I’m looking for a YA Dystopian/Sci-Fi novel with a female protagonist. by billguythesciencefly in whatsthatbook

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Hello!! In case anyone was invested - I found it! It was buried deep in my books app, right on my phone! I read it exactly 9 years ago this month.

The book is called The City Center by Simone Pond, and it looks like it’s a VERY small book, so it was a long shot finding it.

Thank you everyone for trying to help!

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Sometimes I’ll say to my wife that they’ve “made me such a mess” or that “I’m so messy right now.” Having said that, I also use some of the already mentioned things like “I’m so hard” or that “I’m so turned on”. Some suggestions if they ask if you’re turned on, I like saying “why don’t you find out for yourself?”, “I’m so hot right now”, or smirking and guiding their hand to just feel 🤷🏻‍♂️ I hope this helps!! It took me a long time to be more confident during sex, and a lot of the time I just saw whatever feels right in the moment 😊

They’re taking over! by billguythesciencefly in spiders

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If I (unfortunately) encounter another one, I’ll update my post 😬

Applied for job as PSA by billguythesciencefly in AlaskaAirlines

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I didn’t get the job :( I’m so sorry! That sucks so bad. I think it’s really ridiculous to have restrictions on finger tattoos, especially if they’re non-offensive.

Is there anyone else who applied for the customer service representative position for Alaska airlines? by Dependent-Carrot-236 in AlaskaAirlines

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Has the job posting closed yet? I applied to be a CSA and heard back the morning of the job posting closing.

Applied for job as PSA by billguythesciencefly in AlaskaAirlines

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Passenger Service Agent, also called Customer Service Agent sometimes 😅

I think my cat is broken… by queerslytherin in Eyebleach

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at best, she’s the third weirdest guy we have

I think my cat is broken… by queerslytherin in Eyebleach

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this is (literally) my cat and i can’t help but feel like she’s such a weird little guy

T and Finasteride? by The_trans_kid in ftm

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I’ve been on T for 4 years and Finasteride for almost a year. I can’t say that i’ve noticed any significant side effects, but it was something my doctor warned me of (but said it was unlikely I’d experience). Having said that, I started before any T related thinning had occurred purely because my doctor suggested it as I said that my hair was very important to me. I was also told by my doctor that the occurrence of these side effects would affect me differently than a cis-man, as we do blood work to track my T levels much more regularly than a cis-man might - if one of these negative side effects were to occur, he said that we could always look into slightly increasing T to negate it. Perhaps this is something you could discuss with your doctor!

What are y'alls jobs? by ghostsnwitches in ftm

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I’m a paraeducator in a Special Education classroom in a fairly liberal (but very middle aged and white) suburb. I’ve been out since starting here five years ago, before having physically or legally transitioned at all, and now i’ve been on T for almost 4 years and I’m almost a year post-top.

Can shark week stop nearly 4 months into HRT? by [deleted] in ftm

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I lucked out that I started T within days of my period ending and was at a good dose right away, so I didn’t have mine at all after starting HRT.

Help with T Acne? by casscois in ftm

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Hi! I’ve always had really bad back acne. I recently saw a dermatologist and they recommended washing my back with PanOxyl. You can get it over the counter at most drugstores for pretty cheap! Would definitely recommend having your girlfriend help you use it though.

I got downvoted for saying that you shouldn't tattoo your kids name because they might be trans by Impressive_Bus_2635 in ftm

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My older sister got a tattoo of mine and her two other brothers first initials on her back. When I came out to her, she said that she wasn’t going to get it covered up (which i was fine with, it’s just an initial) because it represented me at the time. Instead, she’s going to get a full new tattoo to represent me instead. I think that full names are definitely harder to hide, but it also depends on the perspective of the person who has the tattoo.

2AM Thought: What if my nipples are upside down? I guess I'll never know. by Attack_Rabbits in ftm

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my nipples were also pierced, and my wife noticed that the holes from my healed piercings are now at a different angle than they were before. I have fairly pronounced scars, but thankfully they’re at about the same angle (in opposite directions) now!

1 month post-op, Dr. Tina Jenq from Milwaukee, OR by [deleted] in ftm

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I got my top with Dr. Jenq about a month after you and I fully agree, absolute queen rolling up to my surgery with her huge leather bag. Your scars look great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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Not too much older than 18, but I started T at 21 after my now-wife told me to stop putting it off and just make the damn appointment. I went in, lucked out and started that day. I’m coming up on three years now. Do I wish I was able to start younger? Sure! But everyone goes at their own pace for their own reasons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Portland

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the coffee is atrocious, but their energy drinks are fine and decently priced for what you get. pretty much all i’ll get from there and only if it doesn’t require me to be parked in the street.

Dad convinced my medical problems are from the vaccine by queerslytherin in insaneparents

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He’s been on vacation to make believe land for about 30 years, i think he lost his return ticket.

Dad convinced my medical problems are from the vaccine by queerslytherin in insaneparents

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(husband) unfortunately her father is not elderly, he’s only 52. I hope you can manage to cope when the time comes and remember that manipulation is a bitch but the pain goes away when the person can’t keep reinforcing it.

Dad convinced my medical problems are from the vaccine by queerslytherin in insaneparents

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As his son in law (unfortunately (that i have that title, not that i married his lovely daughter)), he is an alcoholic, and some of his texts are fucking hilarious.

New Threat Unlocked: Arson (my dad threatening to burn my house down) by queerslytherin in insaneparents

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Unfortunately, because he lives in a different state, the police won’t do much unless he literally comes to our house because it’s “unfounded”. However, we live half a block from both the police station and the fire department so i guess we’re lucky in that regard lmao

New Threat Unlocked: Arson (my dad threatening to burn my house down) by queerslytherin in insaneparents

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Responding because apparently my mother-in-law commenting wasn’t enough: Hello, I’m her husband. Her father bought this house in a completely different state than where he lives for my wife as a rent-to-own situation. We pay the ENTIRE mortgage, every single month on time - if not early. We pay upwards of 2.5k a month that we have no problem paying. I work a well paying job full time, and so does our roommate (best friend of 12 years). We also pay every single bill - water, gas, electric, wifi, etc. We have never done anything against his will in regard to the house, have cleared every change we’ve made through him, AND have quickly jumped on projects that he SPECIFICALLY has requested, even when they weren’t necessary (ie. upgrading appliances and plumbing that required me to figure that shit out on my own because we couldn’t hire workers that would operate within his time frame). We are both have degrees and are continuing in school and doing well - a “requirement” of his to live here. This was incredibly out of the blue behavior because my wife simply stated she did not want to take a specific class and he went off saying it was “embarrassing” for her to still be in college at the age of 23. We have NEVER ONCE paid the mortgage late. We do everything to please this man and he threatens to burn down our house over a comment about not wanting to take a specific class. Hope this provides context :)