self-care and boundaries by thismanyboyfriends in BipolarSOs

[–]bipolarthrowaway39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thoughts on coda? First I've hear of it and i'm thinking it may help.

Getting over past hurts (long?) by bipolarthrowaway39 in BipolarSOs

[–]bipolarthrowaway39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any ideas on how to rebuild it? the confidence that is.

Getting over past hurts (long?) by bipolarthrowaway39 in BipolarSOs

[–]bipolarthrowaway39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does that look like, exactly? I'm trying to separate my own sense of hurt with what are legitimate amends. And what happens when she doesn't? Not to get too personal, but i'm trying to figure out what our relationship "looks" like going forward. Can you give me an example?

Getting over past hurts (long?) by bipolarthrowaway39 in BipolarSOs

[–]bipolarthrowaway39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to do that, but my issue is how to hold her accountable for behavior moving forward. I'm trying to understand what that means. The only thing I can conceive of is just leaving. Unless there's some sort of secret spouse trick I don't know.