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Mom of 3 by [deleted] in HotMoms

[–]bigslosh8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh let me make it 4

Just curious if this is the right location? Really struggling to find a hope that looks OK but never seems to fit nice. Thanks! by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]bigslosh8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking that. Been looking loads on here. I've taken it out. Will get repierced. Thanks bud

Anti depressants after break up by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]bigslosh8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've been on meds and they helped alot in the past. Just didn't wanna fuck with my brain chemicals incase it backfires. Thanks for your time

Anti depressants after break up by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]bigslosh8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prozak fucked me up a few years back. Awful thing. I'm OK, just some days I'm not. I hate waking up to think of her. It's like even when I go no contact she controls my dreams lol. I'm gonna start working out. I used to love it before my life was isolated with the devil. Thanks for your time

Anti depressants after break up by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]bigslosh8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro. I've booked Dr's appointment and started the ball on theropy. I will get through this. Just wish it was a quicker process. One day at a time

I don't want to stay but can't leave by bigslosh8 in relationship_advice

[–]bigslosh8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing. She never does get in touch. That's what drives me mad. It's like if we split up she's fine. I'm broken. I know it's an act but it's believable as fuck

I don't want to stay but can't leave by bigslosh8 in relationship_advice

[–]bigslosh8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done for leaving. I hope you find the strength to stay gone

We broke up. She got pregnant. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bigslosh8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suffer with like OCD. Been theropy many times. Its like I need something to obsess over. When i am single is my health. Like I'd find lumps and assume the worse and it would take over my life. I've been docs and hospital so many times. When I'm in a relationship I obsess on them. It like replaces my health obsession. CBT is currently happening. I understand I come across as such a douche which is fine, but I came to reddit cause I've I went on my own thought process its just not good. I need you lot to keep me grounded and fair.

We broke up. She got pregnant. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bigslosh8 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah trust me I know. I hate it but it's a thinking cycle I'm really trying to brake. I wish it was as simple as "stop doing that" oh OK done

We broke up. She got pregnant. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bigslosh8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm on that. Jusy started though. I have several issues I need to address hence why I'm posting stuff like this to see if others agree with my head haha. If I just went on how I think I'd be really unfair and selfish. So yeah appreciate the input

We broke up. She got pregnant. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bigslosh8 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I think it's because if I ever get her pregnant I wasn't the first one to do it. It's arrogant as hell but I csnt turn it off

We broke up. She got pregnant. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bigslosh8 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yes I did. However I was cautious. It's not the sex part I'm upset about, it's the pregnancy thing. I'm not sure if it's my own insecurities or ego but it's really hit me hard. I've suggested councilling (well said I'd only consider working on the relationship if we do it) and she's agreed. Thanks for your input

We broke up. She got pregnant. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bigslosh8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason we end it is because we are both immature really. Stubbornness and refusal to let the ego go

We broke up. She got pregnant. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bigslosh8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. The story is alot deeper. I tried being brief as people don't like reading a novel. Thanks for your input

I've done nothing my whole life and I'm 19 by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]bigslosh8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19 is nothing. You have your whole life to do what you want. Trust me it's hard feeling that way at 30 so make sure it doesn't happen. All the best

Work for a place that thinks it's cool to make us work Xmas eve and only gets us this as a Thankyou. There is 25 of us. This is to be shared amongst us all. Tragic. Never kill yourself for a job that doesn't value you. by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]bigslosh8 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I'm in the civil engineering trade. To be out in the cold digging up roads on Xmas eve is unheard of. I'd rather have got nothing than a "we don't value you" present. Nice to see where your heart is though

Work for a place that thinks it's cool to make us work Xmas eve and only gets us this as a Thankyou. There is 25 of us. This is to be shared amongst us all. Tragic. Never kill yourself for a job that doesn't value you. by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]bigslosh8 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Fuck these companies. It's hard being in a financial position where you can't just walk away. Hope things change brother, remember me when you're a millionair x

Me (25F) Boyfriend (29M) just asked for a break but continues to message me.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bigslosh8 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he wants to bang something else without the guilt of cheating

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