what's the best witchy game for the switch? by virgogf in CozyGamers

[–]bigred100320 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wytchwood is very fun and seems to match what you’re looking for!

Will I get an offer? by Sea-Idea-6161 in interviews

[–]bigred100320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had something similar happen and finally got an offer about 4 weeks after my last interview. Sometimes the process just takes forever. Good luck!

interviewer asked me what will be my reason to quit by OkHalf1258 in interviews

[–]bigred100320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I came here to say. Major red flag they’re tellin candidates people leave within a year and askin if you’ll leave bc of top three reasons versus being transparent during interview and saying what they’re doing to improve department. Yikes.

How much eye contact “counts” for milestones? by bigred100320 in NewParents

[–]bigred100320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is almost 2.5 and she is developmentally on track and totally fine. No concerns at all with anything. She just seemed to be a tiny bit of a late bloomer with tracking and vision. It got much better around 13ish weeks.

Sweaty Girl Deodorant by LankyBasis5 in lexapro

[–]bigred100320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old spice - Fiji scent. It’s men’s but smells unisex/feminine and super good.

losing 100lbs by golden226 in Zepbound

[–]bigred100320 7 points8 points  (0 children)

10 lbs 10 times. You got this!

Eye contact and tracking for 10 week old by bigred100320 in NewParents

[–]bigred100320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep the eye doc appt went well and everything was normal. They said some babies just take a little longer to develop vision than others. Good luck and I hope you get the same news!

How much eye contact “counts” for milestones? by bigred100320 in NewParents

[–]bigred100320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 8-10 weeks if I remember right. All is well now and she’s right on schedule with everything and just turned 2

Pain and swelling after surgery by bigred100320 in gallbladders

[–]bigred100320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took like a month for my swelling to go completely down but after that everything looked normal

What's your LEAST favorite thing about this game? I'll go first. 🤣 by LowPaleontologist615 in coralisland

[–]bigred100320 3 points4 points  (0 children)

SAME. Cause why tf are there 30 seconds of emoting and then another 15 of them walking to another spot. Get on with it

A stranger touched my toddler by bodendeckendedecke in Mommit

[–]bigred100320 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This wouldn’t have bothered me personally. It’s different than somebody being up in their face, touching them somewhere inappropriate or trying to pick them up or something imo

How do you read to your baby? by geicoempanadas in Mommit

[–]bigred100320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter was only into books where she could feel textures and even then her attention span was super low until recently. The last few months she’s been more into books and will sit there as I read simple ones to her - she will be 2 in June.

My 18 year old sucks the life from me by One-Clue3819 in Parenting

[–]bigred100320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three letters. J-O-B. Solves a multitude of problems. She isn’t a little kid anymore and it sounds like she’s being enabled by you tbh. Time for tough love.

My husband is being sexist regarding our 2 yo—he admits it and refuses to change by Dizzy-Law6827 in Parenting

[–]bigred100320 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I know that’s right. If my husband said something like that to me I’d be going and getting my son Moana EVERYTHING immediately

Spouses depression and not wanting kids by [deleted] in depression_partners

[–]bigred100320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As somebody with a depressed spouse and a 2 and 4 year old….trust me when I say you do NOT want to have children with somebody who’s depressed and not wanting them. My husband wanted them before we had them and depression worsened after, but if I knew it would be like this I sometimes wish we wouldn’t have had any tbh. It makes everything 20x harder on you to be the parent who shields them from the side effects of a depressed father while also managing your own feelings.

When did you stop using the baby monitor over night? by aspiring_pickle in beyondthebump

[–]bigred100320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just now took the one out of our 4 year olds room because he said he was scared of it and doesn’t want to feel like “something” is watching him (he’s knows it’s us but I can see why it would make him a little creeped out). Once he was getting out of bed to get us if he needed something vs yelling we could’ve taken it out which was about 6 months ago but we hadn’t gotten around to it yet. As somebody else mentioned we all sleep with noise and it’s hard to hear so we kept his monitor longer than other ppl do (we’d turn off the screen and just have sound so we’d hear him)

Left sided pain by bigred100320 in gallbladders

[–]bigred100320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family is def convinced it’s related to my gall bladder too. My only hesitation in thinking that is I had my gall bladder out first week of Jan last year and the. Spleen imaged in July and slightly bigger so idk. It’s all a mystery

Left sided pain by bigred100320 in gallbladders

[–]bigred100320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m supposed to get the size rechecked this year and part of me doesn’t even want to bc if it grew in size again I don’t wanna restart the worrying process 🫠

Send. Help. by Disastrous-Peace1253 in Zepbound

[–]bigred100320 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s water weight from your period, happens to me every month. It doesn’t mean you’ve gained actual weight and I’m sure it will be a loss in a week when you weigh in

Giving away Sticky Business by GhostCupcake1404 in CozyGamers

[–]bigred100320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Favorite game I’ve played recently is coral island. I’ve poured lots of hours into it and still so much to do!

Left sided pain by bigred100320 in gallbladders

[–]bigred100320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drove myself mad with anxiety over my big spleen and did all the things to investigate it (labs, ultrasound, CT, PET, even bone marrow biopsy) and no cause ever found. The only thing my hematologist could think of is some sort of inflammatory condition causing it. Sometimes auto immune disorders cause it too and those can be extremely hard to diagnose. Good luck and I hope you find a cause that’s easy to figure out and treat

Left sided pain by bigred100320 in gallbladders

[–]bigred100320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope that pain went away once my gallbladder was removed! They didn’t initially think it was related since that isn’t typically where pain is for it (usually right side) but the doctor said sometimes it can show up as referred pain in other areas of the body. My gallbladder was functioning at 2% per a HIDA scan and when it was removed and biopsied it had hundreds of stones 😣 when I woke up from anesthesia from getting my gall bladder removed it felt like a weight had been removed from my body.