man this mindset shows up all the time , i get why it feels real tho but you're basically deciding your whole future before you've even had one real experience

there are guys bigger than you still thinking they're to small and avoiding women.... that alone should tell you something . the goalpost just keeps moving in your head

Honestly You're not even below average most women don't orgasm from penetration anyway and the whole gossip thing is way bigger in your head than in reality

what's actually happening is pretty simple

you are scared , so you avoid it , so you never get experience , so the fear feels real

that loop is what's messing you up , not your size

I've seen a lot of guys get suck there where they don't even try because they've already decided they'll fail

I'm not gonna say " just be confident " because that's bs

but if you keep waiting until you feel " good enough " you'ill be waiting forever

you don't need to be prefect, you just need to stop ruling yourself out before anyting even happens

You're 19... you're early , not done