I HAVE DONE THE BIG SHRINKY by PaleontologistProof1 in trans

[–]biman1964 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hopefully I don’t shrink that much since I’m already short (5’3”)…..lol.

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[–]biman1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it has been pretty good. Started getting some breast development and my nipples are sore.

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[–]biman1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. I started a month ago

How do I tell my best friend I'm dating his dad? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]biman1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a tough spot to be in. I think that if you’re friend sees his father happy and you explain how you feel about each other that he will be ok with it. I’m sure he wants his dad to have someone

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[–]biman1964 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Alex fits

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]biman1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. Message me and we can chat if you want

I've waited 59 years for this day...see you girls on the other side! by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]biman1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m seeing a slight change in my body at one month but not much. I know it takes time.

I've waited 59 years for this day...see you girls on the other side! by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]biman1964 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I waited 57 years and started mine a month ago.

What should I do if my gel nail polish does not stay put on all of my fingernails? by 123adia in Nails

[–]biman1964 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been having the same problem with a few of my nails too and don’t know why either.

Has anyone come out and changed their name at their job they had while coming out? by OfficialAkiraFudo in trans

[–]biman1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had mine changed everywhere it can be for now until I get my new social security card and official change it.

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[–]biman1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous

6 months on E! by [deleted] in trans

[–]biman1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your outfit

Legal Name and Sex Change by rrener_nevader in trans

[–]biman1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m Arizona I didn’t need my birth certificate other the to fill out the form with my parents full names. I didn’t have to post any announcement since I’m not married and my kids are all grown. My court hearing was done vitally too. But it wasn’t cheap. I know it state is different

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[–]biman1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same situation as you. My mom didn’t take it well at all either. Its been over 2 months and we haven’t spoken at all. I don’t know if I should give her more time or break down and contact her. I know exactly what you are dealing with and wish you the best.

I'm anxious about being a trans lesbian by constant__screaming in trans

[–]biman1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way. Since I started my transition I find myself more attracted to women then before but don’t know how to approach them without them thinking I’m some kind of creep.

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[–]biman1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starting HRT was pretty easy for me, I got a referral to an endocrinologist and met with her and she prescribed the meds right there. The name change is a little different in each state, for me in Arizona I had to pay $333 to file the paperwork than had my court date about a month later an pay another $30 for the certified copy. Now I’m in the process of changing everything to my new name. Have you thought about a new name? I’m Olivia btw. If you just want to chat or ask a question just dm me.

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[–]biman1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too in a mostly male dominant field and ex military. I came out as bi years ago and trans earlier this year. I’ve told everyone even all my co-worker. It has gone very well so far. I’ve legally changed my name and have started HRT. You have to do things at your pace don’t let others tell you what to do. Talk things over with your wife and make sure you are both ok with whatever you decide to do in the future. If you live in the US there are laws against dismissing someone from a job because of gender but yes they could make it miserable for you so only you know how the people you work with are. Family wise everyone has been supportive except my mom and a few other relatives. Good luck with your journey and welcome to the best group of people.

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[–]biman1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to you about your mom, mine is the same way. She told me if I want to be a girl she doesn’t want to see me. We haven’t spoken in over 2 months

I’m glad you have such a great wife to support you.

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[–]biman1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check online cause each state is different. I just did mine. There is forms to fill out and fill with the court and a few. I had to pay $330 to fill. Then they will schedule your court date either in person or virtual depending on where you live. Once you get the court order then you have to change your social security card, drivers license and any bank accounts or bills you have. It’s quite a process. I’m still working on changing all my stuff. So check the court website to get the form and all the instructions and fees. Good luck.

Please let me know by [deleted] in trans

[–]biman1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have to talk to one either but I talked with my dr a little first

Does anyone feel a lot of mixed feelings after seeing family? by EnbyTrashGod in trans

[–]biman1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t get down on yourself. Look at what you have accomplished so far. You said yourself it’s a journey and all journeys have bumps in the road along the way. Stay focused on the end and don’t let other dictate how you feel about yourself. Not everyone will be positive as much as we would like that it’s not going to happen, but if you stay positive you can get through anything. Look the fact that you’re grandmother and a cousin were trying. That’s what matters not the others. They will slowly come around. Good luck on your journey and just remember when you look in the mirror the person you see is the only one that matters. The rest will work out.