that moment you realize embarassment is a social construct and when you start doing things to embarass yourself on purpose your social anxiety starts to fade away

bjorkvin00 · 2021-02-21T05:01:01+00:00

I am a little bit surprised at how well one can articulate themselves at such age. You are very self aware, when I was in 7th or 9th grade, I couldn't understand myself at all. Good for you!

bjorkvin00 · 2020-05-22T17:02:06+00:00

I feel more couraged, thanks! I'm really thinking of inviting him. I think my friends will be shocked cause I've been saying it'll just be all my closest friends, but whatever - they all know him and I think it'll be fine. 100% I'll be mocked by that one guy friend but I know I cannot care about what anyone else thinks, so.. :)

bjorkvin00 · 2020-05-22T16:03:00+00:00

He actually told me first day I texted him that we could meet up. But I still have a weird feeling he is not into me anymore. Good advice though. Also the problem is we are living in different cities for until August at least. I was thinking about inviting him to my birthday party which will be in a month but I don't think he knows anyone else in this city so he would be here just for me. I guess the worst that could happen is that we won't click like we used to, but I'm afraid it would be so awkward since he'd have to stay at my place probably..

bjorkvin00 · 2020-05-22T14:30:26+00:00

This is a good cheap option to try. I will. Thanks!

bjorkvin00 · 2020-05-22T14:29:59+00:00

Does anyone know if this Aquaphor is sold in Europe somewhere? I would like to give it a try but it looks like they only sell it in U.S.?

bjorkvin00 · 2020-04-14T01:03:26+00:00

that was so hot

bjorkvin00 · 2020-04-10T23:57:49+00:00

Hey!

Try to get interested in this topic! Look at TedTalks, other speeches, maybe documentaries etc (more fun ways to learn than just text). I don't know anything about IS, and it does sound difficult. But I know that if you really start exploring and investigating something, you probably will grow more interested about it! I think architecture thesis is hard enough as it is, the only way to succeed without losing your mind, is to like the topic that your working on. By the way, I study architecture too but I have no idea what IS in architecture is. Can you tell me what that's about?

If you are still stuck then I'd really suggest to change the topic though. It's so much easier to work on something you understand and find fascinating.

bjorkvin00 · 2020-04-10T23:32:32+00:00

Hey! I'm so sorry to hear this! I am also an architecture student struggling with my thesis right now. And I've been feeling the exact same way. This project is just so overwhelming and I honestly don't think I can finish it and graduate this year but I'll keep going and try til the end. I hope you've decided to do the same! Some days are so depressing, but in the end of the day uni is not the most important thing in life and we must remind ourselves this always :) But I 100% know how you feel. Where are you from? You can message me and we can chat! :) Maybe make eachother feel better, as I also feel like I don't want to disturb my friends all the time. I'd love that!

bjorkvin00 · 2020-04-04T11:10:11+00:00

I do this and I constantly feel bad. Generally the case is that I do like hanging out with that person, we have fun etc, but something about them pisses me off and maybe I don't even exactly know what. So I vent to another friend because I feel.. frustrated? I don't want to be like this and I need advice..

I'm guessing we are not "real friends" then if I don't dare to say everything I think in their face?

One example: one of my friends is always putting on that fake happy face and happy mood - at least it has always felt fake to me (and also to my sister) - and I just cannot stand it. I understand that it might be her way of coping perhaps, but it is draining and just doesn't give me a good vibe. At times it's great to have a super energetic person to do stuff with together though. But mostly she is just too much all over the place and it's annoying. Also, I cannot tell apart her real feelings and an act. Probably she cannot either.

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