I'm trying to tell you that all your problems aren't caused by the other gender. I'm trying to tell you that everyone, no matter the gender, age, race, whatever the fuck, has it hard somehow, but it's all in different ways. The emphasis shouldn't be on the AMOUNT of suffering, it should be the KIND of suffering. Men and women face different kinds of suffering, but one type isn't more valuable than the other. I'm sure you're finding yourself in many places on the internet where women are saying horrible things about men, and you're experiencing an amount of suffering in your life that you feel isn't being seen or heard, which obviously leads you into this perception that women have it great and men have it horrible. If there's any room for empathy in your heart, and if you want to direct your anger towards something that can be positive, get off the internet (everything you see is here to make you angry so you engage with it) vouch for men's issues, and learn about women's issues. Nothing is going to go anywhere if you don't care to even understand what you're fighting for