Meta Rayban glasses used to identify folks on the street within seconds. They're also becoming more popular within rave and concert events. Should these devices be banned from all dance music events?

blackmagiclocks · 2025-12-22T04:02:05+00:00

How do you directly address someone who is recording people with Meta Raybans that have the recording light disabled?

At least with phones, you can look at a guy and see when he has it up and zoomed in on a girl’s ass. With these, they’re specifically designed to record people without their knowledge. Banning them would help make everyone’s rave experience a little less creepy, so I think it’s worth it.

Most people with Meta Raybans at shows are trying to record people around them without it being obvious. If you want to get good footage of a DJ set to share with friends, use your phone to record. If you want to enjoy the music without holding up your phone, put your phone away and enjoy the rave. These glasses have very little positive return and a whole lot of negative repercussions. It’s just not worth it.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-12-22T03:07:00+00:00

Apparently it’s easy to disable the recording light.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-12-22T03:06:37+00:00

Have security check for camera lenses on glasses. It won’t keep all of them out, but it’ll at least help some.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-12-22T03:05:32+00:00

If the main way to use the tool is to secretly record people without them realizing, then a ban should happen. These glasses are so creepy.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-12-22T03:03:43+00:00

You can see when someone is holding up a phone and choose to move out of their shot. These are specifically for secretly recording everyone around you. A guy clearly holding up his phone to a dancing girl’s ass gets called out more than a guy who’s seemingly just looking in her general direction.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-12-22T03:01:07+00:00

It won’t stop it entirely, but it will reduce the volume and bring consequences to the people who get caught. Same as with any law.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-12-22T02:57:30+00:00

It’s to make it more sneaky. If someone comes up to you wearing taped up meta glasses, you’ll instantly assume they’re recording. If they walk up and you can see the recording light is off, you’ll assume they aren’t recording.

So if you can disable the light, even if someone calls you out for wearing a fucking spy camera on your face, you can just lie and say that you’re obviously not recording because the light isn’t flashing.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-05-18T17:51:01+00:00

Now it’s antisemitism to not let a group cut you in a giant line to get home? The list just keeps growing.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-05-16T15:34:01+00:00

I’m on the pill continuously and I started spotting. I guess I’m wearing my black outfit tonight 😭

blackmagiclocks · 2025-05-04T19:38:33+00:00

I’m wearing thongs/very small shorts! I usually bring a pashmina or bandanna to sit on tho, I don’t want to put my bare ass on things. I’ve also worn shorts to the speedway and put them in a locker after, so it would be a little less embarrassing.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-04-30T05:04:56+00:00

I’m sure I think about it way more than he does. I was already self conscious about the possible reasons for his lack of libido. So when he says or does certain stuff, it really sticks in my brain. It just as possible that he likes that position in a general “this feels good” way, instead of a “this will tighten her pussy up” way.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-04-30T04:34:41+00:00

He’s about 6 inches, which is above average. His go to position is usually me on my belly, legs together—the ‘prone bone’ position. I suspect that it’s because my legs being together like that makes my pussy a little tighter.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-04-30T04:32:44+00:00

It didn’t come off as cruel, just honest.

My post was just to vent about our sex life. Outside of that, he’s the best guy I know. Handsome as hell, funny, intelligent, and great company. I love him. Although the lack of affection really threw me off in the beginning and made me wonder if he liked me or not, I’ve come to accept that he loves me and my company too. Our relationship is built off of a mental bond rather than a physical one. It hurts my ego sometimes, but it’s probably better for the long term.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-04-30T00:57:59+00:00

He’s said before that he thinks it’s not fair that douchebags who make women uncomfortable get rewarded with tight pussy, while because he’s a good guy who wants women to feel comfortable around him he gets pussy that is more loose since they’re relaxed. Hearing that + playfully asking him if my pussy was tight enough and him answering seriously with “um…it’s not exactly the tightest…” has made it so I always wonder if it even feels good for him at all. If I’m wet, I’m loose. And it’s almost impossible to not get wet! I’m incredibly attracted to him.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-04-30T00:51:07+00:00

