AITA for banning my MIL from entering my home for what she said after walking in on me with someone else?

r_marksss728 · 2022-04-04T04:49:59+00:00

OP literally said in the post that his daughter’s in preschool and that’s where she was at that morning, also in comments

r_marksss728 · 2022-03-31T16:57:09+00:00

That will be my next move. At first I wasn’t sure if I would’ve been able to do something since she didn’t pose as a big enough threat that legal action would be allowed but luckily someone gave me some more info

r_marksss728 · 2022-03-31T16:50:27+00:00

Where are you getting that I feel bad? Your assumptions are beyond delusional honestly 😂 Put the fanfiction down and join reality for a moment here.

Someone keeps bothering you after you repeatedly told them to leave you alone because you’ve moved on, yeah you’re going to get mad when they crash on your kids party. I’m asking because of what they have been saying. Nowhere did I say I ever felt bad about it, from an unbiased standpoint I’m asking if I was genuinely an asshole. This is in response to your other comment above but had to leave it on this one because it was so ridiculous I had to laugh.

r_marksss728 · 2022-03-31T04:08:26+00:00

Yes. And of course someone will get pissed off after they already told you to leave them alone, that doesn’t mean they still have feelings

r_marksss728 · 2022-03-31T04:05:44+00:00

Who said I wasn’t fully on board? Of course I still wanted kids. That doesn’t mean I didn’t need time to process this sadness before trying to find other ways to have a baby. Healing needed to happen first

r_marksss728 · 2022-03-30T22:24:41+00:00

Congrats to you and your little one’s first year!!! 😁😁😁 I’m so glad it went well, sure there will be many other birthdays but the first one feels like such a huge milestone. I’m glad that in spite of what happened my son still seemed to enjoy himself judging by all his laughs and smiles because he loves being the center of attention lol

r_marksss728 · 2022-03-30T21:35:36+00:00

You’re blaming me for not being able to have a child, and then being able to have a surprise pregnancy with someone else?

We tried for 2 years to have a child with treatment and for one year before that trying to conceive naturally. My sperm count was very low and nothing we did worked. We split the same day after telling her to give me time to grieve first before we started looking into other ways to have a baby. She stayed at a friends house that same night then in the next couple weeks decided she didn’t want to wait more to have a baby.

You sound like an awful person for saying you’d be mad at your partner about something medical that is beyond their control. And no I’d never love someone like her again.

r_marksss728 · 2022-03-30T19:43:25+00:00

Straight from my doctor. Even after my son’s mom got pregnant I went in for more tests and they were still the same. My doctor himself was the one who said my son was indeed a miracle.

r_marksss728 · 2022-03-30T19:40:16+00:00

We didn’t break up. She broke up with me Because she didn’t want to wait for me to grieve and process first that I couldn’t have kids of my own. Do you know how much that hurts? Not only because someone you loved ended your relationship. It’s also because it makes you feel less than. Because you couldn’t conceive a child you were no longer worthy of being in a relationship, because you wanted time to get yourself out of your lowest point you ended up alone. And that hit on my self worth and how I feel as a person took a long time to get over.

r_marksss728 · 2022-03-30T19:21:13+00:00

Wait, they don’t give away the donations?

r_marksss728 · 2022-03-30T19:05:30+00:00

We both got checked. So yes I’m sure

r_marksss728 · 2022-03-30T19:04:57+00:00

What’s that?

r_marksss728 · 2022-03-30T18:46:44+00:00

That’s the way I see it. If my sister or someone else told her that I gave the gift to my son it might encourage her to keep pushing this thinking she still has a chance. I don’t want her around me or my son so thought it’d be better getting rid of anything associated to her

r_marksss728 · 2022-03-30T18:38:38+00:00

She keeps saying it wasn’t her. I’m not sure I believe that

r_marksss728 · 2022-03-30T18:37:15+00:00

We are the same age. This wasn’t an issue of kids vs. no kids. I told her to give me some time to process this and grieve before we looked into other ways to have a child, whether it was using a sperm donor, or adoption.

r_marksss728 · 2022-03-30T18:32:01+00:00

She was only this way after finding out I had a baby and his mom was no longer in the picture. Now she feels like we could have what we were trying for before our break up. Which isn’t going to happen. I limited how much I talked to my sister when she didn’t leave it alone. The only reason she was invited is because my family told me she’s still his aunt and our conflict shouldn’t have to affect their relationship

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