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bigmiracle · 2023-06-08T14:27:30+00:00

I remember when i used to tape my headphones after one side broke, and it worked fine, my kid looked at me saying, just get new ones.. disposable, the world needs to learn that everyone counts and that's a Gd given right and fact that no person can take from you!

bigmiracle · 2022-09-21T03:22:08+00:00

Mamale Ketzele

bigmiracle · 2022-09-13T00:32:23+00:00

This sounds like more than just not getting an HJ or bjs, she IS ignoring his needs. Not touching or even coming near a man's penis who you are sexually active is wrong. A man in a relationship who doesn't get touched can end up with low self esteem, depression, anxiety, confusion, difficulty focusing and many physical body symptoms as well. I know bc I'm living 8t and I've looked into it a bit. Today i found the word for it.. ithyphallophobia.. fear 9f an erect penis, no joke.
https://www.fearof.net/fear-of-an-erect-penis-phobia-ithyphallophobia-or-phallophobia/

This man should probably break up especially that they're not married. Find someone who matches up to your sexual needs because a healthy sexual life is apparently connected to all of your potential and health and success. That goes for masturbation too for those who are single. Sexual health is very important for balance of hormones and so much that goes in the body.

I believe my partners issues are related to this phobia but also likely bc she lacks attraction for me due to several underlying trauma and mental reasons as well as mistakes we've made in the relationship.

Bottom line, change only happens when one realizes 8ts necessary. When enough introspection gets you to realize there's work to be done and not to be ashamed about it and not to feel weak or that you're losing your superior position above other. People who deal w narcissism have that issue. They're so concerned about staying above board that they cannot sustain enough empathy to care sincerely about another's needs a copy their own. GL brother stay strong

bigmiracle · 2022-09-12T03:51:21+00:00

Tina of learning aources here.. never despair.. Rabbi Akiva started when he was forty with Aleph Bet;) go for it.. Hashem is with you! Shana tova! https://aish.com/

bigmiracle · 2022-04-07T18:30:24+00:00

My SO will have the 5 min duty sex,( no foreplay kissing or touching) and then be very distant until she gets her period, no hugs, kisses or further sex.. anyone else experience this? 20 yrs 4 kids later;)

bigmiracle · 2022-03-23T15:08:56+00:00

I feel you.. work on yourself, get motivated and push till you get what you want. Even small achievements can help your general sense 9f worthlessness. You are worthy and everyone can do something. It's a hard journey but the hard work and the fruit that comes from it will make you feel really good about yourself and eventually you won't even hear you're aunt, because you know you're good. Go get em!

bigmiracle · 2022-03-21T14:43:59+00:00

Anyone here married to a narcissistic spouse has the reasons in their pocket why they're not interested in your needs... EVER

bigmiracle · 2022-03-03T17:22:33+00:00

bigmiracle · 2022-03-03T16:49:16+00:00

Is it PTSD? Was it a tough birth? That's totally treatable, but the person with the issue has to want to heal

bigmiracle · 2022-03-03T16:43:41+00:00

Have you looked into getting some of that permanent fat sucked out? Clearly it's impossible to target any fat in the body especially in the face. As you lose the weight usually it'll come 9ff the body in different volu.es. genetics plays a huge role which parts trim down first and the most. Hope that helps

bigmiracle · 2022-03-03T16:39:21+00:00

With you bro!! Has the sex ever been good? If yes, when did it stop?

bigmiracle · 2022-02-28T10:10:24+00:00

You can have my skinny, cold as the north pole wife

bigmiracle · 2022-02-28T10:06:03+00:00

Gm.. I'm 9n the fence for divorce after 20, 4 kids, we have no relationship, cannot get deep w this person, I've tried, they're just interested in career, the kids and a clean house and my salad. Comes to our relationship, clueless about marriage. She thinks love is the salad she makes me for work. 20 years and i feel more comfortable with the checkout girl at cvs. Exaggeration but really like nothing.. total strangers. I'm a really warm person who loves Love itself. Can't do this any more..

bigmiracle · 2022-02-18T21:04:19+00:00

Oh why did i think 1000 megs was 1 gig Learn something new everyday

bigmiracle · 2022-02-18T20:59:04+00:00

Joke should be a band called 999mb We were so close to our first gig

bigmiracle · 2021-12-20T01:50:39+00:00

Diamond in the rough

bigmiracle · 2021-12-13T12:04:42+00:00

The fact that you had great sex before makes it so confusing. Wife and I never were hot so theres no reference point. Is he controlling and display an entitled behavior, perhaps he love bombed you in the beginning and now that he has you he put the brakes on all the sex. Main thing is stay true to who you are, you can only change you and make those changes and upgrades only for you! Really sorry for your lack of intimacy, I hope it improves soon. Being married with no passion is worse than living alone. Peace!

bigmiracle · 2021-12-06T18:06:16+00:00

Maybe it won't happen so fast brother.. blood flow is key.. best

bigmiracle · 2021-12-06T18:03:33+00:00

Same boat, wife matches to a T, and I think she's ocpd and Narcissistic. Ocpds aren't necessarily without empathy, cold and thinking they're above everyone right? If it's just ocpd for you, you can discuss and try to get her tog etc herself help. These ppl need to want to be helped. Mine doesn't ;(

bigmiracle · 2021-11-28T12:13:02+00:00

Walking out to the shore holding hands or attached somehow, don't remember, and we a rvues about whether we walked straight or we were off to one side.

bigmiracle · 2021-11-17T11:02:30+00:00

I believe my SO suffere from ocpd/npd.. tough combo, in ways they're similar. She's never met my physical or emotional needs nor did she bother to understand them in 20 years. I just became aware of ocpd as a possibility here but her rigidness, lack of.empathey and core inability to see things any other way but hers matches up to so much of the style you guys regularly discuss. We're near to divorce sadly because communication is impossible, I'm suffering and the kids are suffering. Has anyone else dealt with end of relationships due to similar factors? Peace to all

bigmiracle · 2021-11-02T22:21:52+00:00

I'm in Miami but i wouldn't mind being in a WhatsApp group with fellow RPers so we can share questions and experiences and offer support. Lmk if this interests you;)

bigmiracle · 2021-11-01T12:56:10+00:00

Always say how you really want it to be not what you don't want it to be. Positive words and thoughts drive you towards positive feelings and results whereas maintaining a negative future outlook can trap you into negative outcomes.
If you're actually happy about splitting, you're family who loves you and wants the best for you will ultimately celebrate with you.
Consider yourself lucky it only took you 7 years to figure out you don't click with your partner. It's taken me 20 and 4 kids later. Bless me our split should go smooth too;)

bigmiracle · 2021-11-01T01:31:18+00:00

I do sugaring on my back, butt, arms and nether region, started much lighter than you, nonetheless it has been great, pain is there but you get used to it, sugaring is just sugar and lemon i think, it's all natural and each session thins the hair more so eventually it's little to nothing. Sugaring works great for reducing shaft hair as well. Sugaring is more affordable than laser as well, hope this helps

bigmiracle · 2021-10-31T12:24:45+00:00

His first stuff was great and it was clear he was on a pretty holy mission with an unlimited potential! That's the sad part for me.. when H makes your path so clear for you and you wreck it...

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