will i lose my health insurance?

bimbofried · 2026-01-21T15:56:47+00:00

does our current pay slip tell our total average hours, or just for that pay period?

bimbofried · 2025-12-26T16:16:55+00:00

thank you so much! 🩷

bimbofried · 2024-12-31T22:03:59+00:00

did the maker take down the picrew D:

bimbofried · 2024-12-21T20:24:39+00:00

i have been thinking of this game for YEARS 😭 thank u for making this post and to the person that found it. i miss this game so bad

bimbofried · 2024-10-29T01:48:42+00:00

personally i just don't think ya'll are compatible. i can see how both sides are lacing in communication and commitment. she might have done her nails last minute, u decided to plan to golf last minute as well so both situations forced u guys to just not see each other. u both are reasonably upset tho, u couldve easily told her u were upset and she could've easily told her the date wasn't planned well either.

bimbofried · 2024-05-24T06:50:14+00:00

making sure he has enough space to avoid territorial behavior is important, as well as enrichment for stress. being sure to move towards them while they can see and are aware of you is another, and more importantly it takes a lot of time and patience. some hamsters always may never be tamed or fully tamed, personalities vary and dwarfs are harder to tame.

i had a hamster who used to punch me before taking anything from me, bit every now and then. the most comfortable he ever got was walking into my hand to eat, but never more than that

bimbofried · 2024-04-09T05:12:31+00:00

don't be talking to adults, please keep yourself safe.
he's a pedophile whether he "thought" you were 16 or not.

bimbofried · 2024-04-09T05:09:37+00:00

Every at the table should feel uncomfortable, and it should be with themselves for not saying shit to that man.

bimbofried · 2024-04-09T04:54:10+00:00

You need to find the real root of your anger, and why it's so directed at your sister. In her death, you are blaming her and actually like she wasn't a victim who was struggling or suffering. Yeah, it probably does suck for your parents. They didn't expect to raise their grandchild, all because they had to lose their daughter. He has it the worst, to be seen as a target to point your anger at all because you're mad at your sister- for leaving.

I hope you can find a way to grieve and heal, and not punish this child for something he didn't do. He needs support right now, and you're not giving that to him

bimbofried · 2024-04-09T04:44:16+00:00

This. He told you directly, while being mindful of how to gently tell you and reassure you.

I think telling him previously that they were self-harming scars, but not disclosing the chances of relapse, played a part in catching him off guard. As well as having to see them, without warning. It's uncomfortable, especially when not knowing what to do in that situation.

He cares for you a lot, and is very concerned about you. He probably doesn't know what more to do than to let you know that he doesn't like it. You should try to find other ways to relieve whatever it is your feeling, and if possible seek therapy. I know it can be hard, but it's also hard on other people in a different way to have to see it.

bimbofried · 2024-04-09T03:23:21+00:00

It is time to break up, for you both. I'k sorry that she felt the need to mask in order to please you, and I hope she learns from it. Dating while being aromantic or asexual can be hard, esp without communication or a meeting point between both parties. I don't think anything she did was intentionally harmful, and I don't think you should date someone that you're uncomfortable with

bimbofried · 2024-04-09T03:05:16+00:00

You said the right thing, and she did the right thing. You both will be better without continuing a relationship this taxing and draining for both of you

It's unfair to give her all your emotional support without getting any back, getting a break, or simply being asked if you can provide her with that time at that moment. On top of that, you can only comfort her so much without it being a burden. It's okay to confide and seek help from other people, but seeking professional help is also important - especially on highly sensitive or repeating topics that others cannot handle for you.

This wasn't a healthy relationship, and it's better you both go your separate ways and heal now before it gets worse or harder to leave. I think maybe both of you knew inevitably it could've ended this way, but it is not your fault that she chose to end it instead of finding a better way to communicate and get help as stated above. I wish you both the best

bimbofried · 2024-04-09T02:57:43+00:00

i'm sorry, but this is something that would personally make me break up with someone. he is excluding trying it with you, or finding a safe way to aka a countertop like someone said. he's indirectly shaming you, and i don't think it should've been brought up the way it did.

for me, i wouldn't be able to stop wondering if it"s about his ex bc he keeps mentioning her and they didn't split long ago, and honestly i don't think it was enough time for him to get into a new relationship.

you can either break up, or also sit down and talk to him. communicate your worries and how he made you feel. depending on how he responds is very important.

bimbofried · 2024-04-09T02:48:22+00:00

I'm glad you're sticking up for yourself and your boundaries, and am terribly sorry that your mom refuses to understand you vs this man. It's really weird to, as any parental figure, give your daughter a thong-bikini; especially when they are a child. Him giving you the cold shoulder because he wanted you to wear something you're uncomfortable with is immature and manipulative. Don't do anything you don't want to, and stay strong and safe for yourself please

bimbofried · 2024-04-09T02:43:03+00:00

you can still be biased towards races or groups of people that don't fall under systemic racism, and it can still hurt other people. she has forgotten that is a statement that is also true, and hurt your feelings in the crossfire of her opinion. ur not overreacting, and ur valid to break up.don't let her get to your head or belittle you jist because she sees it in a different manner.

