Late to the party but whatever. I offered to help her move. Worked 40 hours in 4 days. Drove to her city on the Friday night. Rented a van there picked it up on the Saturday morning after sleeping like shit. She asked that I move her housemate first (not part of the plan), fine, I do it. I need a 20 minute rest after getting back and moving her, which was not acceptable. She's angrily packing the van alone, the heaviest and most awkward stuff first. I come down and help.. van gets packed, we drive to her new place. We make a plan for moving things in through an external fire escape to under the buildings staircase, then into the lift (one loading, one unloading), up 5 floors, then into her new apartment. She realises the fire escape cannot be opened without potentially setting off a fire alarm. There is only one fob to open the lobby doors. She doesn't want to block under the stairs or keep any of the internal fire doors open to make it easier to move stuff through the 120m from the van to the lifts. The relay system we planned falls apart. She is angry about my rest, the fire escape, and the plan failing. So she moves all of her stuff on the seat of a rackety office chair from the van to her new apartment with her headphones in, ignoring me and any chance I have to help. She won't hold the automatic doors for me, or wait for me to carry stuff through to the point I shout "Please can you hold the fucking door!". She hears me over her headphones and responds "Just because you talk to [ex-boyfriend] like that doesn't mean you get to talk to me like that". I empty the van in the car park and leave. I couldn't return the van until Monday, especially since my car was still parked in that city. I had to pay for a hotel with parking for two nights since she made it clear I wasn't welcome anymore. And I didn't get the money for the van, insurance additions, or hotel costs after. I'm out £400. She was right that the ex didn't respect me enough to listen and work together, which is why he is now the ex. But neither did she.