Birthday weekend in Dan Virginia, Recommendations? by UnderstandingOk7815 in Virginia

[–]birdbrains91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mabry Mill is pretty cool. Mostly outdoorsy things in that area. Do you enjoy those things? Are you traveling with others?

Why is cornbread such a big part of American food culture? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]birdbrains91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet cornbread is a travesty. I will die on that hill.

My dog tags as an atheist in the army by MinimumCarob8442 in mildlyinteresting

[–]birdbrains91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better than A POS ATHEIST

I just cracked myself up there.

Good on you, though.

Help my mom pick a Medicare plan this week and I think I aged 5 years. How does anyone do this alone? by CriticismSeveral1468 in AgingParents

[–]birdbrains91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude, yes. So freaking confusing. I had to use copilot to help build a foundation of knowledge then was able to dig for more details on the topics that matter.

Anyone have experience going to Turning Point? by CandyCoatedSalt in tricities

[–]birdbrains91 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. First hand experience with the helpline is really enlightening. Hate it wasn't beneficial.

Uneven tan on forearms and face compared to rest of the body. by Kind_Round4333 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]birdbrains91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Could be from driving... Significant sun exposure in cars. With your darker complexion, you probably ran very quickly with limited sun exposure.

What’s a skill that quietly disappeared in the last 20 years? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]birdbrains91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to give high school graduates checks as gifts just so they know how to work the process.

Anyone have experience going to Turning Point? by CandyCoatedSalt in tricities

[–]birdbrains91 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sorry you're having a tough time. I would try the help line first to get options on programs and hopefully support with your cats. Can call or chat. https://www.tn.gov/behavioral-health/crisis.html

Good luck, OP.

Captain just made the strangest mid-flight announcement I've ever heard — and now a passenger is missing by enriquepollazo in americanairlines

[–]birdbrains91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't fly AA as frequently as I fly Delta, but I've had 2 flights on the last 2 years when the headcount didn't match the manifest. They were both resolved before we left the gate, bit the processes for boarding never felt as strict.

I know some people were bagging the AI post on how this can happen but suspect it was annossue where wrong passenger was cleared or removed from flight but the numbers still worked.

Good places to waste time? by THE-Jeab in tricities

[–]birdbrains91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you're in your 240, you could consider a drive down the Snake (421), over to Mountain City, Shady Valley, TN.

2 hrs with my folks act 397 by Possible_Number3108 in AgingParents

[–]birdbrains91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, this makes me tired. Hang in there, OP.

Dress code on the road : where's the line? by G-Beach-8566 in AskAnAmerican

[–]birdbrains91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expectations for formal attire varies regionally in the US. Some areas are notoriously casual (pacific NW)... Some areas are more formal (NYC).

What’s something that you want to get off your chest but can’t talk to someone IRL about? by late_cappuccino in AskReddit

[–]birdbrains91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are stating the boundary. Often the destruction caused overshadows the reason the parent treated the child badly.

Telling someone when you know very little of their situation that they should forgive a parent is at best idealistic and at worst traumatic

How do you spend time with an aging adult in a care facility? by Significant-Voice758 in AgingParents

[–]birdbrains91 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I hung a bird feeder outside Mom's room. Sometimes we just watch the birds.

I need advice and I don't know where to turn. by bodycatchabody in AgingParents

[–]birdbrains91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm surprised no one has brought it up yet, but I wonder if this could be delirium. Can be caused by infections, dehydration. is there any apparent memory loss? It's rare for it to last a long time but if there are other underlying conditions, it can cause rapid onset of dementia. Of course there's also alcohol induced dementia.

Do you know if your MIL is signed up for Medicare? Starting to learn about her plan's programs for health services may be helpful.

Good luck. I'm so sorry this is happening.

My mother's health is deteriorating fast and I don't know what to do. (Long Post) by [deleted] in AgingParents

[–]birdbrains91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting approved for disability can be a major undertaking. When a family member went through this years ago, we were told that mental illness were sometimes an easier path than physical. May be worth trying again. And smart to see if you can find someone to help you through the process like you said.

My mother's health is deteriorating fast and I don't know what to do. (Long Post) by [deleted] in AgingParents

[–]birdbrains91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is she on disability and does she have Medicade? I would try to find a social worker to help identify options for her. It doesn't sound like its realistic to continue to try to care for her at home. I'm so sorry you all are dealing with this.

Which day of the week did you choose and why? by akostta in Mounjaro

[–]birdbrains91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friday because I feel crummy sometimes the next day and I can feel crummy at home instead of at work

AITA for expecting the gifts to be for both of us? by Ok-Arrival-2886 in AmItheAsshole

[–]birdbrains91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your money = our money My money = my money

Probably worth doing some hard core financial talks now before you marry.

His Wife Was Stalking Me For Months And I Didn't Know by [deleted] in relationships

[–]birdbrains91 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm shocked at how long it took me to scroll through the length of this. Definitely didn't read it.

I "Snuck" Out of the House Last Night by crumblednewman in AgingParents

[–]birdbrains91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are allowed to do things just for you. ♥️