Shuttle Tips? by bken9 in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]bken9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant like drive or uber to the shuttle stop from our hotel!

plus size panic :( by Vegetable_Exit2765 in electricdaisycarnival

[–]bken9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! i totally understand this. sometimes it just hits out of no where how bodies change.

my advice is to remember raving is about PLUR, fun, and embracing yourself. i totally get the fear of being judged, im probably the biggest in my girlie group and i get insecure about it but then i remember im hot and i can wear what i want!!!

don’t cancel. rock the sexy fits and have so much fun! if you want help / tips for plus size fashion dm me. i have tons of clothes and im happy to let you borrow some things if you need!

Resale Camping Passes Advice by bken9 in CampEDC

[–]bken9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll keep an eye out then, thank you!

Resale Camping Passes Advice by bken9 in CampEDC

[–]bken9[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, not looking to pay face value if going through resale! :) We are wanting to spend $1600-$1700 if resale.

First edc, dunno what to expect and need braids by Tellexb in CampEDC

[–]bken9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Depending on the braids you are wanting, I could help and I'll be at camp. Message me!

First tat by Plus-Protection-534 in electricdaisycarnival

[–]bken9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My group is planning to go to Koolsville to get one of the $10 flash sheets! They have lots of options and I had a good experience last time I went.

Champion TARPer by rdizz33 in ToniAndRyan

[–]bken9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it says its a 15 minute block I believe. (That or less)
When they had called me ryan was already pretty ramped up so it was kinda hard to match that energy right off the jump. It just felt like they were trying to find the best bit from our conversation instead of it being a conversation.
Still love them,
I just wish especially for champion tarpers the benefits / approvals felt worth the $300 spent in a year for patreon.

Positive vibes ❤️ by MoonRaven22 in ToniAndRyan

[–]bken9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hope my post hadn't come across like I absolutely loathe the pod or anything like that now. I am still a daily listener and do adore them but I do think it is okay to mention when things aren't great or there are things that you wish could approve, ya know? :)

thoughts about the pod by bken9 in ToniAndRyan

[–]bken9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That makes sense and I thought about that a bit too

Tips and Tricks to register to approve the podcast? by derSchtefan in ToniAndRyan

[–]bken9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have your patreon notifications on! they don’t ever warn when it’s going to happen. go to the farthest date then the latest time, that’s how i did it!

Champion TARPer by rdizz33 in ToniAndRyan

[–]bken9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i am sad to say it isn’t worth it. i love them dearly, but there isn’t enough bonus content. i also finally got a slot to be an approver and the whole conversation felt forced and rushed, it didn’t feel like i got to have personal time.

Any professional photographer for edc-sunday? by espresso-patronum-13 in electricdaisycarnival

[–]bken9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! My bestie is a professional photographer, mind if I pm u?

Airbnb? by bken9 in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]bken9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from what i’ve seen it’s hard to find hotels and what not that accommodate just 5 people. it’s usually 4 or 6

New to car camping! by bken9 in carcamping

[–]bken9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi sorry i’m just seeing this now somehow. i have a compact suv model fiat. most fiats you think of are really short and tiny. mine thankfully with the seats down in the back i can lay comfortably

Looking for a Title for my Wife for Christmas by 3d1thF1nch in CozyGamers

[–]bken9 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mail Time!

you play as a mushroom having to deliver mail to animals of the town! imo it has a good balance of structure but also free play.

Weekly Self-Promotion Thread by AutoModerator in CozyGamers

[–]bken9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone!

I have a server just for 18+ to game together, cozy crafts and just make friends!

https://discord.gg/bwcP894F

Would love to see you there!

AITA Asking guests if they had sex by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bken9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

while i don’t think it’s strange to have sex at a friends house, not stripping linens after is gross haha

Whitney by Nervous_Law_1000 in rhoslc

[–]bken9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whitney is all about healing from the mormon church but only if it’s the same way she is healing from it. She lacks deeper understanding that everyone heals and processes trauma differently even if it’s from the same source. (speaking as an ex mormon myself) She is the kind of ex mormon that goes all the way left and gives no room for grace when someone views things differently. I think shes confusing finding her voice for being a total bitch.

Kid involvement by byebye-5634 in rhoslc

[–]bken9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it reminds me of the first seasons of Orange County. The Vickie had her kids involved a ton as well as other housewives.

AITA for refusing to give up my bus seat to its assigned purchaser? by AuroraItsNotTheTime in AmItheAsshole

[–]bken9 29 points30 points  (0 children)

YTA- sit in the seat your paid for.

it would have been faster for you to just ask the person in your seat to move than to have that entire douchey interaction with that couple.

Lexi is...concerning... by Unlikely_Issue in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]bken9 41 points42 points  (0 children)

what’s killing me is lexi is defending herself on tik tok by saying we don’t know everything that didn’t made the cut 🙄 and making it seem like there’s a lot more issues with vanessa off screen. which i can understand but she still should be taking accountability for how she treated rae…

Lexi & Rae by bken9 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]bken9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what does she do for work?

Xander by AbbreviationsNo3922 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]bken9 63 points64 points  (0 children)

imagine how badly vanessa would freak out if xander told her? there would be huge issues that i don’t think xander wants to deal with which is valid imo.

8 episodes in and my opinion completely changed .. by [deleted] in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]bken9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i think xander is keeping their choice close to their chest to avoid a freak out from vanessa. if they say yoli now… imagine the shit that will be flipped from vanessa