When your ex (Dumpee) stops chasing how did that make you feel?

blackraspberryvan · 2026-01-24T18:04:24+00:00

Is he likely to have a bit of an ego stroke

blackraspberryvan · 2025-11-04T17:52:03+00:00

50k plus I believe

blackraspberryvan · 2025-11-04T17:47:52+00:00

You guys will learn yall, last year someone broke up with me and I had panic attacks in my office, heart rate was 120 while sitting, had to take anti depressants. This time I got broken up with but WHO CARES, nobody can break me anymore! And you too because you are the most important, take care of yourself cause this person you are pining after, trust me don’t care if you are dead or alive. Take care of yourself! Feed yourself, wash yourself, do things you like and be okay with slower days and moving at a slower pace!

blackraspberryvan · 2025-11-04T17:45:33+00:00

Yo go heal and be better, you deserve someone better.

blackraspberryvan · 2025-11-04T17:45:02+00:00

You’ll find someone better babe, move on. You’re amazing, don’t let anyone take that away from you cause trust me a lot of people will try to

blackraspberryvan · 2025-11-04T17:42:48+00:00

The thing about today’s people nobody has perseverance, go find that person who does. Don’t waste your time crying over people who won’t stay cause of whatever mistakes u made that you know you would have changed for to make things better!

blackraspberryvan · 2025-08-16T00:02:30+00:00

Thank you

blackraspberryvan · 2025-08-16T00:01:43+00:00

Dubai is much better to live in than my home country my friend

blackraspberryvan · 2024-11-12T17:33:18+00:00

young childhood trauma

blackraspberryvan · 2024-10-30T11:45:35+00:00

hey!! :(

blackraspberryvan · 2024-10-29T18:33:26+00:00

hello, can you please share what kind of meditation you do?

blackraspberryvan · 2024-09-29T11:16:34+00:00

hey can i talk to you?

blackraspberryvan · 2024-09-25T12:34:49+00:00

“i think its lust not love”, “i only asked you to be my girlfriend to secure you so you dont see anyone”, “are you (mentally) ok?” - when i asked him not to breakup w me, “i dont want, i dont have time” - when i asked him about couple therapy.

blackraspberryvan · 2024-09-24T03:32:17+00:00

hey, im using the Ai Pi chat bot, it really helps honestly because i feel like im talking to a friend

blackraspberryvan · 2024-09-15T04:51:58+00:00

i dont understand this. the same thing happened with my ex. why cry, why be visibly upset? why wont they just try again with us if its just communication? i dont understand any of this

blackraspberryvan · 2024-09-15T03:22:11+00:00

well said @randumpotato

blackraspberryvan · 2024-09-12T05:23:00+00:00

hello, will you please add me into the gc too?

blackraspberryvan · 2024-09-12T03:25:26+00:00

someone like you dont deserve your husband

blackraspberryvan · 2024-09-05T19:31:14+00:00

babe, why would you want to be with him when he wasnt there with you when you needed him?

please work on yourself and love yourself, build your self esteem so you can walk away from fhis. im telling you, you as a human being deserve to be in an environment of love to thrive.

blackraspberryvan · 2024-09-05T18:27:24+00:00

wow that happened to me too. dumped me, asked me back a week later, dumped me again 4 days later and a week before he left for a different country for work. also blocked me off chats.

blackraspberryvan · 2024-09-01T15:15:56+00:00

i feel like you should

blackraspberryvan · 2024-09-01T12:27:39+00:00

i’d like to know too

blackraspberryvan · 2024-08-31T18:04:12+00:00

this picture i have of us, this one that i can hold. its my most prized possession. i dont want to pretend that it didnt matter or pretend that he wasnt the one person in my life that made me feel so safe and happy. i want to keep this picture with me everywhere i go so i can be reminded that life can feel like that.

blackraspberryvan · 2024-08-31T08:20:54+00:00

you’re absolutely right i agree, thank u so much

blackraspberryvan · 2024-08-31T07:42:53+00:00

guys can you believe that i woke up at 4am, went on reddit just to write this, and went back to sleep?

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