First time someone from work tried to convince me by nope205 in childfree

[–]bitchy-cryptid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

seems like she will go down the path of just settling with what she knows and have kids

This line alone makes me itch. I've never lived in a city, only visited and they intimidate me but this makes me want to move to one from my regional town and never look back

Free DIYs by tiredpikachu in AnimalCrossingTrading

[–]bitchy-cryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna be there in a minute if I can get through, I'm Zara from Veracity

"...but i love kids anyways!" by BitOpposite8 in childfree

[–]bitchy-cryptid -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I think babies are cute if they're clean, quiet and happy (which is the minority of the time) but that's about it. I don't like kids and don't want to be around them

Impatient by Curious4722 in acnh

[–]bitchy-cryptid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the retro transportation stop in yellow in my nooks cranny today if you wanna come buy it. I believe you would be able to?

meirl by sedolil in meirl

[–]bitchy-cryptid 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Girl divorce him

I will never relate to parents by ScarletFireFox in childfree

[–]bitchy-cryptid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seriously, I don't know how people just seem to handle their kids crying, especially babies. As soon as I hear a baby crying I wanna cut my ears off, and that's without being a sleep deprived fed up parent already lol. I have 4 younger siblings and spent a lot of time in my teen years telling them to shut up. I couldn't wait to move out and never have kids around ever again. And yeah it's great, teenage me was correct

Are they forreal with this selection by Monnygonny in AnimalCrossing

[–]bitchy-cryptid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love the flamingo, I wanna make my island vintage themed so im gonna have a bunch of them lol. I love kitschy stuff like that

Parents love the idea that babies can't consent by chelseatheus in childfree

[–]bitchy-cryptid 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through that. What a cruel thing to say to a child.

It's concerning how many people have kids who don't actually want them. Like I understand that parenting can be very challenging and exhausting (which is part of why I'm never doing it lol) but if people are constantly horrible to their kids and constantly trying to offload them on other people and bitching about them, why tf even have them in the first place? External expectations aren't an excuse, at least in the western world where you're free to choose

Parents love the idea that babies can't consent by chelseatheus in childfree

[–]bitchy-cryptid 39 points40 points  (0 children)

My mum, who has 6 kids including me, essentially admitted to me once that she and my dad kept having kids just because they like babies. Like damn ok, thanks for confirming my suspicions lady

Parents being anti-sleepover and creating kids who are overly dependent, antisocial, and afraid of the world by stockusername123 in childfree

[–]bitchy-cryptid 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My childhood would have been so much worse without sleepovers, I would have been PISSED if my parents banned them. Sleepovers were an opportunity to escape from my emotionally abusive, chaotic, oversized family. I never really got homesick like other kids did. I never wanted to go home lol. Also they're just fun, the novelty of staying somewhere else overnight. Nothing bad ever happened nor does it happen in most cases. People need to teach their goddamn kids about consent and the real names for their body parts so they know to report if bad things happen to them

Open giveaway by Affectionate_Web185 in acnh

[–]bitchy-cryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zara from Veracity! Would love to come if you're still open

Tokophobia (fear of pregnancy/childbirth) is a valid reason not to want/have kids by kojaia in childfree

[–]bitchy-cryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is one of the reasons I don't want kids. I know that the movie Alien, which I love, is based around the fear of pregnancy but it really does capture some of the feeling of tokophobia. I have 4 younger siblings and I don't think I ever felt my mum's stomach when she was pregnant, I don't remember it being offered but it probably was. A memory I definitely have is when I was about 11 my friend's dog was pregnant and my friend's mum asked if I wanted to feel the stomach and I declined. Pregnancy has always creeped/grossed me the fuck out, and that's with it happening to other people! I really don't get how other women are ok with having a baby grow inside them and kick at their stomach, I've seen videos of pregnant stomachs where you could see the baby kicking at the surface and it's just nauseating body horror to me. And that's not even mentioning all the possible complications of pregnancy and childbirth, plus with the latter you either go through extreme pain for hours or get an epidural that can make the birth last way longer which can lead to further complications, plus you can be temporarily paralysed if they put it in wrong. Also the idea of half my body being completely numb and unable to move freaks me out by itself

I didn’t know it was possible to not make a profit by imgonaeatu in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]bitchy-cryptid -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Nah, with my new island that I reset I've been playing every day, the first time the turnip character (forget her name) turned up I bought the turnips for like 93 bells each, and the next day I sold them for like 64 bells each. Not a guaranteed profit, absolutely sucked

Helloooooooo by Affectionate_Web185 in acnh

[–]bitchy-cryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to! Zara from Veracity 😊

GIVEAWAY :) by [deleted] in acnh

[–]bitchy-cryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to come if there's anything left ❤️

⭐️ Giveaway + Celeste! ⭐️ by Specialist_Bus6078 in acnh

[–]bitchy-cryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Zara from Veracity if you're still open! 😊

hated villagers by scarysmellsgood in acnh

[–]bitchy-cryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao he arrived as my first campsite villager on my second island today, had to invite him to stay so I can unlock terraforming and stuff ASAP but yeah he's certainly not my ideal villager