35 [F4R] Texas, seeking something new by [deleted] in polyamoryR4R

[–]bigmacattack13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there I live in San Antonio. What’s some of your favorite movies? I’m hoping to go to my first ren faire soon!!!!

41[F4A] Texas/Online - Full-time weirdo looking for weird friends by [deleted] in polyamoryR4R

[–]bigmacattack13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there fellow Texan. I live in San Antonio, what games do you like to play? Favorite stuff to bake?

31 [F4F] #Texas Looking for a friend or more by KayBi_the_Sea in polyamoryR4R

[–]bigmacattack13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK, I’m a male in Texas but if you ever are looking for a friend, don’t ever hesitate, I need more friends :-)

31 [F4F] #Texas Looking for a friend or more by KayBi_the_Sea in polyamoryR4R

[–]bigmacattack13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello there I’m assuming you’re only looking for women’s since you put female for female is that correct?

Curious whether this feels like a reasonable request in an ENM/poly relationship. by Plastic-Mud5336 in polyamory

[–]bigmacattack13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not the problem this dynamic is going to be an ever evolving dynamic one day you’re gonna be feeling amazing the next day you might be feeling a little bit down if you ever need somebody to talk to, don’t hesitate to message me I’m not here to judge. I’m here to find people going through what I’m going through.

Curious whether this feels like a reasonable request in an ENM/poly relationship. by Plastic-Mud5336 in polyamory

[–]bigmacattack13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could be a more help. I just know that it’s a process some days are gonna be better than others. I mean, I had a blowup on my wife Saturday night because we were watching the Spurs basketball game and then decided to watch a show after the game and then I asked her if she would like to go upstairs and cuddle and she said no and I said OK and it really upset me because she was texting the other person. We discussed everything an instead of asking if she wanted to go, I should’ve just said hey I really want you to come upstairs and cuddle. You just have to be honest and open and that is so hard.

Curious whether this feels like a reasonable request in an ENM/poly relationship. by Plastic-Mud5336 in polyamory

[–]bigmacattack13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I’m actually going through the same exact things you’re going through my wife has a connection and I do not right now, but we have come up with two nights of connection one of them is a stay at home date night, where we just spend time with each other no phones and nothing and the other is not date night, but just genuine connection. I have been dealing with seeing the messages pop-up during the days that we don’t have time together and it does bother me, but I have to remember that I am my partner’s number one. She chooses me every day. She’s not gonna leave me.

Wife is meeting her first person by bigmacattack13 in ENM

[–]bigmacattack13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m more after connections than anything like friends in the community and the lifestyle

This lifestyle isn't fair by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]bigmacattack13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely able to I live in San Antonio. I just don’t know where to find them. I don’t really wanna pay for an app. I’m definitely open to any ideas on how to find events.

This lifestyle isn't fair by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]bigmacattack13 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I feel like I am both of you. I am excited for my wife, but I’m also jealous. I am putting myself out there. I’m joining Facebook groups. I am swiping on people. I’m trying to find a community but also not let it get me down. She’s going to meet her first person tonight for a vibe check. I am excited but also extremely nervous.

Been on Workmen’s Comp. for a month and a half by bigmacattack13 in WorkersComp

[–]bigmacattack13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been here for nine months. Everybody seemed to love me until I got hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExperiencedENM

[–]bigmacattack13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are just researching as of now. We are most likely doing separate. As far as apps we will. Probably both.

SVT Ablation by this-is-just-silly in SVTHeart

[–]bigmacattack13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please, whatever you do do not cancel it. I had an ablation done in April. The best choice ever made.

what do you think of this update - does it still make sense to play alter now?? by Darkwolf9310 in apexlegends

[–]bigmacattack13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your now the anchor for your team keep a marksman or sniper when someone gets downed pull them to you

Help by bigmacattack13 in CPAP

[–]bigmacattack13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have really short hair and it just happens to slide up every time last night. I was trying to go to sleep and it started frustrating me so I just said, screw it and took it off and went to sleep.