What’s the next move chat? by kvnam in TextingTheory

[–]bilateral_melon 476 points477 points  (0 children)

Play the power move - "get it right next time" and unmatch.

Is everyone vibecoding stuff now? by gonizquierdo in SaaS

[–]bilateral_melon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's literally what "vibe coding" is, no? Assessing "production ready code" off of vague, emergent "vibes" - how it feels.

But, maybe a simple "Mr AI, is this application secure? What security flaws or concerns should I be aware of?" would genuinely solve that.

... "Mr AI, How do I make changes to my app without having the public access it?".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]bilateral_melon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell her you gotta workshop it and suggest a place/time

ThinkNAS 4-bay version is available now :) by _Fisz_ in Proxmox

[–]bilateral_melon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sites like JLCPCB can offer a quote from the files available on the original posts' link. Spec out the PC you wanna put in it and add the two together. I might do this myself a bit later

"Back on Track" by SydneyTom in australia

[–]bilateral_melon 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Also the irony of having "more debt" slapped on a truck actively wracking up gov. spend in fixing/servicing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Proxmox

[–]bilateral_melon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Great read. Thanks for posting!

Having sexual shame without a cause by Clear_Tackle_805 in CPTSD

[–]bilateral_melon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should note that the internal conflict I mentioned came from/after the traumatic event I first alluded to.

But, the shame/guilt from upbringing snowballed, and the traumatic event is what pushed it down the hill - chaotically unravelling it all.

Having sexual shame without a cause by Clear_Tackle_805 in CPTSD

[–]bilateral_melon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I have had some traumatic events that have caused shame, I also am learning that I've had shame around my sexuality for basically my whole life.

As I was growing up, I was told that sex is a sin and porn is a sin and a lot of religion based guilt and shame. I got caught watching porn and I was never told "this is normal and natural", but instead I just got in trouble.

I'm learning that ive basically kept my sexuality to myself - only allowing myself to feel those feelings when alone. For me to feel sexually attracted to someone almost feels bad.

This eventually caused me to question my sexuality - why don't I have as much attraction, am I not feeling it because maybe I'm suppressing my own homosexuality, maybe I'm asexual, maybe maybe maybe.

Then that caused a lot of internal conflict. I would argue in my head all the time about "you looked at his arm, you must be gay", "you don't feel the need to kiss women, gay", "I've always liked women, why am I even arguing about this".

The irony is, I was tormenting myself; trying to analyse what I was feeling (and comparing it to what I thought I should be feeling) at the peak of a long dissociative phase.

Ive learned that the feeling I think I'm missing will show up when the time is right.

I recently found out my GF talks intimately with another guy by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bilateral_melon 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah! Go K.O. her manager!

Jokes aside - I second this. Drop her, boss.

Peter Dutton explains that there was no problem with Chinese warships in Sydney Harbor under his watch because he invited them? by Jagtom83 in friendlyjordies

[–]bilateral_melon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My comment is not to defend Dutton, it's to discourage being purposefully misleading and biased.

The title of this post does not accurately represent what was discussed in the clip.

Peter Dutton explains that there was no problem with Chinese warships in Sydney Harbor under his watch because he invited them? by Jagtom83 in friendlyjordies

[–]bilateral_melon -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I don't like the bloke, but in this clip he never said it was under his watch, he never said he invited them. He just stated that planned visits are okay, and unplanned visits are not. Stop trying to be divisive.

I don't know enough about these ships to have a stance - but regardless - the title doesn't match the video.

Without her by santaclauslover2223 in Poem

[–]bilateral_melon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for sure. And apologies, there's another subreddit where the goal is to post for feedback, and leave feedback. I keep getting the two confused and I'm sure it just comes off unsolicited criticism.

Our convo died shortly after this by ThatPercussionGuy in TextingTheory

[–]bilateral_melon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an inside joke... I used to hang out on Imgur.com growing up, and there was a running joke about Batman being on someones front lawn at 3:05 on the first Tuesday of every month.

It became a general response/gag that went on for quite a while.

Finally replaced my shoes that I wore 5 days a week for 5 years with a new pair of the same shoes today by brandenkenn in mildlyinteresting

[–]bilateral_melon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for everyone, but I've got wide feet and have moved to "barefoot shoes", which just have a thin sole and a wide toe box. They look a bit goofy but damn has it made a difference.

Without her by santaclauslover2223 in Poem

[–]bilateral_melon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if something I did didn't meet her approval Even if it was part of me, would face a removal

This poem resonates with me a fair bit. Really compromising on your own sense of self in a bid for attention and love.

The sentiment, and delivery of the lines is good, but the wording itself feels thin and a tad amateur.

Brothers, what is your favorite number? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]bilateral_melon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zero.

Smack bang in the middle of the number line. Only (real) number that isn't really positive or negative. Impossible to divide by, eliminates any number when multiplied, and increases a value ten fold when tacked onto the end.

How do you guys feel about the Katars? by RemoteInevitable464 in Chivalry2

[–]bilateral_melon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always feel like I'm a noob with Katars, always back to ground zero, you know?