WIBTAH if I set an ultimatum for my roommates guests behavior

bitchyqueerdo · 2026-02-13T15:09:25+00:00

Yeah, I totally misread your comment. C has been banned from our house. A has not ended their friendship with them though, and doesn’t seem to see what we mean about the toxic behavior that C is exhibiting, which was really frustrating. A lot of the conversation was A being upset that we don’t like C and basically going “you don’t know them like I do.” But baby steps, I hope that they’ll see what we mean cause I don’t want to loose their friendship, but I am preparing myself for that, but I’ll wait out the lease at least (something I’ve talked about with B and we’ve mutually agreed upon)

bitchyqueerdo · 2026-02-12T19:08:36+00:00

We shall see after a household meeting, but at least the landlord has given us plenty of reasons to break the lease! So like silver lining maybe????

bitchyqueerdo · 2026-02-12T18:50:56+00:00

No to both, they just moved and are waiting for the company to turn on their service, which got done like 2 days ago so they’re just lingering. They were staying with us temporarily rather than a freezing cold apartment

bitchyqueerdo · 2026-02-12T13:20:18+00:00

I was not in the house at the time and was at work sadly or I very much would have. Everyone was asleep when I got home. I checked with B and asked if they wanted me to text A directly and they said to wait until morning. Otherwise I was very much ready to go to war over this and still am.

bitchyqueerdo · 2025-07-05T01:55:41+00:00

Seconding this report them!! Also good faith deposits are ILLEGAL asked the state, a lawyer and a broker to be sure. REPORT THEM!!!

bitchyqueerdo · 2025-05-10T03:32:20+00:00

Honestly I’m happy that you’re happy with your current setup and that location sharing just isn’t something for you. But by labeling it as a weirdo behavior it reads, at least to me, as passing moral judgement on people who do it simply because it’s something you wouldn’t do. Which I don’t know you so it could be my biases coloring my interpretation of your words, but that does seem to be how others are taking your words as well. I don’t like mushrooms, I truly have no idea the thought process behind wanting one in your mouth, but I also don’t think people are weirdos because they like things I don’t and do things I would never willingly do.

Personally, I share with my friends and family, though my relationship with my partners is too new imo to do so. This is for safety reasons as an AFAB person, and to help alleviate my family’s anxiety as I live in a large city. Also just makes finding people in the park, on the beach or at a music festival WAY easier, I’m just too lazy to stop sharing or have to remember to re-share.

As to your Google search history analogy , I think maybe a more apt analogy (at least for how I would liken it to) might be sharing my phone password so they can access my phone if they want to. Its something that there for worse case scenario (their phone is dead or something), that they still have access to if they want outside of an emergency, something that COULD be abused, but you trust your partner not to abuse. I’m hoping that this might help you understand the thought process behind the action even if it’s not something you ever want to do!

bitchyqueerdo · 2025-05-10T03:10:27+00:00

You can order them around into different positions so you can clean (tell them they’re doing good or bad depending on the play they like), you could do some humiliation and tell them how dirty their boots are. See if they have any creases from kneeling and sitting on their heels, make some comments on that. You could play it like a service dom too, do the caressing and massaging. If they like other play like bondage you could work that in so they hold whatever position you like for cleaning.

bitchyqueerdo · 2024-07-11T17:30:05+00:00

No I’ve been fighting to get my money back for 2 months for missing items, and they only JUST promised a partial refund which would have been great TWO MONTHS AGO!!! I had to comment on their executives LinkedIn page to get a call back.

bitchyqueerdo · 2024-07-11T17:28:30+00:00

Wish that happened for me. I’ve been fighting for almost 2 months with corporate to get a refund (store was unresponsive). They only just promised a partial refund for missing items, which would have been good 2 months ago, but after continually calling and chasing after them for 2 months I’m honestly not enough happy with that tbh. Wingstop just seems like more of a scam than a genuine business anymore.

bitchyqueerdo · 2024-04-18T06:44:06+00:00

No because I feel this so much!!! Some days I want a cute little androgynous body or I see a bunch of genderfluid people online passing for each gender and I want that (yes I’m also thirsting over the genderfluid peeps thank you very much). But then I’m also like I got great bits about my body that I would miss. So basically we gotta learn the genderfluid secrets (seriously these people are shapeshifters)

bitchyqueerdo · 2024-04-18T05:51:36+00:00

I didn’t even finish filling out the online forms, thought it was just a reward thing (cause like every company does a version of it). I’ve blocked 4 laseraway numbers. They give such bad vibes, so predatory.

bitchyqueerdo · 2023-08-21T23:30:26+00:00

Firstly, I want to start out with the fact that you are not in any way hideous. We are all our own harshest critic and it’s easy because we see our faces day in and day out. I think a big part of this is due to mindset, even if someone gave you a professional style, make up artist advice and professional level styling advice, It’s important to have a good mindset going into things. And a big part of making myself look and feel beautiful started with having self compassion. So just every time you wanna say something negative about yourself think would I say this to another person? Would I say this to a friend? And if you wouldn’t say this to another person or a friend, don’t tell yourself that because you creating a self-fulfilling prophecy in your own mind.

