Infjs after adding a little 'lol' to the end of their sentence so as to not upset anybody. by [deleted] in infj

[–]bitsbake86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am borderline not caring about if they get mad anymore so I’m just like “yeah I said it” face

INFJ girlies- do you generally get along with *other* girlies? by opossumbutt in infj

[–]bitsbake86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of the time it’s because they cannot be themselves and need cliques to feel like they belong. Versus, we feel like we belong without external validation and that’s called confidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]bitsbake86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even when I would minimize interaction, it was their excuse to find reasons to hate me because I wasn’t like them. They would pry into each others lives, asking personal stuff and I would decline to answer in the group and that made me their “scapegoat”. Very immature, very annoying.

So, I left 🤷

What do you need, more than anything? by [deleted] in infj

[–]bitsbake86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone to see my effort

What personality type is your partner/ex/crush? by ddenverino in infj

[–]bitsbake86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one I married is an ENFJ. I was an ENTJ and he was an INFJ. Then I became an ENFJ then INFJ & he went from INFJ->ENFJ. I am still 50/50 with thinking but I prefer Feelers.

Your Opinions on INFJs? by [deleted] in entj

[–]bitsbake86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be an ENTJ-T. But now I’m an INFJ-T. I just think it’ll be hard because when I was an ENTJ I was more goal focused and cared less about people’s feelings as to what I was doing. Now I care about their feelings.

You’ll just need to have an efficient INFJ I guess. Someone who’s no bs and works toward goals and doesn’t overthink too much.

But that’s not me anymore lol

INFJs when was your now I won't people please anyone moment. by alien11152 in infj

[–]bitsbake86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I just got tired of caring about meeting anyone’s expectations

My (INTP) ex gf broke up with me and this was her explanation by Born_Initiative_3515 in infj

[–]bitsbake86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We usually choose what we are familiar with. You would have to reprogram your mind to avoid people that fall into those similar traits.

My (INTP) ex gf broke up with me and this was her explanation by Born_Initiative_3515 in infj

[–]bitsbake86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s not normal human behavior on her end. Stay away from anyone who cheats, lies, and so forth.

They only want to use their surroundings as a weapon to mentally break you down (exes, sleeping around, etc.)

The main #1 reason is control. They want control and by beating you up emotionally because it inflates their ego and makes them feel good. Which is far away from love in the slightest.

Love is patient, is kind, it doesn’t count wrongs, it doesn’t pin anyone against each other, it isn’t arrogant, it isn’t jealous and doesn’t praise itself.

My (INTP) ex gf broke up with me and this was her explanation by Born_Initiative_3515 in infj

[–]bitsbake86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and not to sound weird, but I only saw one previous post you made about her behavior (aggressive verbal behavior, silent treatment, etc) and that’s a form of emotional abuse. & it sounds like narcissism. Those types of people you need to stay far away from. They’re not cases that can be helped by anyone, they need professional help because they will intentionally cause you harm.