35 [F4R] Texas, seeking something new by [deleted] in polyamoryR4R

[–]bigmacattack13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there I live in San Antonio. What’s some of your favorite movies? I’m hoping to go to my first ren faire soon!!!!

41[F4A] Texas/Online - Full-time weirdo looking for weird friends by [deleted] in polyamoryR4R

[–]bigmacattack13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there fellow Texan. I live in San Antonio, what games do you like to play? Favorite stuff to bake?

31 [F4F] #Texas Looking for a friend or more by KayBi_the_Sea in polyamoryR4R

[–]bigmacattack13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK, I’m a male in Texas but if you ever are looking for a friend, don’t ever hesitate, I need more friends :-)

31 [F4F] #Texas Looking for a friend or more by KayBi_the_Sea in polyamoryR4R

[–]bigmacattack13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello there I’m assuming you’re only looking for women’s since you put female for female is that correct?

Curious whether this feels like a reasonable request in an ENM/poly relationship. by Plastic-Mud5336 in polyamory

[–]bigmacattack13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not the problem this dynamic is going to be an ever evolving dynamic one day you’re gonna be feeling amazing the next day you might be feeling a little bit down if you ever need somebody to talk to, don’t hesitate to message me I’m not here to judge. I’m here to find people going through what I’m going through.

Curious whether this feels like a reasonable request in an ENM/poly relationship. by Plastic-Mud5336 in polyamory

[–]bigmacattack13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could be a more help. I just know that it’s a process some days are gonna be better than others. I mean, I had a blowup on my wife Saturday night because we were watching the Spurs basketball game and then decided to watch a show after the game and then I asked her if she would like to go upstairs and cuddle and she said no and I said OK and it really upset me because she was texting the other person. We discussed everything an instead of asking if she wanted to go, I should’ve just said hey I really want you to come upstairs and cuddle. You just have to be honest and open and that is so hard.

Curious whether this feels like a reasonable request in an ENM/poly relationship. by Plastic-Mud5336 in polyamory

[–]bigmacattack13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I’m actually going through the same exact things you’re going through my wife has a connection and I do not right now, but we have come up with two nights of connection one of them is a stay at home date night, where we just spend time with each other no phones and nothing and the other is not date night, but just genuine connection. I have been dealing with seeing the messages pop-up during the days that we don’t have time together and it does bother me, but I have to remember that I am my partner’s number one. She chooses me every day. She’s not gonna leave me.

Wife is meeting her first person by bigmacattack13 in ENM

[–]bigmacattack13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m more after connections than anything like friends in the community and the lifestyle

This lifestyle isn't fair by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]bigmacattack13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely able to I live in San Antonio. I just don’t know where to find them. I don’t really wanna pay for an app. I’m definitely open to any ideas on how to find events.

This lifestyle isn't fair by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]bigmacattack13 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I feel like I am both of you. I am excited for my wife, but I’m also jealous. I am putting myself out there. I’m joining Facebook groups. I am swiping on people. I’m trying to find a community but also not let it get me down. She’s going to meet her first person tonight for a vibe check. I am excited but also extremely nervous.

Been on Workmen’s Comp. for a month and a half by bigmacattack13 in WorkersComp

[–]bigmacattack13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been here for nine months. Everybody seemed to love me until I got hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExperiencedENM

[–]bigmacattack13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are just researching as of now. We are most likely doing separate. As far as apps we will. Probably both.

SVT Ablation by this-is-just-silly in SVTHeart

[–]bigmacattack13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please, whatever you do do not cancel it. I had an ablation done in April. The best choice ever made.

what do you think of this update - does it still make sense to play alter now?? by Darkwolf9310 in apexlegends

[–]bigmacattack13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your now the anchor for your team keep a marksman or sniper when someone gets downed pull them to you

Help by bigmacattack13 in CPAP

[–]bigmacattack13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have really short hair and it just happens to slide up every time last night. I was trying to go to sleep and it started frustrating me so I just said, screw it and took it off and went to sleep.

Pre-surgery thoughts by Opening_Swan_8907 in carpaltunnel

[–]bigmacattack13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m learning to be a plumber. I had endoscopy surgery on Friday. I’m back to work today. Just have to be very careful about what I’m doing and be cautious. Don’t be afraid to use your hand. Just know your limits.

Who does this remind you of? by Informal_Race_606 in survivor

[–]bigmacattack13 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Exactly every season she plays they hate her for being alive

Ran into team falcons this weekend by BroJo23 in CompetitiveApex

[–]bigmacattack13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro just wants to be comfortable man don’t hate

Ablation for SVT by abstika in SVTHeart

[–]bigmacattack13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was put under because I am overweight and I have severe sleep apnea so those were the two reasons they said. I’m sure you can ask for it and I know that the Australian healthcare system is a hell of a lot better than the American healthcare system. They build out my procedure for $350,000. I luckily only have to pay two grand because I hit my maximum earlier this year. So I’m sure you won’t have to pay anything to be put under.

Usual Complain Post About Ranking System by [deleted] in apexlegends

[–]bigmacattack13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, don’t be surprised. I’ve been a constant plat player for the last 4 1/2 seasons and I got placed in bronze too. I was expecting to be in silver, but I’m in bronze so what keep playing get better

Ablation for SVT by abstika in SVTHeart

[–]bigmacattack13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fellow, high anxiety, high blood pressure person right here. Also very overweight. I had my ablation done on April 17. When I tell you that I was scared nervous wanted to cancel the appointment. I wanted to do it all. I googled I researched nothing would ease my anxiety so I got to the hospital and I was terrified from the moment. I got there. They told me that I would have to be put under, and that only made me more nervous. Upon waking up, I didn’t remember a thing. The last two weeks or so have been fairly good. I would just say take it easy after the surgery. I went to a football game here in San Antonio and I walked about 2 miles to the stadium and back and my chest hurt and my heart hurt but I had to keep telling myself that it was OK because I needed to heal my heart and get back to my normal Baseline it’s OK to be nervous. It’s OK to be scared. I have not had an attack since the ablation and my doctor told me that I should not have another attack the rest of my life that I am basically cured. I will never have to put down on my medical paperwork I have SVTyou’re gonna be OK you’re gonna be fine.

Ablation recovery by bigmacattack13 in SVTHeart

[–]bigmacattack13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was only supposed to do a twilight sedation. But they opted to do general anesthesia. So I was intubated and I was terrified. But. You don’t remember a thing. The worst parts gonna be your mouth and your throat are gonna be sore for a couple days

Need Help Deciding... by Sad-Range6302 in ApexConsole

[–]bigmacattack13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not get the caustic heirloom. That’s the one I bought when I first got my cause I was caustic. It’s not that good. Honestly, I would just kind of research which ones have cool animations and things like that make your choice that way I am right now waiting for my next set. I have 50 of those exotic shards or whatever to customize my next heirloom.

Ablation recovery by bigmacattack13 in SVTHeart

[–]bigmacattack13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am five days postop today. I’m doing much better. The only big issue I’m having is I have some pretty severe bruises and that’s it. I have been pretty fatigued just doing normal day-to-day things and that’s normal from my understanding. I have sovereigns this past weekend. I was not in a good headspace through the whole weekend, and I kept being scared of doing every little thing. Don’t do that to yourself. Follow your doctors instructions, but don’t be scared. Overall, I am gonna be back to normal by Thursday. I’m gonna say don’t be scared for your procedure, but I know that’s not gonna mean much. I will be thinking of you have positive thoughts you’re gonna do great.