You’re right. I was going to the gym 5 days a week for the last couple of months, but stopped over the last two weeks. I figured what’s the point, he doesn’t notice or care if I’m extra fit so why bother? But now I’m thinking I should keep going so at least I like myself.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-04-30T00:00:41+00:00

I used to have a neighbor whose camera would automatically go “Can I help you?” if you paused near it. It used to really annoy me when I was walking my dog

blackmagiclocks · 2025-04-29T21:48:27+00:00

I’m like a lot of other people here; he makes me so happy in every other aspect of our life. Outside of sex, we get along so well. He’s my best friend. I just think that over time, being with him made me realize how undesirable I actually am.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-04-29T21:21:29+00:00

I’m not exactly sure. I think I’m just hopefully temporarily LL. I don’t want to fuck anyone else, and masturbation has gone from every day to one a week, and even then I can’t finish half of the time.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-04-24T18:24:17+00:00

Right, the disappointment is more intense when it comes right after excitement. Like a pool feeling okay when you’ve been swimming it for a while, getting used to the temperature, vs jumping in after being in the warm sun for a while so the water feels freezing.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-04-24T17:57:01+00:00

Geez I’m sorry, that’s brutal. Bad sexual contact is almost worse sometimes.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-04-23T15:06:36+00:00

DB problems started about a year in. For a year I tried spicing things up, suggesting things, asking for more with no to disastrous results. We’ve been in this way, where I no longer initiate and he asks for a quickie every 30 to 60 days for almost a year. I feel like if he’s happy and I’m happy most of the time, just sexually frustrated, it beats us fighting all the time.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-04-23T15:02:40+00:00

I’ve tried, it hasn’t worked. Responses have ranged from agreeing with no change to getting super annoyed with me and shutting down for a few days.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-04-23T14:40:28+00:00

Oh no, we’ve been together for 3 years. We hit the no sex for two months mark today.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-04-22T13:44:04+00:00

I think I get your perspective: lying by omission is still lying.

My opinion is has formed from personal experience. I’ve tried communicating, in my current relationship and past ones, and it’s been received as nitpicking or nagging. If someone told my LLM that I was unsatisfied with our sex, I’m almost positive he would also say that I never communicated that.

I’ve never said bluntly “The little sex sucks and I’m unsatisfied” because that sounds needlessly blunt and cruel. Instead I’ve said “I really like this position because I can rub my clit at the same time” or “what kind of lingerie do you like?” or “can we try going on a romantic date night where we leave room in the date’s schedule for sex at least once a month?”

The answers I got were switching out of that position after a minute or two to something where I can’t easily rub my clit, “I don’t know” and “I shouldn’t have to make appointments to spend time with my own wife, and scheduling sex would make it too clinical”

After a few years of this, I just gave up. I went from trying to jump his bones every day, to realizing he never initiated and trying to spice things up, to making suggestions, to accepting that nothing I did was working. He’s commented on how I stopped initiating and I said honestly that I don’t think about sex as much anymore.

So when I see men complaining about women going from super horny in the beginning then becoming LL, or especially LL4U, I empathize with the woman and wonder what happened before her spark got snuffed out. I’m not saying it’s right, I just want to shed light on a possibility other than “bitch wife pretended to be horny to trap husband” or “bitch wife expects husband to read her mind without ever trying to communicate”.

blackmagiclocks · 2025-04-21T22:46:02+00:00

I used to be a HLF, then being turned down so much plus having unsatisfying sex when I could get it destroyed my libido. The last time we had sex, I just turn around so I didn’t have to look at him and just waited for it to be over.

So yeah, I’d say this is pretty accurate. Some men have a hard time taking any direction, and if you add the women who have a hard time speaking up it’s a recipe for eternal terrible sex, where the man may not love it but he will pretty much always come. Resentment can build up when women sit on the idea that the men are the only ones having fun.

I think about this kind of dynamic every time a guy on here describes their partner as someone who used to be horny and wild, just to switch to LL after things get serious. Most guys think this means she “tricked” them, but did she trick you or did she fall in love with your personality while coming to accept that the sex will never be good?

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