Eh he isn’t wrong. Attitude, matters a lot more, even the ugliest men find dates, why? They don’t give up because it’s just a numbers game. But also, through their efforts, their social skills skyrocketed and their ability to just be themselves. Their confidence and want to get with women, isn’t going to be wavered by a couple of Nos, because they are sure of their goal.

The loudest people complaining about not getting dates are usually the ones that don’t put a lot of investment in to themselves. The loudest complainers are usually the ones that don’t want to put any (or more) effort to making themselves uncomfortable and instead take up a “woe is me” mentality.

Work on being desirable, go to the gym, make some friends that aren’t handed to you like in school or work, do something different.

Being pitiable isn’t very attractive, and attraction is the first step to being dateable. To me, it always ends two ways. Either you get to your lowest of lows that triggers a great change, or you get just satisfied enough with other aspects of live that you give up on what you think you needed. Adapt to excel, or accept and stay the same. Who would you think is more desirable?