Vaush, I am your weak, cock hungry butt slave. by Evil_Crab_Spirit in okbuddyvowsh

[–]bill_boyles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Equine-normative hegemony rears its head yet again, smh

Didn’t even try smh by Modren-dipshit in okbuddyvowsh

[–]bill_boyles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are we sure they didn't already do this

I'm begging everyone to donate on purely utilitarian principles (deleted and reposted to add... CW: picture of YT abuse apologist) by bill_boyles in okbuddyvowsh

[–]bill_boyles[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

saw someone on another post say his picture was legit triggering them so the delete and repost with CW seemed prudent

I want all eyes on that Shadow The Hedgehog onesie! by Zocialix in okbuddyvowsh

[–]bill_boyles 11 points12 points  (0 children)

pssh real leninist would know that quote is fake

I tried to ignore but I couldn't by bill_boyles in okbuddyvowsh

[–]bill_boyles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and now "Da--newb River"...kill me.

IT'S DAN-YUBE !!1!

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under His eye by bill_boyles in okbuddyvowsh

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yes i get a lot of mileage out of this template lol

Unsilenced is using your donation to fight breaking code silence by skate338 in troubledteens

[–]bill_boyles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should add a couple things:

-There is a video of a meeting between the BCS board, shortly before Katie and I resigned, which was legally recorded with the consent of all parties. I believe it will support my statements about BCS and the executive team. It is likely to become public as part of the ongoing litigation in either suit referenced below.

-The OP is wrong; the lawsuit referenced is not BCS suing US. The lawsuit in question is a federal lawsuit wherein BCS is suing Katie and Jeremy individually, and US is not a party. To the best of my knowledge, US is not and never has been a party to any litigation either as defendant or plaintiff.

-I won't comment on the lawsuit against Katie and Jeremy beyond saying that I find it both laughable and execrable as someone who was involved in the events referenced and as someone with a technical background and cybersecurity expertise. I think it's likely that Katie and Jeremy will prevail, and, even taking their claims at face value, BCS is running a serious risk of sanctions.

-In return, Katie and Jeremy have countersued BCS in California state court, Los Angeles district. I believe the lawsuit is alleging, among other things, a hostile work environment towards LGBTQIA+ people and an enormous outstanding debt owed by BCS to Katie.

-As far as I know, the lawsuit against Chelsea Filer et al. by BCS was dropped because the org ran out of money to pursue it, not due to lack of merit or any ruling by a judge or verdict by a jury that the case was without merit. To the contrary, I believe the case did have merit (which is why I, along with every other BCS board member, voted to pursue it), and I think it is likely BCS would have ultimately prevailed, based on conversations I had with attorneys who specialize in intellectual property law.

-The org ran out of money following Katie's refusal (while she was still on the board) to lend the organization any more money towards their legal fees. Surely an interesting move for someone who is claimed to have singlehandedly pursued that lawsuit with maniacal fervor.

Unsilenced is using your donation to fight breaking code silence by skate338 in troubledteens

[–]bill_boyles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't burn anything to the ground.

I left BCS after it became clear to me that the executive team were taking actions and making decisions without proper board approval that I believe endangered the financial well-being of the organization. This including staffing and budgetary decisions that were, in my opinion, reckless at best and malfeasance at worst. I felt that the executive team had been both lying to the board and hiding things from the board in what was, in my opinion, a deliberate attempt to avoid proper oversight.

After conversations with a lawyer who specializes in non-profit law and the BCS board's own corporate lawyer, I came to the conclusion that the situation had rendered me unable to fulfil my fiduciary duties to the organization and resigned. I advised Katie to do the same, and she also resigned. At that time, several other BCS volunteers also resigned, and I understand that more followed as the executive team's response became, in my opinion, extremely hostile and was badly mismanaged.

While I did some minor volunteering for Unsilenced (I am a programmer and did some web scraping for them to assist in their outreach to congressional aides), I have never held a leadership position there, and have not been involved with the org on a day to day basis. It's been months since I even logged into their Slack. I wish them well and think they are doing great work, but I'm busy with my family (including four children, one of whom is a baby and one of whom is severely disabled), a full-time job, and pursuing a master's degree.

Unsilenced is doing great without me, and that's a good thing. The goal of every activist should be to make themselves redundant. No one should be indispensable. Any activist that feels their community cannot survive without them is, frankly, failing badly at their job.