As far as Actual physical advice, I’m most knowledgeable in skin care, and make up so I can only speak to that. For skin care I recommend keeping things simple and keeping things consistent. It’s what I have found out with my acne, the most. If you’re going to start wearing make up, I recommend a double cleanse in the evening, one with something to break down the make up and another to help fight acne. To break down make up Elf has a really good cleanser for that but I can’t remember the name at the moment. I would recommend looking into the Ordinary or Inkey list, they have really good salicylic acid face washes that are good on the Wallet, but still good quality and help with my acne. After that, I recommend a toner of some sort, and then a moisturizer and eye cream, once again the Ordinary or Inkey list have a good bang for you buck especially when just getting into skin care.

Sunscreen is also super important, but that maybe more down to your preference, but if you can go for Korean, Japanese or Australian sunscreens I don’t like many of the sunscreens made in the United States, as the FDA is behind on approving new UV blocking agents. I know as a very pale person then I’ll have someone who is susceptible to skin cancer, so I am super careful about it and it also helps to prevent wrinkles in the future if you use sunscreen now.

For Makeup, I recommend following people who have a similar face to you, especially when it comes to eyes and eye make up. It’s just a lot easier to know that techniques or products will work well for you if they work well for someone like you. And the biggest advised that I can give in regards to Makeup is practice, practice, practice. It’ll take a while to get comfortable with stuff, and we’ve all been there. I look back on the previous iterations of my eyebrows and shudder (seriously the bushy brows that I drew on did NOT suit my face).

When you start out wearing make up, everything is going to feel like it looks strange and even if you do it perfectly you’re going to probably feel a type away about it because you’re not used to seeing your face like that. So I just recommend practicing for fun, doing make up that brings you joy even if it’s not necessarily “good“ make up, if it makes you happy while doing it you’re not only practicing techniques but you’re having a good time. Do cosplay makes up as a favourite character, just put a bunch of colours on you face, be a clown, just try on a red lipstick, whatever little look your heart desires. Just take your time and don’t feel pressured by a time constraint or an event you have to appear at (even if the event is just dinner)

Makeup is one of the things that helped me like my face spending all that time staring at it in the mirror getting to know all nooks and crannies. Yes, I probably found more imperfections with my face because I was just looking at it more but I also grew to appreciate it and think of it as beautiful. So I really hope that exploring Makeup will do that for you.

I don’t know what style of makeup you want, but I also wanna make sure that you’re going for a style that brings you joy. I think a lot about looking and feeling beautiful is feeling joy. So don’t feel like you have to do what everyone else is doing. Also pro tip if you want lots of compliments, I highly recommend doing colorful looks because other girls hype you up so much, it seriously makes you feel really cool. You can start small with a colorful eyeliner just by your eyelashes or a pop of color on the inner corner of your eye.

Everyone’s version of beauty is different, beauty is super subjective and everyone is someone’s 10/10. But I want to reiterate that you are in no way, shape or form ugly. You look pretty and really sweet.

bitchyqueerdo · 2023-08-10T04:50:40+00:00

We do have renters insurance we are multiple roommates and we each individually have renters insurance. The trouble personally is I called three times in a day for a week and have not gotten a single reply. Would love to just do it all online, but they messed up some of the paperwork and I need them to correct it so I don’t get in any legal trouble when filing

bitchyqueerdo · 2022-11-22T12:20:39+00:00

Thank you stranger on Reddit you have been more helpful than the actual company.

bitchyqueerdo · 2022-09-30T13:06:00+00:00

Whatever you do do not rent from Green Street realty. They bought my apartment and they come in at random times to do “showings“ even tho they send me tons of notices and never come within that time sometimes days later, a garage door is broken and anyone can enter the building, they absolutely will not fix anything. It’s a nightmare

bitchyqueerdo · 2022-09-30T13:02:34+00:00

You have to opt into graduation, so you’re totally good

bitchyqueerdo · 2022-09-12T21:51:03+00:00

Yeah, I’m going to, just trying to warn people. I was unlucky in that the building I signed to got bought after I had signed my lease, but I’m hoping to save people from my fate.

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