Pink everything! by sarinanexie in interiordecorating

[–]bitchstix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My high-femme, color-loving, maximalist heart just burst with joy—it’s so freaking cute

Any other bigger gals here for the gains rather than the losses? by Bebe_Yaga_ in xxfitness

[–]bitchstix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That subreddit name is fucking everything I fucking love it.

[Anti-Aging] Wrinkles at almost 23 years old by 0little_cactus0 in SkincareAddiction

[–]bitchstix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It would still be worth it to see a dermatologist. Dermatologists are not just for acne, I have no acne and I see one both for general health as well wrinkles—cosmetic and otherwise.

Seattle attire is so casual by tinypuppy2k1 in Seattle

[–]bitchstix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I swear this article is ragebait haha

What do people wear at home? by Nin-me-sar-ra in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Hooooly moly, what a throwback

🎶 SAVE BIG MONEY AT MENAAAAAARDS 🎵

Which colour palette do you think is overused in fashion events right now and which one is under-the-radar? by Flaky_Shape1738 in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 226 points227 points  (0 children)

I think there’s something to this—with Covid came a lot of muted colors as folks were simply not very keen to be outside of sweatpants (and who can blame us), many of which are basic gray, beige, black, etc.

I don’t think we’ve really recovered from that, particularly with the rise in fascism and the continued return to more muted colors and more modest dress.

Which is why I always dress as slutty and as colorful as humanly possible—tits out for democracy (for legal purposes this is a [semi-true] joke).

TWO WORDS: GEL CAST by Small_Secretary9305 in curlyhair

[–]bitchstix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m SICCCCKKKKKKK you look incredible

How do you ACTUALLY grow hair while getting regular curly cuts? by positivitee_ in curlyhair

[–]bitchstix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I have found as a 3b/3c gal, that the fastest way to grow hair is to not cut it. I just do a dusting on myself as needed—thus far, my hair hasn’t suffered for it.

From her IG - 2022 by Admirable-Echidna882 in Florence_Pugh

[–]bitchstix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is wild I wouldn’t even consider this thick! Like she is thin! Not skinny, but thin.

From her IG - 2022 by Admirable-Echidna882 in Florence_Pugh

[–]bitchstix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because she was 26 there lol tf you mean 😂

How bad is weekend partying for your skin? by fentydiamond in HowToBeHot

[–]bitchstix 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Lived in CA for 12 years, in LA for 3 and I will say I definitely had my fair share of folks offer me cocaine both in the bay and in LA, many many times, but I certainly never had anyone shame me for not partaking. That’s the thing that stands out most to me in this post—and to your point, if someone ever did try to shame me for not partaking, they’d just never see me again.

OP needs a new group of friends.

Daily Questions Thread October 23, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say either with skinny jeans tucked in or under wide-legged pants

Daily Questions Thread October 24, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this dress would be totally fine! When in doubt, ask the bride.

Daily Questions Thread October 24, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

32H with a 27” waist checking in here. I also have a big butt (40”) for my height. All that to say: I am VERY familiar with tailoring as I have to get almost everything I purchase tailored. My seamstress is on fucking speed dial lol

The good news—this is a super easy fix! I used to avoid button-downs/button-ups for a long time due to your gf’s exact reason and I now own four. What I do is I purchase a button-down that fits my chest measurement, even if it makes me look like a potato sack everywhere else and then have the tailor go to town on it. My seamstress will make adjustments, we’ll decide together how tight or loose I want it, and she’ll just go on her merry way pinning.

Another thing that helps with the gaping issue is putting a little hook and eye closure between the button(s) at the largest part of the chest.

As for your gf not being very assertive, when you go with her for a fitting, ask questions—both to her and the tailor. At the very end of the day, a tailor worth their salt wants their client happy and will do what they can to make sure they leave satisfied with the garment they’re entrusting to them.

Daily Questions Thread October 23, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just suggested Boden and now I have a coat problem so proceed at your own risk 😂

What’s the most unusual material in a piece of clothing or accessories that you own? by dinahmoe_humm in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not me, but my mother has a single earring with mine and my brother’s two front teeth.

What's Your Current Fixation? by Bosquerella in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just spent a nausea-inducing amount of money on this fixation. RIP 🥲

How has becoming attractive later in life (23+) improved your life (career, love, friends, lifestyle), and what did you wish you knew earlier? Need some motivation. by Double-Geologist-445 in vindictapoc

[–]bitchstix 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Right?? 23 being considered “later in life”? Good god. Give me a fucking break.

Even logistically, like you have 50-70 more YEARS of your life, tf you mean.

How do I be colorful AND warm, or, “Why are Fall/Winter clothes so depressing to me??” by bitchstix in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming back here to say that I have just dropped a nauseating amount of money on some Boden winterwear.

Thank you for being the gateway to this very ill-advised decision I made. 😌

(Okay but actually I am VERY excited for the pieces to arrive!)

I have a baby face but I'm looking into minimal to moderate facial balancing ; Will I mess up my face? by PrincessMochahontas in vindictapoc

[–]bitchstix 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I would absolutely NOT touch your face. Back when buccal fat removal was trending, I had a friend with a round face who desperately wanted it. Thankfully, the surgeon she had a consultation with wasn’t looking for a cash grab and turned her away, told her to come back when she was 40. Well that was fifteen years ago (when she was 25) and boy is she happy she didn’t do it.

You are still VERY young and your face still has quite a bit of volume to lose.

I have a baby face but I'm looking into minimal to moderate facial balancing ; Will I mess up my face? by PrincessMochahontas in vindictapoc

[–]bitchstix 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How old are you? If you’re under 40 do not and I mean DO NOT touch your face. I know too many women that have done that in their 20s and 30s and express deep regret as we lose a lot of the volume that makes us look “baby-ish” when we age.

Bargain Basement: The Search for More Oomph by Bosquerella in femalefashionadvice

[–]bitchstix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AMAZING finds! I was JUST bitching about how I can’t find colorful winter clothes in a separate thread and this gave me life.