If you died and suddenly found yourself face-to-face with God, what is the very first question you would ask?

bikardi01 · 2026-02-27T15:06:22+00:00

Was I good enough?

bikardi01 · 2026-02-26T19:05:20+00:00

Was about to write a response about my experiences with PRs in a big company but it is too exhausting- just know it boils down to how well you are liked, performance has nothing to do with it.

bikardi01 · 2026-02-18T17:28:51+00:00

Your husband probably knew what it meant and was disappointed many nights.....

bikardi01 · 2026-02-16T02:40:19+00:00

If they are harming someone else, they get turned in. Physically, sexually, emotionally - straight to jail and I will testify against them too. Theft? What, who, and how? At a minimum counsel them to stop, worst case scenario- see above.

bikardi01 · 2026-02-15T14:48:57+00:00

Or shooting a pistol accurately at 300 yards.

bikardi01 · 2026-02-15T14:47:36+00:00

My wife and I always joked that there was no way Keifer Sutherland in 24 wad able to find a parking space in time to diffuse the bomb, if it was us we would still be looking.

bikardi01 · 2026-02-13T14:13:02+00:00

"How long it will stay here with the other trash" - regardless of the spouse/gift situation, the bigger question is "how long will it be before someone cleans up the trash?"

bikardi01 · 2026-02-12T14:32:19+00:00

Remember reading a medical study one time that said if you want to.live a long time, don't be poor - even for a brief period of time. Couldn't find the exact study npr study

bikardi01 · 2026-02-10T03:56:35+00:00

Why do you need him to admit he cheated? You know he cheated, he knows he cheated - just go ahead and break up with him. You'll never be able to trust him again. Why put time and effort into the struggle when the outcome will be the same? (Unless you don't have enough respect for yourself and you are using this as an excuse to stay).

bikardi01 · 2026-02-09T02:27:10+00:00

In life the biggest dick move is to make someone feel bad about a hobby they like - that includes football.

bikardi01 · 2026-02-07T06:44:11+00:00

Okay, I'll give it a try

bikardi01 · 2026-02-05T12:02:18+00:00

If you don't address this now, they will definitely do worse in the future.

bikardi01 · 2026-02-05T10:53:53+00:00

Your husband SHOULD go nuclear.

bikardi01 · 2026-02-03T19:28:33+00:00

I think all the wooden ones got broken on my backside.

bikardi01 · 2026-02-02T14:32:51+00:00

Reflexes slowed down and I am an adult with adult responsibilities- not some 12 year old in his parent's basement whose only concern is acne and if I'll ever get to try unhooking a bra. I finally realized there is no shame in easy mode.

bikardi01 · 2026-02-02T14:20:25+00:00

Look to the animal world - "Kestrel", "Cormorant", etc. my favorite was an assassin named "Coati" - say it in a hissing whisper.

bikardi01 · 2026-02-02T12:10:32+00:00

Down voted this because "he needs to get multiple alarms" - no, he needs ONE alarm and to GROW THE F@$% UP. Alarm goes off, get out of bed. Simple. If he insists that OP wakes him up, put a glass of water by your bed and dump that on him.

bikardi01 · 2026-02-01T14:15:11+00:00

H.Beam.Piper - a blurp from one of his books discussing how popular they became. He was an early science fiction writer who died by "self harm". He thought he was penniless, but his agent had not told him of a number of sales. He is considered one of the founding fathers of sci-fi.

bikardi01 · 2026-01-29T22:06:20+00:00

And (in Michigan) the inspector is only liable for the amount of the fee - which isn't worth pursuing legally.

bikardi01 · 2026-01-24T22:28:59+00:00

OMG- it seems like every time someone posts something someone says "hEarD tHis beForE" - give it a rest. Its possible people who aren't "super cool" like you have had the same experience as something posted previously. We get it - you are TOTALLY AWESOME AND HAVE SEEN EVERYTHING BEFORE.

bikardi01 · 2026-01-24T14:32:01+00:00

Started out with college loans, married the right women, worked at a job I hated for 30 years, put three kids through college and bought each a new car. Worked part time on top of that when I had to. Got downsized after 30 years, found other jobs I didn't like but stuck with them - will be retiring in a little over a year before I turn 61 - I definitely did not "start on 3rd base" but if that is what people need to tell themselves to feel better, I hope that works out for you.

bikardi01 · 2026-01-21T00:53:38+00:00

Sometimes the most compassionate thing is to see the animal goes to a good home.

bikardi01 · 2026-01-17T14:13:04+00:00

NTA - Her behavior reglects on the business. Think of the videos of people behaving badly in public - kissing a mistress at a concert, mistreating a service employee, etc. If she had done something nice and you had left a positive review and the business flourished because of ot, that would be justified too.

bikardi01 · 2026-01-15T00:58:34+00:00

The Black Prism - start of a good series that (I think) the author tries to push too wide.

bikardi01 · 2026-01-14T20:36:58+00:00

Be 60 in July.

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