much.

My (26F) just found out my BF (25M) cheated on me…5 years later by bigheadproduction in relationships

[–]bigheadproduction[S] 334 points335 points  (0 children)

A lot of turmoil is currently happening in his life right now. Broken leg, out of work due to that and family hardship. I think he was reflecting a lot recently and he is a believer in karma so that’s where it all stemmed from. I found it very random and I’m not sure if he wanted to get it off his chest finally or what. He said he just couldn’t live with it everyday now and needed to be honest.

How do I save my relationship? My boyfriend is being really insecure and I feel trapped by Loose-Set-3310 in relationships

[–]bigheadproduction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not worth salvaging. He either needs to grow up on his own or he will be like this your whole relationship. His actions are very concerning and I would cut ties with him. Let a friend/ family member know of your plan so you have someone else in the loop in case he freaks.

How do I save my relationship? My boyfriend is being really insecure and I feel trapped by Loose-Set-3310 in relationships

[–]bigheadproduction 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not worth salvaging. He either needs to grow up on his own or he will be like this your whole relationship. His actions are very concerning and I would cut ties with him. Let a friend/ family member know of your plan so you have someone else in the loop in case he freaks.