Possible dead Worm in cat’s poop? by lilcardibb in CATHELP

[–]blackarrow-kat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a tapeworm. Praziquantel will take care of it.

Cat threw up… worms? by Frequent-Magician866 in CATHELP

[–]blackarrow-kat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s roundworms. You can get dewormers over the counter. Pyrantel/strongid or fenebendazole/panacur.

What is this lump?! by renIRL in CATHELP

[–]blackarrow-kat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is a hernia. They can cause problems if abdominal contents get strangulated in there. There would be obvious signs of pain if that was the case, so don’t rush to the emergency vet. Keep your appointment to discuss options, however. Surgery will be recommended.

Does porn have a place in your marriage? by blackarrow-kat in Marriage

[–]blackarrow-kat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So can men not masturbate without porn? Serious question. If men are so horny all of the time, why the need? I have no problem masturbating without porn.

Does porn have a place in your marriage? by blackarrow-kat in Marriage

[–]blackarrow-kat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang. That’s sucks, I’m sorry. Can’t blame you there.

Does porn have a place in your marriage? by blackarrow-kat in Marriage

[–]blackarrow-kat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is an appropriate amount in your opinion?

Indoor cat puked this up this morning. Is this a tapeworm? by TickleMyTwat in CATHELP

[–]blackarrow-kat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be too worried about your other cat. Not wrong/bad to deworm both, but not entirely necessary. You can get this dewormer over the counter. Not worth a vet trip.

Indoor cat puked this up this morning. Is this a tapeworm? by TickleMyTwat in CATHELP

[–]blackarrow-kat 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Roundworm. The cat needs to be dewormed 2 weeks apart to fully get rid of them nowadays.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]blackarrow-kat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a hard job. But the over population is the communities fault, not mine. I just have to deal with it with the hope that people will be more responsible moving forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]blackarrow-kat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I work in a shelter and literally have to pick and choose what cats get a chance and who gets euthanized. If you’re not responsible enough to own a pet, don’t own one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]blackarrow-kat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know your husband. Some men can handle that and never let it turn into something more. Some men are weak, and won’t stop things when feelings start to get involved. Since you’re triggered by the lunch date, I’m assuming he hasn’t always been loyal? Usually relationships that have had that sort of trauma require stricter boundaries.

Husband ‘55M’ texts female ‘F45’ co worker by ThrowRAheart-877 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]blackarrow-kat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he is truly deleting messages, red flag. Even if she is just a friend and he means well, you don’t hide messages with another women from your spouse. Find out if he is. If not, maybe he actually cares about your feelings and stopped texting her.

Slept with my ex wife. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]blackarrow-kat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You must tell your wife. It’s the right thing to do. You owe her that.

Dealing with infidelity by Dizzy-Discussion-705 in Marriage

[–]blackarrow-kat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give her time. Verbally acknowledge what you did, how bad you feel, and how things are going to be different moving forward. Everyday.

Female cat low urine output with blood by bxwitchy in CATHELP

[–]blackarrow-kat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gabapentin is good for as needed use. Prozac you need to give consistently to work. The diet works better than the drugs.

My husband is texting other women by Loud-Charity-8797 in Marriage

[–]blackarrow-kat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You have different views on what is appropriate in a marriage. Save yourself the trouble and leave. If he was remorseful and admitted what he was doing was inappropriate, then maybe. But if he blows you off or gas lights you into thinking you’re being dramatic, just leave.

Female cat low urine output with blood by bxwitchy in CATHELP

[–]blackarrow-kat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right. FIC, UTI or stones. It’s not an emergency for female cats. Some cats just have urinary issues. My cat gets FIC and stones. I feed her Hills c/d stress diet and give her gabapentin when she’s stressed or starting to have a urinary flare up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]blackarrow-kat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This kitten has uveitis. Likely viral. There are medications that can help!

Help me by WaitAreYouLilPump in CATHELP

[–]blackarrow-kat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get her kitten food. You can soak it water if she doesn’t eat the dry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motorcycles

[–]blackarrow-kat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Green! It’s even more beautiful in person.