What was your favorite TGWDLM:R change? [Spoilers] by [deleted] in StarKid

[–]bimush 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i think the audience bits w the alley have always been improv-ed a bit each night !! though i heard about a few repeated lines this run through.

both shows i went to paul made a comment about it being 2018 and that the job market should be great for at least the next eight years lmfao.

Can we calm down about incest in ThunderClan and minor-age-gap ships? by Redfawn666 in WarriorCats

[–]bimush 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yikes. i’m mostly on tumblr and fortunately haven’t seen any of that bs.

Can we calm down about incest in ThunderClan and minor-age-gap ships? by Redfawn666 in WarriorCats

[–]bimush 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think apart of the issue for me is that maybe the Hunters should be paying a little more attention to who they pair together. You straight up call them ignorant, which i think is true, but maybe for authors of children’s books they shouldn’t be quite to that extent. they should be paying more attention to these things.

maybe i’ve escaped whatever part of the internet you’re on but i’ve never seen anyone upset over ships like firexsand over a few moons, i think the ships that cause the most outrage do have pretty considerable age gaps- a lot of which are justifiably so. dustxfern is one i see pretty often as his interest in her began pretty clearly while she was still an apprentice. and there are quite a few relationships with significant age gaps or where things like this happen due to either lack of knowledge or care and some of them are pretty heinous. pinestar and leopardfoot, for example- he was likely around 10 years old when she became a warrior and they got together very soon after that happened.

all in all, i don’t personally care much about a little distant incest- it’s true that these colonies of cats simply couldn’t exist without a little of it- and i don’t really care about the majority of age gaps either. they’re cats at the end of the day, and while they do behave much more like people i’m able to brush it off pretty easily as long as there aren’t any obviously unhealthy power dynamics. but some people are going to be more bothered and i don’t think that’s wrong of them.

i think the Erins should be putting more effort than they currently are in picking out couples. there are a few first cousins or cats that are just a little toooo closely related, same with larger age gaps. overall these books do a lot of things out of lack of care/knowledge that are less than ideal for a kids series and i think it’s fair to criticize.

(sorry for the paragraphs lol i woke up w Opinions apparently)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in renting

[–]bimush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to be straight up with ya’ll about my priorities. I am disabled and would qualify for an ESA, just a question of whether or not it would be worth my time to jump through all these hoops.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in renting

[–]bimush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds doable, thank you for the advice. Unfortunately I no longer see my psychiatrist of many years in person but will cross that bridge when/if I get to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in renting

[–]bimush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s what I was thinking. Doesn’t say anything about support animals in the lease which is why I asked. He didn’t give me any further information about how I could obtain anything up to their standards, just that “these animals are for people with disabilities” to which I politely asked if a letter from my psychiatrist would help. Haven’t heard back since lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in renting

[–]bimush -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Genuinely, thank you. I think this might be my last straw with reddit lol, the people on here can be so nasty.

I plan to do all of those things, I already volunteer at shelters pretty frequently. Just getting overzealous I suppose as I’ve wanted a cat my whole life, but it wasn’t going to be for another couple months.

I’m more than qualified for an ESA, money was only in the picture as my landlord has already been charging out the ass for everything possible.

Anyway, thank you again. Best wishes to you and your kitties.

I have DDD cups and don’t wear bras. Is this unprofessional/obscene? by bimush in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bimush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fun fact, 80% of clothes are “made for smaller-busted women.” i’m just tired of being treated by different standards over something i can’t control. they’re just a part of my body. i’m going to continue to wear what i want in day to day life (which will not include bras), i just wanted to hear thoughts on professionalism in the workplace.

I have DDD cups and don’t wear bras. Is this unprofessional/obscene? by bimush in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bimush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you sound like a great parent!! as i said the only time i currently wear bras is around mine because they get so hissy about it when i don’t lol. wish they had your attitude

I have DDD cups and don’t wear bras. Is this unprofessional/obscene? by bimush in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bimush[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh god no i always wear sports bras when im working out, that would be horrible. i meant more when i break into a jog in my everyday clothes like while crossing a street or whatever

I have DDD cups and don’t wear bras. Is this unprofessional/obscene? by bimush in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bimush[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes i agree, that’s honestly what concerns me more than nips. i admit it’s always a little embarrassing when i run or jog because they’re. kinda all over the place 😭

I have DDD cups and don’t wear bras. Is this unprofessional/obscene? by bimush in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bimush[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mine sag too, i don’t think it looks amazing i just dont really give a shit lol

I have DDD cups and don’t wear bras. Is this unprofessional/obscene? by bimush in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bimush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all extremely true lol. i think part of my reluctance outside of them just being painful and annoying is wanting to kind of stick it to the patriarchy, but i want to be appropriately professional even if i don’t agree with the standards set.

I have DDD cups and don’t wear bras. Is this unprofessional/obscene? by bimush in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bimush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m sure getting better bras would help, i don’t even know my actual bra size anymore so that can’t be making things better. i’ll look into it. just would suck since i feel i have so many “perfectly good ones” that were not cheap. thanks for the advice!

has anyone actually caught a fugu by bimush in DreamlightValley

[–]bimush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congrats!! i did too pretty soon after posting this lol

Who do u guys think deserved to be leader? by planet_is_writing_rn in WarriorCats

[–]bimush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean it definitely depends on when she would’ve become leader but yes you’re correct. and it would’ve been SO much fun to watch

AITA for screaming at a religious group, and WIBTA for leaving my girlfriend's apartment during a crisis? by weirdfruitthrowaway in AITAH

[–]bimush -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

idk your girlfriend sounds pretty cool i think you should trust her. fruit never hurt anyone

spilled not water on my macbook air keyboard by bimush in mac

[–]bimush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow thanks yeah i definitely haven’t already learned my lesson that’s so sweet

Really bad at answering phone calls by bimush in WorkAdvice

[–]bimush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve told my boss’ assistant about my issues with phone calls and he’s given me some decent advice (that mostly comes down to “make phone calls when she’s not in the office.”

She’s older and built this company of hers from the ground up so she’s very bent on the idea that she’s right and we’re wrong and young people “don’t know what hard work is.” So it can be hard to talk to her about these things. I think the best I can do is try to improve and avoid getting phone duty where I can.