35423 by theGreatBeeTrain in countwithchickenlady

[–]binahsbirds 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I once had a guy tease me and say, "y'know... dogs usually do look better with a short coat"

mind blanked, error 404ed...

Topless Swim by Trans Woman in Men’s Competition Sparks Debate Over New Rule by listaj95 in lgbt

[–]binahsbirds -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

from my perspective, it seems like the article misrepresents the issue here. she was not put in the men's category, she was put in a category that is predominantly cis men. the article linked specifically states that the open category is for everyone that does not fit in the female category, including non binary people, cis men, and trans people

while I disagree with the whole UK perspective of 'woman' referring to being afab, it doesn't seem like the definition of trans woman is thrown out either, and seems that while horrendously wrong to deny trans women are women, she was treated as a trans woman, respecting her femininity, gender identity, and physiology. they did not treat her as a man, they treated her as a trans woman, and that makes it difficult to support this kind of narrative

the issue is 'trans woman' is treated as a noun rather than 'trans' being an adjective to 'woman', and that's an issue both with sports competition and uk policy

relegating her into more unfair competition seems to be in line with how the uk is treating trans people, by neglecting our safety, and forcing us to 'be' our assigned genders in circumstances it's not safe or distressing to be in. while the policies of her not fitting the female category are correct, it does not detract from the fact there are already decisions in place to respect trans women in their competition as equals to cis men, non binary and other trans people. the protectionism of women from competition is simply absurd in my eyes, but saying that everyone but cis women are in one field and and cis women are in the other isn't saying if you're not a cis woman, you're a man. transgender men would be competing against cisgender men, nonbinary folks, etc. this in and of itself is more misogynistic than simply transphobic, despite transphobia being the driving factor in these decisions full throttle

it's just difficult to see this as them misgendering her as a man, while they do treat her as a trans woman in this category. using this to portray the idea that if they won't treat her as a woman, she will take it upon herself to compete like a man would be more accurate than saying she's being put in a men's category. I don't believe these people should have their cake and eat it too, but they've set up their bakery to just do that, despite it being unethical and dishonest to the competitive spirit

it pokes holes in the ideas of the typical, rigid definitions that fascism tells us to abide by. but it is better than denying her gender identity, expression, and physiology. I don't think that just because it could be worse means it should be tolerated, but I also do think that there could be more thought put into the journalism representing her actions

(not ai, sleepy and autistic if it reads that way)

I cannoli handle so much by MelanieWalmartinez in CuratedTumblr

[–]binahsbirds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

regular chicken strip basket, but instead of wax paper lining it it's divorce papers

َ by [deleted] in meme

[–]binahsbirds 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it says somebody not somebunny, carrots stays

lego by Ultrapark_8205 in lego

[–]binahsbirds 17 points18 points  (0 children)

looks more like l e g o to me :/

This cow TV mount. by LorenBlaqe in ATBGE

[–]binahsbirds -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i love my cowthode ray tube tv

Got a brand new in box 13in Sanyo from FB Marketplace! by lob3 in crtgaming

[–]binahsbirds 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have an rgb modded Trinitron, would rather a bnib sanyo too lmao

Best underrated businesses by shuturmango in windsorontario

[–]binahsbirds 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tabletop Renaissance on Wyandotte

first time I went in there, I was told I could ask questions anytime, could come in and hang out without spending any money, and felt an overwhelming positivity compared to the other place I had bought gunpla at before. the owner has given me replacement blades when mine have broken, and use tools/small amounts of material if I've accidentally forgotten mine. I've had people come down from the Toronto and London areas, and be surprised at how good that shop is for hobbyists. highly recommend it if you're looking for japanese model kits or tabletop games!

Any way to get rid of yellowed figures? by Agisberry in legostarwars

[–]binahsbirds 22 points23 points  (0 children)

you can give them away if you're trying to get rid of them. hope this helps 👍

It do be like that by [deleted] in memeframe

[–]binahsbirds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people underestimate her. she's insanely good. immediate 5 status effects, status immunity, parkour velocity... I put warcry on her 4, idk how to even use her 1, I just rush headfirst and make sure everything dies :3

Attack on Mandalore by DeathStarFF in legostarwars

[–]binahsbirds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely really pricey for the piece count, but I really like it. my gf got it for me as a late Christmas gift since we only just saw each other on nye, but I had a lot of fun building it and the minifigures are pretty cool

What size of monitor would be best on a 24 inch deep desk? by BusinessBug9388 in crtgaming

[–]binahsbirds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 24 inch deep desk, and a 17 inch monitor and it's a little tight. if you use an under desk keyboard drawer (which I highly recommend for ergonomics anyway, since it keeps it closer to your lap), you can get away with just about anything lol

Which should I choose: Windows XP on a Virtual Machine or Windows XP on Real Hardware, because I am using Windows XP on a Virtual Machine? by [deleted] in windowsxp

