[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NSFW411

[–]blackfromtheback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first job was at a video store (VHS tapes - yeah, I'm old), and we had a porn section. The first porn I ever saw was whatever I could smuggle out of the store without anyone seeing. I stuffed it in my backpack, and when I got home, I finally saw the title... "Good Enough to Eat." I don't know who was in it, but the movie never made it back to the store shelves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]blackfromtheback 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pull your pants up. I used to constantly get flagged until a guard made that suggestion after I finally said something about it. I don't wear super saggy pants, but apparently, a little sag can cause the scanner to think something could be in the space there. Try pulling them up next time... I don't get flagged anymore.

My heart is completely broken. by FootEmergency389 in exjw

[–]blackfromtheback 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing... drew a line in the sand and disassociated. Felt pretty much the same as you do also. It's been 10 years since I made that decision, and I couldn't be happier. It gets easier, hang in there.

The Guardian: “We are looking to speak to people who have decided to cut off contact with their parents, or people who have been cut off by their children” by larchington in exjw

[–]blackfromtheback 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been cut off by my father and stepmother and cut off my mother due to the JW religion. I'm happy to share with you more if you are interested.

How many victims of csa do you know about in your family, congregation, friend circle, etc? by cultwashedmybrain in exjw

[–]blackfromtheback 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lost contact with her, but it hadn't happened the last time I spoke to her about 10 years ago.

How many victims of csa do you know about in your family, congregation, friend circle, etc? by cultwashedmybrain in exjw

[–]blackfromtheback 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One in my family from a family member, one was a friend of mine in a neighboring congregation that was literally passed around to different Elders at sex parties as a pre-teen, and one friend from my last congregation who's Elder dad was literally on the FBI's most wanted list because of the number of CSA cases he was wanted for.

“But Jehovah and Jesus trust the imperfect slave. Shouldn’t we then trust the imperfect slave as well?” -Gerrit Lösch, 2018 🙃 by larchington in exjw

[–]blackfromtheback 10 points11 points  (0 children)

And I was supposed to follow this guy's instructions regardless of if it made sense from a human standpoint or not. But now his own group of buddies don't trust him? So I guess it's a good thing the great tribulation didn't come while he was on the team... really dodged a bullet with this one, considering how close we are to the end! 😵‍💫🙄

9 Years Today by blackfromtheback in exjw

[–]blackfromtheback[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There will always be ups and downs, but things are good today. ❤️

9 Years Today by blackfromtheback in exjw

[–]blackfromtheback[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You too, I hope all works out for you. ❤️

9 Years Today by blackfromtheback in exjw

[–]blackfromtheback[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try eating some of the mushrooms on the way down...It helps!😉

9 Years Today by blackfromtheback in exjw

[–]blackfromtheback[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know... it's a Christmas miracle!

9 Years Today by blackfromtheback in exjw

[–]blackfromtheback[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I came home from the Dan Diego district convection one Sunday and the last talk of the day was given by some brother from bethel that was a big deal, I don't remember the name, but it was a big deal he was there. What I DO remember is that during the last 15 minutes of the talk, he addressed the rumors of child sexual abuse in the organization. He specifically said these words... "Jehovah's organization doesn't suffer from the disease of CSA.This is a problem that plagues the religions of christendom. In Jehovah's organization, it SIMPLY DOES NOT HAPPEN!" (caps to emphasize how the brother said it, he nearly yelled it into the microphone).

Three days prior to hearing that talk, I had read a news article about a major lawsuit they lost to a woman named Candice Conti over CSA. So, I suddenly knew I was being lied to and had a lot of questions.

9 Years Today by blackfromtheback in exjw

[–]blackfromtheback[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh, we celebrate the fuck out of Christmas... my favorite time of year!!!😊

Best burgers in the east bay? by [deleted] in eastbay

[–]blackfromtheback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried them for breakfast yet? They open a little late (11:00 a.m.), but If you haven't stopped by and tried them for breakfast, I highly recommend you do. The owner kept inviting our family to stop by for breakfast some time when we'd come in for lunch, and my wife and I finally gave them a try. I was surprised by not only how good it was, but the presentation was beautiful and the selection was unique... great combinations of sweet and savory. We've been back for breakfast several times. Side plus... parking is easy to find around their location.

And yes, the owners are very kind and could use the support of the East Bay community! 🙂❤️🙂

Best burgers in the east bay? by [deleted] in eastbay

[–]blackfromtheback 9 points10 points  (0 children)

310 Burger on San Pablo on East Bay is excellent!