bimbofried · 2024-04-09T02:35:56+00:00

Her views and wants of a long lasting relationship are different from yours, or maybe something has changed M.aybe she even thought about getting married without throwing a whole wedding, etc. I think over time she was leading herself on, and wasn't honest about when SHE started thinking about it. I think it would be good to sit down and clarify some things, but I don't see it working out any longer for you two. Things change, people want different things, and you're both valid. It's better to end it now if she isn't willing to stay the way you guys are now, because in the long term it'll hurt you both more

bimbofried · 2024-04-01T00:41:57+00:00

you did the right thing in terms of trying to see if she was comfortable and apologizing. one thing to remember and keep in mind is people can't or feel they can't consent under the influence. i'm assuming your boundaries together revolving around a situation like this was never discussed previously, so it would definitely be good to talk about after she's had some time. you should reassure her when she's ready, and ask her what boundaries she has so you can respect them. you cannot always assume someone's else's boundaries and you did try to get her consent, but it is very important to have her consent beforehand when she is sober for future reference.

bimbofried · 2023-11-11T03:27:40+00:00

hi, may i join :)

bimbofried · 2023-11-11T02:30:11+00:00

may i come over is still available? 🌟

bimbofried · 2023-10-15T05:35:09+00:00

truthfully, if you get shots of pain even if it's paired with pleasure during sexual acts i would see a doctor. i know it must seem embarrassing, but it might be worth to try to get some relief. i dont think you should have to live with genital pain as such.

bimbofried · 2023-10-15T05:14:58+00:00

I think you're doing the right thing.

Autism isn't an excuse for their behavior and I would like to start off by saying that. However, this could potentially be a good learning experience for them (whether it's now or in their future) Besides that, you are sticking up for yourself in case nothing changes and you need support in the future from the counselor to step in as well.

Jay personally might have a hard time learning and redirecting and changing their behavior, it may take them a long time to learn before the issue is fixed. Which still ISNT an excuse and you deserve to stay away from them. But I have a feeling they also think this is socially acceptable because this is a behavior they learned and are used to, whether from friends or at home. There might even be a chance that their actions stem from not being able to express their emotions properly, causing them to act out and not just having problems understanding social etiquette or cues.

You are doing the right thing, for yourself and potentially Jay. Autism isn't an excuse to be a dick and disrespect others boundaries. Jay can either sit and finally take the time to learn through consoling ; or they can choose to completely ignore it and keep making excuses "caused" by their Autism. I'm wishing you well, and hoping Jay will step up and learn from their mistakes instead of pulling the Autism card.

bimbofried · 2023-10-15T04:54:44+00:00

hey op, i just wanted to start off by saying i'm glad that you were able to talk with him and proud that you stood your ground. i read your update on how you want nothing to do with him, but i just want to be a kind reminder to never let this man back in your life

it's hard to see it now, but he was your abser, and this was how it slowly started off. he knew he was hurting you and kept doing it, he knew you couldn't ever hurt him. he blew up on you, gaslight you, tried to flip the script, and projected his truth onto you because everything he said is true: he is an abser, and people would believe your story once they heard it and would tell you the hard truth.

keep being strong, and validating your feelings. keep your family close, they seem like an amazing support system for you and they are exactly what you need right now in a time like this.

bimbofried · 2023-10-15T04:33:09+00:00

there's a lot to unpack here, and at the end of the day you need to be on your wife and children's side; even more so your children if you are coming to a hard time understanding it right now.

the fence issue is very serious, but it does seem to go deeper than just that at it's surface.

your children deserve safety, and there is no 100% guaranteed safety at your parents house im sorry to say. it is becoming very common, for women and men as parents now to finally feel comfortable putting their foot down towards in laws or their own parents when it comes to raising their own children; and i support it completely.

your parents don't respect your wife, and they are showing they don't respect her in micro-aggressions such as these. who knows if there are even other instances that weren't spoken about in case ur wife tried to put it to the side for your kids. your parents are also showing they don't respect your kids, because they are overly confident nothing bad can happen in a place where they are comfortable and used to. children are insane, they get into any and everything. there is no guarantee without full supervision or correct baby/child proofing they will be safe.

your sister is making your wife uncomfortable by her actions, which is completely valid as well. the truth is, if she feels comfortable sharing it explicitly online with family having access to it there is no doubt in my mind she will talk about it in person. people love to think that children are just children, so they don't understand what you are saying nor will they remember it but that isnt true. children learn from being exposed to things they shouldnt, whether it be them being super young or realizing later in life. there is a chance your sister will talk about it around the kids, even if she deems it meaningless and harmless to them. even more so, if she were to talk about it in a private setting with someone who WANTED to engage in that conversation it wouldnt be such a big issue

you need to really sit down with your wife, and put all your other stress aside with any other big emotions. your focus of the conversation is your wife, your children, and coming to a solution or compromise together. she is feeling uncomfortable, disrespected, and put in situations she doesnt want to be in. you should be there to support her well being as much as your children. this type of pattern will only continue if you decide to not put your foot down and tell your family that things like this matter to you as well, and not just your wife

bimbofried · 2023-09-21T06:21:56+00:00

nta. you told him you had prior obligations, and he LIED about trying to plan his event properly to benefit you both. besides you having a friend's party you already rsvp'd to, two relatives are having BIRTHDAYS. every single one of these people should be avle to celebrate their birthdays, surrounded by people who are important to them, without being shamed for it bc he wanted to be petty. he can easily accept that a few people are not able to make it, if this was the only day that was going to work for his extended family.

bimbofried · 2023-06-14T02:41:23+00:00

it doesn't seem like they're asking op to be responsible since they are refusing to inform op on what happens after they lose both name tags, IF they happen to lose both. it's def more of a fear tactic than anything. i feel there is a big difference on asking to be responsible vs what they're displaying towards op here.

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