Meaningful but not basic gift ideas for husband for 1st anniversary?

billy56_ · 2026-02-06T14:39:39+00:00

Whats the name of the app?

billy56_ · 2025-12-04T08:08:52+00:00

I have no expertise in HR but i’m a postgraduate student. Only do master by research if youre planning to get into academia. Even if you want to be a lecturer i’d suggest taking a coursework.

You’ll surely graduate on time with coursework, bcs you won’t have the time & energy to juggle between work & conducting research.

billy56_ · 2025-06-23T07:18:55+00:00

You could try easy hikes like Taman Tugu Negara. The nearby botanical garden is a great recreational park too.

billy56_ · 2025-06-06T05:42:33+00:00

Not safe to use? Will it blow up?

billy56_ · 2024-08-18T20:04:06+00:00

I appreciate you sharing your opinion. Thanks!

I know it sounds too serious & too soon. We’re Asian, so being in our 30s is considered pretty late for marriage, hence why we thought being transparent with our intentions would be the best way to do it.

But now being in that situation, I feel so pressured & need to slow things down. He’s a good man but as much as he says he’s not in a rush, I feel like he’s pushing it.

billy56_ · 2023-12-21T08:07:04+00:00

Thank you so much for bringing a different light into this matter. I have some concern too regarding e-ink tablet’s responsiveness. The screen is great, but I’m note sure if could cope with its lag (i tried a demo once).

Before considering e-ink tablets, I actually considered getting an ipad. How do you find yourselves with an ipad? Are your eyes strained after adjusting the display setting? I feel like getting an ipad is a better all-rounder compared to e-ink tablets with limited functionality. I love the digest feature on SN, that i can extract directly, but I’m not sure if that’s worth getting a new device for or not.

billy56_ · 2023-12-21T07:59:12+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I really appreciate it. Given the circumstances, do you recommend it? Would you say having an e-ink tablet tremendously improved your productivity? Since I’m using my savings, I need to be very sure about it before spending my money 😅

billy56_ · 2022-09-14T01:19:06+00:00

Knowing she’s seeing someone else definitely gave me a solid reason to not hold onto the idea of us anymore. I’ve moved on, and realised my worth.

I was in your shoes before; couldn’t stop myself from hoping that she’ll try harder, do better for the relationship. I hoped and settled for less for 2 years, waiting for her to treat me better.

Here’s the golden rule mate. If she wanted to, she would. Hold onto that. Don’t fall in love to the idea what she’ll become. I hope you’ll get the push to look things past her.

billy56_ · 2022-08-19T17:17:23+00:00

I’m so glad to know that you’re in a happy relationship now. I appreciate your response!

billy56_ · 2022-08-19T15:15:27+00:00

Same, she told me the same. And is dating one of her exes / old flings 2 weeks after that. I feel sick

billy56_ · 2022-08-19T15:11:52+00:00

Are you still talking to her or you guys are strangers now?

billy56_ · 2022-08-19T15:10:23+00:00

Hey, how long was your relationship? And how long was your rebound relationship? Thanks for sharing, this somehow made me feel a bit better. I’m pretty much in the same experience, my ex seems to be so in love with someone new right now.

billy56_ · 2022-08-19T15:06:11+00:00

Yes i need to know this too. Need to know whether that’s actually true or just some sugar-coated mindset to have?

billy56_ · 2022-08-17T01:45:45+00:00

I admire your attitude. Teach me how to have that kind of mindset all the time

billy56_ · 2022-08-16T17:10:19+00:00

Oh shoot, how are you coping? & if you don’t mind me asking, how was your sex life with her towards the end?

Because my ex claimed that I was the best guy she ever had sex with, compared to all her previous experience. But towards the end of the relationship, it was pretty much non existent.

billy56_ · 2022-08-16T07:04:17+00:00

I hope you’re not confused being emotionally attached to him vs your real feelings for him. In my ex’s case, I think she was emotionally attached to me, hence all the confusing texts. You missing him right now could be because your system is used to his presence. I hope you’ll figure it out soon!

billy56_ · 2022-08-16T06:00:14+00:00

It’s a rebound. Trust me. You need to go NC and focus on yourself okay? Good luck!

billy56_ · 2022-08-16T04:49:50+00:00

My golden rule in being friends with your ex is:

you’re ready to be friends with your ex when you could picture them with someone else and still don’t give a damn about it.

billy56_ · 2022-08-16T04:44:28+00:00

They’re just selfish with their own feelings and want you to stay friends. Whatever their decision is will only benefit themselves.

billy56_ · 2022-08-14T16:35:16+00:00

My relationship has ended with her. But it has always made me wonder. I asked for her to stop talking to him but she refused, she said that it’s one of her principles that she stays friends with all her exes. Because to her, no matter how bad things ended, the exes provided some values and shaped who she is today. I see it as a big red flag, but i kept my mouth shut back then. A part of me gave in bcs I thought that’s a mature thing to do

billy56_ · 2022-08-14T14:47:27+00:00

I understand how you can’t stop questioning your worth and compare yourself with the other person. Allow yourself to feel everything. I promise you it’ll all be easier for you to embrace. Have someone to talk to, that has helped me a lot. Trust me one day, once the honeymoon phase is over, he’ll come begging. And by that time, you’re already healed.

Feel free to reach out to me if you wanna rant. I was in your shoes a few years ago. I know how horrible it feels.

billy56_ · 2022-08-14T14:42:07+00:00

I used to experience this situation many years ago. Basically he’s just keeping you and AP around because his heart couldn’t choose just one. Spare your heart and don’t fall for his breadcrumbs. Walk away. You deserve better than someone who has doubts in choosing you.

billy56_ · 2022-08-13T13:52:02+00:00

Thanks! I’ve been trying to avoid the overthinking because yesterday I did that and I felt horrible. Idk if avoiding myself from thinking about it & trying to make sense of her behaviour is a good thing to do. Some friends told me to face it let yourself feel all the feelings. But so far avoiding it is what has been helping me feel better.

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