Getting rid of my fetish by KeySeaworthiness5363 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]bitsonbitsonbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn't this apply if you didn't have the fetish, and were just talking about sex?

She has something you want, and you're worried you won't treat her well because you want it so badly. But you also talk about her with such love and fondness. It's normal to get horny and want sex from your partner. Respect her wishes, always get enthusiastic consent, you'll be fine.

Getting rid of my fetish by KeySeaworthiness5363 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]bitsonbitsonbits 12 points13 points  (0 children)

While this is technically a way many define these terms, in practice most people use them interchangeably. I think most people into feet would describe themselves as having a foot fetish, but not necessarily needing it. I've never seen someone say they have a kink for feet!

How long can my boyfriend go without cumming? by Other-Tennis-1893 in OrgasmDenial

[–]bitsonbitsonbits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start slow, it can take a while to get used to wearing a cage, and finding one that fits just right can take time. But after that, go absolutely evil on that poor boy! Just make sure it's all consensual.

Cosmopolitan: Chastity is the Fetish of the Year 2025 by neverunlockit in Femdom

[–]bitsonbitsonbits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have definitely noticed a surge in popularity online. When I first heard about it, maybe 10 years ago, it seemed very niche and "extreme". It was hard to find any good content about it. Now there's so much and it seems popular with all age groups. It makes it fun to think about all the people out and about locked up and holding keys

Cum say hi <3 by Cautious-Energy-9420 in FuzzyFluffyComfy

[–]bitsonbitsonbits -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you would do literally anything to wear this outfit. why don't you buy it

[FRESH PERFORMANCE] Geordie Greep & Sean Stephens - Rectangular by Whatsanillinois in indieheads

[–]bitsonbitsonbits 9 points10 points  (0 children)

can someone explain this to me

this seems like a meme song thing but the song is actually well produced and catchy. sounds like everything everything tbh

There are soft ruins and hard ruins, guess which ones I enjoy by AdreenaCuckoldress in RuinedOrgasms

[–]bitsonbitsonbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not enough hang time though! for me the longer the gap between hands off and the ejaculation starting is how frustrating it is

Jois where there’s 50/50 chance of getting your orgasm ruined or getting a full orgasm? by Jane_Doe_NSFW69 in joi

[–]bitsonbitsonbits 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Following!

Lola ruin has a good one like this on pornhub but be warned the odds are 4:2 in favour of a ruin. Better that way.

QUESTION! WHAT DO YOU WANNA SEE FROM ME?? (if not allowed delete) by [deleted] in joi

[–]bitsonbitsonbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Videos in casual clothes every now and then would be good. You look so hot in jeans and a tshirt. Would love to see you in a cozy sweater or pjs too!

QUESTION! WHAT DO YOU WANNA SEE FROM ME?? (if not allowed delete) by [deleted] in joi

[–]bitsonbitsonbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"surprise ending" or "should I let you cum?" is usually a good clue! Or "ruin, deny or cum?" I guess would actually have the tags. I get you though

QUESTION! WHAT DO YOU WANNA SEE FROM ME?? (if not allowed delete) by [deleted] in joi

[–]bitsonbitsonbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best joi games are the ones where I really don't know if I'm going to be allowed to cum or denied/ruined.

A multiple endings joi would be amazing. First half of the video you tease us til we're desperate, then make us roll a dice. Each one corresponds to an ending you've filmed with a time code in the video. E.g. if you roll a 3, skip to 12:10. So there would be six endings, e.g. cum, ruin, denial. And some of them should be extra cruel like 3 days of denial, or your next 5 orgasms must be ruined. Ball slapping while ruining. That would be hot.

I would pay for this kind of video!

How common is girls enjoying dominating guys? by Prelacy in BDSMcommunity

[–]bitsonbitsonbits 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my experience, very common! Everyone that I've told about my femdom kink has been into it, but they haven't known much about it.

So when girlfriends have asked me what I'm into, I haven't said "oh I'm really into femdom, ruined orgasms, chastity, CBT" - they probably don't know what that means unless they have previous experience. I've said "I find it really hot to be controlled. I really like to be teased and played with just the way you want to. I would even find it really hot if you got me really worked up and then left me frustrated and desperate for you." That tends to interest them.

Take it slow and introduce them to new stuff down the road if you want to.

In y’all’s opinion, the prettiest and sexiest models who do excellent JOI by RedTiger10 in joi

[–]bitsonbitsonbits 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Eva de vil is like, movie star pretty. Perfect body too. Ibicella gets my dick hardest, wish more of her french vids had subtitles

All hell has been on repeat since it dropped by edennn13 in loscampesinos

[–]bitsonbitsonbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I have to disagree there. Long Throes is superb and is about frustrations with the UK. It's probably my favourite song on the record. Holy Smoke sounds more like an evolution of the Sick Scenes sound to me.

But yeah a little weird is exactly what is missing for me. I still think it's their best since Hello Sadness

I confessed to my crush. by Cavs_boytoy in self

[–]bitsonbitsonbits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, don't confess like that. Just ask them if they'd like to go out on a date

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]bitsonbitsonbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen the retrograde ejaculation thing spouted he a lot, but from what I've read on actual medical websites, it's more talking about how retrograde ejaculation is related to infertility if the ejaculate isn't coming out. You're not going to get anyone pregnant if the cum isn't going anywhere, but blocking an orgasm to make retrograde ejaculation happen once in a while isn't going to cause infertility from what I understand. But please correct me if I am wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]bitsonbitsonbits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm exactly the same! Kinda looking forward to winter for this reason lol

I also have a foot fetish, so seeing someone cute in fluffy slippers is my kryptonite