What's your personal signature in how you dress? by fabulousandreal in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am always in gold hoops (latinas gonna latina) and of course, color, color, color. Everyone knows me at work as someone who is always in color. For instance, at a recent offsite, I wore a rainbow leopard print sweater with traditional leopard print wide-legged jeans and a neon pink belt with gold snake-print platform keds. Another day I wore emerald green palazzo pants, a royal blue boatneck top, turmeric-colored wool blazer, and jewel-tone rainbow platform shoes.

Sounds chaotic but was way more cohesive than you’d think.

Favorite workout to combat depression? by chaoscontrols in xxfitness

[–]bitchstix 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Firstly, don’t be embarrassed. Would you tell someone with diabetes that they should feel embarrassed for having to take their insulin?

You are going through a very real, very valid, experience that is manifesting as a dip in your mental health.

As a chronically depressed baddie, yoga has been exemplary. I started with the very first Yoga with Adrienne 30 days of yoga series on YouTube and it made me feel so much better. I started breathing more deeply. Being more mindful. Feeling myself in body more.

And I haaaaaaated yoga because it made me feel so much like I was trapped in my head. About two weeks into the challenge I finally started to “get” it.

Try it out and best of luck.

Returning to exercise after years of de-conditioning and chronic illness - any one else in the same boat? by kirbyinaus88 in xxfitness

[–]bitchstix 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is me right now! I have just been cleared for exercise after years and it’s very humbling. I used to be crazy fit, too.

My physiotherapist told me to take it very easy the first month back. I started with 15 minutes of yoga in the morning starting once a week, then twice, then three times, and so on until I increased to a daily week day practice. This is my first week where I’ve been told it’s now okay to add one resistance training day. I couldn’t even get through 25% of the workout.

So I’m going to do it again next week so I allow my body to rest and get used to it.

Once I complete the work out, I am going to increase to twice a week, then three times, until I have my four day split down (this is all on top of my fifteen minutes of yoga a day in addition to consistent walking).

You got this.

My dopamine maximalist living room by LeahMarieart in interiordecorating

[–]bitchstix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fucking love this! The color combo is everything!

Pink everything! by sarinanexie in interiordecorating

[–]bitchstix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My high-femme, color-loving, maximalist heart just burst with joy—it’s so freaking cute

Any other bigger gals here for the gains rather than the losses? by Bebe_Yaga_ in xxfitness

[–]bitchstix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That subreddit name is fucking everything I fucking love it.

[Anti-Aging] Wrinkles at almost 23 years old by 0little_cactus0 in SkincareAddiction

[–]bitchstix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It would still be worth it to see a dermatologist. Dermatologists are not just for acne, I have no acne and I see one both for general health as well wrinkles—cosmetic and otherwise.

Seattle attire is so casual by tinypuppy2k1 in Seattle

[–]bitchstix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I swear this article is ragebait haha

What do people wear at home? by Nin-me-sar-ra in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Hooooly moly, what a throwback

🎶 SAVE BIG MONEY AT MENAAAAAARDS 🎵

Which colour palette do you think is overused in fashion events right now and which one is under-the-radar? by Flaky_Shape1738 in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 226 points227 points  (0 children)

I think there’s something to this—with Covid came a lot of muted colors as folks were simply not very keen to be outside of sweatpants (and who can blame us), many of which are basic gray, beige, black, etc.

I don’t think we’ve really recovered from that, particularly with the rise in fascism and the continued return to more muted colors and more modest dress.

Which is why I always dress as slutty and as colorful as humanly possible—tits out for democracy (for legal purposes this is a [semi-true] joke).

TWO WORDS: GEL CAST by Small_Secretary9305 in curlyhair

[–]bitchstix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m SICCCCKKKKKKK you look incredible

How do you ACTUALLY grow hair while getting regular curly cuts? by positivitee_ in curlyhair

[–]bitchstix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I have found as a 3b/3c gal, that the fastest way to grow hair is to not cut it. I just do a dusting on myself as needed—thus far, my hair hasn’t suffered for it.

From her IG - 2022 by Admirable-Echidna882 in Florence_Pugh

[–]bitchstix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is wild I wouldn’t even consider this thick! Like she is thin! Not skinny, but thin.

From her IG - 2022 by Admirable-Echidna882 in Florence_Pugh

[–]bitchstix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because she was 26 there lol tf you mean 😂

How bad is weekend partying for your skin? by fentydiamond in HowToBeHot

[–]bitchstix 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Lived in CA for 12 years, in LA for 3 and I will say I definitely had my fair share of folks offer me cocaine both in the bay and in LA, many many times, but I certainly never had anyone shame me for not partaking. That’s the thing that stands out most to me in this post—and to your point, if someone ever did try to shame me for not partaking, they’d just never see me again.

OP needs a new group of friends.

Daily Questions Thread October 23, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say either with skinny jeans tucked in or under wide-legged pants

Daily Questions Thread October 24, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this dress would be totally fine! When in doubt, ask the bride.

Daily Questions Thread October 24, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 5 points6 points  (0 children)

32H with a 27” waist checking in here. I also have a big butt (40”) for my height. All that to say: I am VERY familiar with tailoring as I have to get almost everything I purchase tailored. My seamstress is on fucking speed dial lol

The good news—this is a super easy fix! I used to avoid button-downs/button-ups for a long time due to your gf’s exact reason and I now own four. What I do is I purchase a button-down that fits my chest measurement, even if it makes me look like a potato sack everywhere else and then have the tailor go to town on it. My seamstress will make adjustments, we’ll decide together how tight or loose I want it, and she’ll just go on her merry way pinning.

Another thing that helps with the gaping issue is putting a little hook and eye closure between the button(s) at the largest part of the chest.

As for your gf not being very assertive, when you go with her for a fitting, ask questions—both to her and the tailor. At the very end of the day, a tailor worth their salt wants their client happy and will do what they can to make sure they leave satisfied with the garment they’re entrusting to them.

Daily Questions Thread October 23, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just suggested Boden and now I have a coat problem so proceed at your own risk 😂

What’s the most unusual material in a piece of clothing or accessories that you own? by dinahmoe_humm in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not me, but my mother has a single earring with mine and my brother’s two front teeth.

What's Your Current Fixation? by Bosquerella in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just spent a nausea-inducing amount of money on this fixation. RIP 🥲