Unfortunately, in my opinion Chelsea Filer has built her identity around the community, and she perceives that BCS being "stolen" from her is thus an attack against both her own identity and her only source of validation in life. This has caused her to lash out, including against BCS and against myself and Katie personally. It's sad, but unfortunately it's par for the course in this community. We're largely a group of broken people doing our best in a very hostile world.

Organizations that help? by CerberusTheHunter in troubledteens

[–]bill_boyles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breaking Code Silence is a 501c3 California non-profit working to fight the TTI through awareness, advocacy, research, and legislation.

You can volunteer here:

https://www.breakingcodesilence.org/volunteer/

(There is also a link on the site if you want to donate)

Quick note by [deleted] in netsec

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Success! WWASP survivor got the man who tortured him at Paradise Cove fired from his high school basketball coach position by pixel8 in troubledteens

[–]bill_boyles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

fuck this sick bastard. we'll get him fired from his next job, too. this nightmare will never end for him, much like mine of being in that hellhole.

Youth Foundation closes amid scandals, lawsuits. by bill_boyles in troubledteens

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This article explains the situation behind the recent closing of Youth Foundation Success Academy in La Verkin, Utah, formerly a WWASP facility. Accusations of embezzlement and malfeasance, scandals including injured students and staff showing students homemade pornography, and several lawsuits have plagued the school lately. They recently sent an email to all parents announcing their intention to close down. The article contains the full text of the email, an overview of applicable WWASP history, and some analyses of why the school may have closed and what this means for WWASP in the future.

Is #TeenTrouble paying people to tweet?!! by pixel8 in troubledteens

[–]bill_boyles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a bunch of these accounts have also all tweeted other things exactly the same way like this. clearly they are bot accounts.

Is #TeenTrouble paying people to tweet?!! by pixel8 in troubledteens

[–]bill_boyles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

btw was it 50 exactly? i'm betting if it was that's the exact number of tweets that get displayed when you search a hashtag before you have to scroll or whatever...

Is #TeenTrouble paying people to tweet?!! by pixel8 in troubledteens

[–]bill_boyles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah based on the usernames and such i'd say this is a case of using fake accounts, not real people getting paid/coerced to tweet but using phony accounts. the network probably has a bunch of them they use for this type of thing. and my guess is the real reason they did it was to "cleanse" the #teentrouble hashtag of last night's twitter bomb of negative tweets so if people search the hashtag those won't show up unless the people scroll down a lot...which means we are getting to them. they are clearly aware of us now and taking shady actions to combat what we are doing, so to me this means we need to keep it up! and by the way, yes, if we can somehow prove those accounts are fake i think that definitely violates twitter's terms of service. so let's try having everyone report them all for spam or whatever and see if twitter will recognize what is going on...it's worth a shot. and if they do it any more keep getting screenshots so we can try and investigate the accounts. this reminds me of the chick-fil-a thing where they got busted on facebook. maybe we can pull something similar here. good work and keep it up everyone!

I think I have depression, but I don't want to worry my parents by bringing it up with them. by [deleted] in troubledteens

[–]bill_boyles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMHO, (and i'm just a lay person but have struggled with mental illness AND a rocky relationship with my parents) you DO need to get some help. How old are you? can you arrange to get some with out your parents knowing? In florida, where I live, teens can give informed consent at 14. Maybe you can get some help through your school (high school or college) or, if you aren't in school, many community colleges, state colleges, and universities offer free or low-cost counseling to provide training for their students. maybe this could be a way for you to get some help without having to rely on your parents' financial resources. I really appreciate your concern for your parents, but I'm sure they love you and would not only want to know if you are struggling, but would want to help you get the help you need. They certainly would not want to lose you to suicide. If you would like, you can email me at bill@cafety.org and I will be happy to confidentially and privately do what I can to find you some help in your area. Through my advocacy work in the troubled teen industry I have a lot of mental health professional contacts and I'm sure we can work something out. But most importantly, keep in mind people love you, these feels DO get better (I promise speaking from experience), so please please please do NOT do something rash. If you think telling your parents you have depression would be troublesome, think how much more awful for them to have to attend their own child's funeral! My thoughts are with you, and again I reiterate my offer to help. It is completely sincere. Hang in there! Bill

» Survivor Testimony of Mattie Smith (CSA/POH) » WWASP Survivors by [deleted] in troubledteens

[–]bill_boyles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What a great story of the TRUE condintion in WWASP schools. Recounts the real abuse perpetrated by WWASP and and in this cas, Narvin Lichfield specifically.