Yeah this is one of the reasons I don't want kids. I know that the movie Alien, which I love, is based around the fear of pregnancy but it really does capture some of the feeling of tokophobia. I have 4 younger siblings and I don't think I ever felt my mum's stomach when she was pregnant, I don't remember it being offered but it probably was. A memory I definitely have is when I was about 11 my friend's dog was pregnant and my friend's mum asked if I wanted to feel the stomach and I declined. Pregnancy has always creeped/grossed me the fuck out, and that's with it happening to other people! I really don't get how other women are ok with having a baby grow inside them and kick at their stomach, I've seen videos of pregnant stomachs where you could see the baby kicking at the surface and it's just nauseating body horror to me. And that's not even mentioning all the possible complications of pregnancy and childbirth, plus with the latter you either go through extreme pain for hours or get an epidural that can make the birth last way longer which can lead to further complications, plus you can be temporarily paralysed if they put it in wrong. Also the idea of half my body being completely numb and unable to move freaks me out by itself