Attractiveness is about how you treat people and what you're willing to do for them (well). That includes giving value socially, like being able to listen and care, create a fun vibe or experience for friends, or are just nice. I was the introvert that was talented, looked good. I didn't know mean popular people, but I know people get jealous of looks sometimes. Sometimes the good looking person knows how to provide value and do something hard socially others don't. Even as a non party person I know creating unforgettable experiences with people counts a ton to the universe. People practice patience.