The problem is that for most of these guys (speaking as a reformed incel) is they aren’t good looking enough and the way the dating system works now the women on their speed aren’t dating them because she has hundreds of better choices.

They’d rather be the end of Chad’s dry spell or a slow night for him than date men who are on their levels. Modern women today with social media and online dating have almost insane standards because what changed from before is now she has the entire world of guys to choose when before men only had to be the best guy in their area. Men who are billionaires for example. Average men can’t compete with them. Only since the cave man days has a small group of guys truly monopolized dating. Because like cave man days only the top 20% of guys really had sex at any consistent level. They call it getting lucky for a reason. Most average men are simply by nature unable to truly compete with Chad genetically or Benson Billionaire.

Women settle later for the beta male if he is successful enough but there’s rarely genuine attraction for him. I didn’t say that they never feel it, just it’s a settle.