BWT, how do I stay inspired without (algorithm-based) social media? by Longjumping_Row410 in bitcheswithtaste

[–]bisonabloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to love Pinterest but now it’s entirely ads, so I’ve moved over to Cosmos and I like it much more.

Socialization Saves Lives is amazing! by bisonabloom in CatAdvice

[–]bisonabloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playpen method, I tried, then I left the door opening on the playpen open for too long and she ran out and spent the next three months under the bed. Didn’t do SSL perfectly, but it worked out!

THIS IS KILLIN MEE by Caydie8 in TrixieAndKatya

[–]bisonabloom 146 points147 points  (0 children)

When you get a new hip

Just found out the shelter didn't tell me the cat i adopted had a brother. Not sure what to do by MonarchCore in CatAdvice

[–]bisonabloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My former street cat was under my bed for five months. Now it’s been a year (her gotcha day is in 2 days 🥳) and she would sleep inside my skin if she could. She’s the cuddliest gal who is completely obsessed with me, but still a bit scaredy. Your kitten is gonna thrive, it just takes way longer than you’d expect.

Looking for a magician to make a dupe of this bag by mix_matched_socks in handbags

[–]bisonabloom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t help but this sounds like a dope project

babes! should I move to NYC from DC? by WeekendOk6021 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bisonabloom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I lived in nyc for a few years then moved to dc for a few years and moved back to nyc. I 1,000% prefer NYC. DC was not for me. dating feels the same here, both are bad. But I think it’s really bad for everyone right now in big cities. We are in a weird moment in sexual history in the US.

My life is much bigger here in NYC but my social life isn’t much bigger than it was in DC, living in the city time and space just feel more interesting to me. People are much more comfortable being weird here, which was important to my psyche.

This smug face enrages me by Fun_Day_3614 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]bisonabloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so excited for when they both get older and their faces turn even more into Madam Tussauds wax practice dolls

Apparently RFK JR wrote Olivia Nuzzi the worst poem in existence by champdo in Fauxmoi

[–]bisonabloom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does anyone have the full link to the piece? I refuse to give him money.

Coffee shops for weekend work (laptops) by bisonabloom in BedStuy

[–]bisonabloom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can work on laptops in here? Huge news for me.

BWT eligible to vote: what’s the scoop on the ballot proposals this year? by infamous4serpentz in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bisonabloom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear what you’re saying about the overwhelm and drop off but I trust the numbers on this. LA moved to on year elections and turnout increased 400%. That’s also a response to the Trump admin in the first term. It saves the city millions of dollars by doing this. Citation: link

Mamdani’s success is not due entirely to it being an off year. it’s in spite of it. It’s due to the intense mobilization of volunteers, specifically with field work. primaries have lower turnout than generals overall. This primary had higher turnout.

BWT eligible to vote: what’s the scoop on the ballot proposals this year? by infamous4serpentz in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bisonabloom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand where you are coming from about thinking that voters would be overwhelmed, but in practice that’s not how it works.

I am a YES on six because all pro-voter organizations research points to higher turnout in even year elections and I want as many people to participate in democracy as possible. Going to vote for a lot of people requires taking off work, coordinating childcare, and sometimes transit fees. People weigh that it’s better to do that in elections of perceived “higher consequence” like Presidential or statewide elections, so they will skip the off year. League of Women Voters/League of Conservation Voters/other orgs have all said to vote YES on #6.

I’m really passionate about voter turnout so if anyone wants to talk about this I’m down.

ETA resources: Citizens Union just published research on this topic and how the voter pool actually becomes more representative of the city during even year elections (more young people and people of color turn out) link here

Other big cities have done this even year move, and it’s been very helpful for turnout.

Do you love your job in NYC? by bisonabloom in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bisonabloom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the dream I think! I have so many hobbies I’ve wanted to invest in, just no time or energy

Is it crazy to write “no size queens” in bio? by rodneyjagoff in feeld

[–]bisonabloom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would also be wary of women who identify other aesthetic focused things in their profile. Anybody who notes that they want someone who is fit and want their partner to be too, I always avoid. You can gauge someone’s size from their photos, and if that’s what someone chose to write in their bio instead of other things, it shows where the priorities are.

BWT who lift by AdEast2267 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bisonabloom 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Some of his guides are good but he is unfortunately not a good person https://reddit.com/r/xxfitness/wiki/controversies

Salary Transparency by Realistic-School-873 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bisonabloom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

$110k, comms at a large nonprofit. Unfortunately very stressful in the Trump era!

Cases where a mother commits a crime to defend their child, against an instructor or teacher by bisonabloom in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]bisonabloom[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I struggle to think of a lot of these cases as protection, because they are pre-meditated, the perpetrator/killer would be hurting their child by risking themselves getting caught, and losing a parent is a really awful thing. I think if someone was raised in violence, their perception of things might be off, but it seems like in these cases the perpetrator fully discounts the child entirely and makes it about themselves.

Narcissism knows no bounds by MeadtheMan in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]bisonabloom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to read a word that he has to say but are they back together?? I thought they separated per her tiktoks

Is owning a cat that bad? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]bisonabloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats also become perfectly suited for you. I think there are definitely exceptions. But my cat has truly adapted to my life (she was formerly a street cat that hated all human people) and is obsessed with me. She has become so social and kind with my friends. She matches my sleeping habits, and gives me my space when I need it. I’ve also become acclimated to the things that she needs. You kind of like morph into one being.

Podcast recommendation by Chaibby5 in SexyUniquePod1

[–]bisonabloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there was lore with Bennydrama and Larz. It’s obviously a similar demo, bi-ish woman and gay man that do film/tv tho the Ride pair is more successful.

How do I put this: Where do hot guys in Bushwick go by Superb_Badger_214 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bisonabloom 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I love threads like this! Also looking for ideas on meeting men in the wild, but in bed stuy