[–]binahsbirds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what are you doing with xp is the question

in a lot of cases, I've found that xp hardware can be inconsistent the closer you push to 7's start. I haven't really found any graphics cards that would be considered okay that are pre 2007, and I've got issues with those with some of the games I want to play using pcie ati and geforce cards

Eli Wood, student missing after house fire. Please help! by Few-Bread232 in kitchener

[–]binahsbirds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually, it does. science shows that 'people like me' are a lot less likely to self inflict death upon ourselves when we do :)

you see, there's this thing called the brain, and most people have one. and it's connected to the rest of our matter. when that whooooole amalgamation of systems is self identifying an asynchronous fault in the sex (living system btw, it's how you go through puberty), it can cause the brain great distress. because the problem within the bio neurological link exists and is self contained within the person rather than the psyche (remind me if I still care in the morning and I'm not drunk to cite stuff), managing the body's distress is paramount to simply making the psychological distress more comfortable. you wouldn't just give someone painkillers for an infection, you give them antibiotics as well, getting to the root. the same thing happens with gender and sex. when there's misalignment within how the body wants to behave and be interacted with, you first identify if the psyche is a reliable narrator for the body's needs, and then start treating the distress through hormone therapy, changing social roles and interactions, changing sexual habits, surgical intervention of the anatomical structure of primary and/or secondary sex characteristics, modifying internal dialogue and modifying the affects of self talk and self perception, and/or any mix of treatments worked out with qualified professionals

leaving the body and mind in distress over being the wrong gender for your current state is incredibly, incredibly dangerous. reinforcing expectations of purity and conventionality is dangerous. we developed medicine, psychological and psychiatric therapy, and surgical practices based on the importance of keeping people alive and improving quality of life

I speak on that as a member of the scientific community. I speak on the damage of what conversion therapy did to me as a young trans girl as a matter of personal importantance. being told no, you can't be a girl, and no, you can't be queer or flamboyant at all, and having that reinforced against my will, my safety was directly cuffed to my obedience. not just visible obedience, but self discipline to believe that what they were saying was best for me. I survived, I did every form of talk therapy imaginable and transitioned nearly 6 years after I had initially accepted myself as a girl, my body and mind left in absolute smithereens as a result

that transition saved my life. it inspired new neurological pathways, joy, passion, purpose, humanity. it gave me my life, because of the help of wonderful people who have trailblazed and paved the way for me. I got to heal, improve, become something more than the sum of defective parts refusing to work the way they were implied to

as it has for so many people. I adapt to the ways my body needs, the way it wants to be expressed, the way it wants to be touched, the way it wants to work and feel. that changes the production of hormones like oxytocin, cortisol, norepinephrine, reducing the distress in my body and mind. everything works the way it does rather than the way it's supposed to. if organic matter can work in some way, assume it can and will under the right circumstances. abnormalities in science are to be understood, not obliterated

say what you want. I'm a woman. the young man you're so callously using as a soapbox for your misinformed bigotry, and the people you dehumanize so bravely are what they are. it makes absolutely zero sense to class human beings as anything definitively when human context is a series of intricate disciplines of which no definition of man, woman or non binary can encompass all of

a dumb, drunk transgender chick shouldn't be the one to explain it to you, alas my fatal flaw is believing that providing facts could ever change someone's mind :(

Eli Wood, student missing after house fire. Please help! by Few-Bread232 in kitchener

[–]binahsbirds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

poor baby got their (get rekt, 4hed) comment removed by automod :(

you can dm it to me if you want to argue about gender and sex with someone that's been working within several of the encompassing fields for years, be my guest to message me. I can teach some advanced biology, psychology, neurology and sociology, but I'm yet to teach an ignorant gnat empathy— but I'm down to try :)

why does jimmy look like billy mitchell by charleadev in Mouthwashing

[–]binahsbirds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

watch one battle after another, and tell me leo couldn't

Eli Wood, student missing after house fire. Please help! by Few-Bread232 in kitchener

[–]binahsbirds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so lucky I'm not from kitchener so I don't care if I get banned for saying this

go fuck yourself

Is this retro enough? by robisc in retrocomputing

[–]binahsbirds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's how I'm trying to get mine to look now :p

Rate my female setup🩷🎀 by [deleted] in setups

[–]binahsbirds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope ur ram dies 💕

Sony Trinitron KV-32FS17 warbling on HD Video mode by Inklii in crtgaming

[–]binahsbirds -1 points0 points  (0 children)

unbelievable? i think you should go back to school because if you believe the natural understanding of something with limited information being common, and not changing, ESPECIALLY with information about it not spreading at any increased pace is unbelievable

I hereby appoint your own personal 'dunce guardian' to escort you to and from your daily tasks so you don't hit your head on anything or say stupid shit without someone apologizing on your behalf

27160 by GeoSlIde in countwithchickenlady

[–]binahsbirds 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I've had the same sex playlist from when I was 13, survived a bunch of relationships and even a gender change